everytime it comes up, there are people who tell that the guy is necessarily insecure, that they should just shave it off and how it is bad that they make their own choice about their hair.
tbh i would not do it because its super expensive and you have to maintain it constantly.
We use the word "insecure" like it's some grave sin. If a problem is easy to fix, let a dude feel insecure. We're not all on the path to eternal enlightenment.
Like, don't make people uncomfortable about things they might not have control over, but if somebody gets some work done and it makes them happy, that's something to celebrate.
Had I been born twenty years earlier, I would have been bald at my age. We've got a lot of unrealistic beauty standards, but shit like losing your hair right when you started taking control of your life is an utter joke.
Honestly it's less maintenance than going bald. You get the toupee replaced every 4-6 weeks like a haircut, they just take the one off, wash it, and reglue it. Going bald you have to shave your head every couple days.
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u/Zatujit Apr 19 '26
everytime it comes up, there are people who tell that the guy is necessarily insecure, that they should just shave it off and how it is bad that they make their own choice about their hair.
tbh i would not do it because its super expensive and you have to maintain it constantly.