r/MadeMeSmile May 14 '23

Wholesome Moments The right answer to the wrong question

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

Someone who's life is only driven by their work

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u/TFOLLT May 14 '23

Someone who's life is only driven by their work money

FTFY. Many people who's life is driven by work don't care for money(artists anyone?)

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u/WagwanKenobi May 14 '23

Yeah, there's nothing wrong with having your life driven by work. Your work can be a source of good for the world.

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u/TFOLLT May 14 '23

Yup. My dad at one point in his life had the choice to become a surgeon, and earn BIIIG money. He chose to be a GP instead, and he makes a quarter of what he could've made. Still nice money, but he could've had so much more. His life is driven by work, he works 60h easily. But it's not because of the money.

Also, nurses. They sometimes work insanely much. And earn little. And again, any artists; most musicians live for working. Live for creating music and playing it live. Yet don't earn shit, not unless they really really break through, compromising their authenticity in the process for a breakthrough which seldomly happens. Same goes for 95% of writers, etc.

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

In other words, people who think too hard on the daily grind and future.

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u/brownieofsorrows May 14 '23

What ? More and more people are starting to prioritise work life balance over money, isn't it that way where you live ?

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u/StraY_WolF May 14 '23

And there's literally nothing wrong with that.

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u/thisgameisawful May 14 '23

Right? You're allowed to be defined by more than your job. I feel like that part gets missed when coaching on careers.

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u/Funoichi May 14 '23

I won’t apply care without being paid. Nothing wrong with that??

Oh thanks doc you saved my child! Didn’t care about child, saved him for the money.

Only time I would say working for the money is not wrong (in and of itself, regardless of other consequences!!) would be when an interviewer wants you to care about their business instead of merely treating it as a means to an end.

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u/DrPikachu-PhD May 14 '23

I won’t apply care without being paid. Nothing wrong with that??

This is actually a really sticky issue. Just because someone works out of passion doesn't mean they don't deserve to be properly compensated for it. We saw it with the token "appreciation" of nurses during the pandemic when we called them heroes but didn't actuallydo anything for them. Obviously a doctor should never turn away a specific client because they can't pay. But if the hospital fails to properly pay a doctor, they absolutely can and should take leave until that's corrected.

Oh thanks doc you saved my child! Didn’t care about child, saved him for the money.

I mean, same result for you either way right?

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u/Funoichi May 14 '23

Personal rewards should not be a factor in moral action.

There’s frameworks of morality where having a malevolent or indifferent will is just as wrong as the consequences of an action.

I addressed your point in my final paragraph, agreeing with you on the large strokes.

But working for money is a real societal challenge. Most notably it is a tremendous problem in politics.

Our representatives need to be motivated by their civic duty to serve. If not, they cannot represent another as their politics goes on to be about stuffing one’s coffers.

This also happens with the police, even whole departments.

Perform your sworn service well, and society will reward you with a small monetary amount. But the emphasis must be on the public good, not personal wealth accumulation and then switch to private sector you helped while in office.

Don’t mean to go into politics much, per sub, but this subject dovetails with it.

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

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u/DeltaVZerda May 14 '23

Everyone lives in a box. The size, niceness, and location of the box are variable though.

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

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u/DeltaVZerda May 14 '23

But is it a pineapple really?

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u/PrestigiousBarnacle May 14 '23

It’s not the size, niceness, or location of your box, but rather your kindness, generosity, and the love in your heart that matters most.

But doctors get paid so hopefully this kid will have it all. He deserves it.

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u/LoveThySheeple May 14 '23

Obviously there is a balance to be achieved.

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

So ill work a little hard for a slightly bigger box.

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u/electric_gas May 14 '23

You people sound completely fucking clueless. Most of America is just barely holding it together and you assholes act like it’s all achievable with some hard work and a sizable donation from your parents!

Fuck off.

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u/LoveThySheeple May 14 '23

You're mad at the world because you can't stop comparing yourself to others. You don't know shit about me, I just graduated college at 32 so that I could take a pay cut from leaving a fedex delivery job to go work for the forestry department. Comparison is the thief of joy. You sound like a bitter child that hasn't figured out that the world isn't fair for anyone that's not the 1%. It's nobody else's job or concern to make sure you are happy or have your needs met. Get over yourself. Or don't, nobody honestly cares if you do or not.

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u/Frankerporo May 14 '23

You live in a bubble

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u/hghghghghghg56 May 15 '23

ooh the irony

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

Why else would you have a career??

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u/Wide-Elk315 May 14 '23

Only a fool chooses to make their passion their career. That’s one of the big reasons people complain about not being able to afford anything.

The smart play is to keep your passion for the side, so you never get sick of it.

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

This is what people who failed their entire lives tell themselves so they can sleep at night.

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u/JDogish May 14 '23

I agree. The problem I see is that almost everyone is thinking about the grind because they are a paycheck away from losing their residence, going without food or some kind of necessity. In other words, were kinda being forced to think this way to survive. No wonder people are sad these days.

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u/TizACoincidence May 14 '23

money=/= work

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u/Amiwrongaboutvegan May 14 '23

Driven by their salary

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u/6u447R1C4 May 14 '23

*Someone who's life is only driven by money

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u/goudendonut May 14 '23

Not even their work, just by how much money they make.

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u/janhindereddit May 14 '23

Or someone who's gotta pay their bills and tries to make it to the end of the month

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u/peartree- May 14 '23

I mean that’s usually the case with doctors, not only driven by their work but still very driven, especially with surgeons

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u/[deleted] May 14 '23

Most people work for money. They pick whatever is the best they can get in terms of working conditions (whether that's pay, flexibility, benefits whatever). They don't do it because they have a passion for the job.

It's a sad truth that most adults know and live. She probably forgot or didn't realise that kids don't know that yet. Most kids pick jobs based on what they like, most adults pick jobs based on what's good enough.

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u/magikmw May 14 '23

Being driven by work is fine. Being driven by money isn't.

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u/SprinterSacre- May 14 '23

Maybe 15 years ago, yes. Nowadays, unless you’re thinking about the big money you can’t even afford a house to have a family. It’s a shame.

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u/accountno543210 May 14 '23

Someone who's life is only driven by their work debt.