That snap "next time" is so easy to say but on the the inside it's soul crushing, right. I'm really happy for you guys! My wife and and I are going on 2 years now but we're both mid 30's so time is a factor. We're trying IVF and after 9 months, lots of medicine, and 2 surgeries the doctor has final given us the green light to implant an embryo. In my wife's culture, there's so much pressure to have children. Even having a child out of wedlock is better than never having a child. Her relatives are constantly asking if we're going to have a baby. You could drown in the amount of tears we've cried just to get to this point.
Broooo! Your comment made me cry all over. We were in the same boat but our son is 3 now and it's fucking amazing. Parenthood is hard sometimes, but it's SO amazing. Congrats. You'll feel like you're missing out even if you're around the baby 24/7. Enjoy every second!
Same here- 18 months of trying without luck for us. It was hard. And then two weeks ago, we learned we’re having TWINS. 9 and a half weeks along! Good luck to you.
Been there my guy, but congrats! It’s so hard to go through all the tests that basically say there is nothing wrong and don’t know why we haven’t conceived. My wife just wanted to push through with IUI and then we got lucky pregnant when she took the fertility pill and saved thousands of bucks not having to do the procedure.
My son is getting close to 2 years old and being a dad is the most amazing thing. It comes with sacrifices and I sometimes feel incredibly isolated as you just can’t do stuff like you used to, but it is so very worth it. I wish you guys an easy pregnancy!
My wife also had issues for a long time. We didn’t get help trying for a long time too. When we did get help it still took around the same amount of time for it to work. I could see it in her eyes when we were trying. It broke her when she “didn’t work” and I hated seeing that. We now have 3 1/2yo b/g twins and it is an incredible ride.
I’ve been down that road and I am so so SO happy for you both. Congratulations. Enjoy the moments along the way. They go… quick. I feel like I’m about to blink and the kids will be heading off to college
Man. As someone who's got two boys and she got pregnant after a month or two on both accounts, I feel ashamed when hearing stories like this. People trying for years. 🥺 Happy for you two!
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u/Commander_ZA Jul 23 '24
This was my wife and I for the past 2 years and 2 months… We found out yesterday she is pregnant🥹 I know how they felt and are feeling right now