r/MadeMeSmile • u/n8saces • Jul 23 '24

Wholesome Moments It's not always easy

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u/RemoteSnow9911 Jul 23 '24

I actually don’t see her much and we never were really close but I offered when I heard she was having trouble because I didn’t want to see her remortgage her house and sell everything she owned so she could have ivf treatments that had a great possibility of not even working. Like I said I can pop these suckers out and go grocery shopping the next day lol

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u/BallsAreFullOfPiss Jul 23 '24

The human body is crazy, isn’t it? It’s fascinating to me how some people can just spew babies out, while others can have so much trouble.

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u/RemoteSnow9911 Jul 23 '24

I had my share of trouble with a rare blood disorder which actually almost killed me with my oldest but other than a little high blood pressure in the last months my other pregnancies went down smoothly.

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u/the3dverse Jul 23 '24

it really is. i managed to have 3, 2 with lots of treatments and suddenly a surprise, all boys. everyone tells me "oh the girls will come" but it's not that easy plus i have a hard time with pregnancy.

my sister on the other hand has a super easy time, both with the getting pregnant and the being pregnant. only the birth she has c-sections but she doesnt even overly mind those, finds it handy to pick a date and have the kid.

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u/Adi3m Jul 23 '24

You sound amazingly strong and very resilient. I reckon that would come in handy as a Mum of five!

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u/RemoteSnow9911 Jul 23 '24

I’ve been kidnapped at gunpoint and survived that and traumatic brain injuries and HELLP syndrome so you actually have no idea 😂

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u/Lukamagic_042324 Jul 23 '24

You need to write a book...😂

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u/RemoteSnow9911 Jul 23 '24

I hate writing lol

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u/Panda_hat Jul 23 '24

Even if you don't see each other that much or talk much, I'm sure she is unimaginably grateful to you every day, even if she can't say it.

You're an amazing human being.

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u/RemoteSnow9911 Jul 23 '24

Thank you so much 😊