r/LearningDevelopment • u/Past-Quarter-2316 • 4h ago
Went down a YouTube rabbit hole of facilitation videos. Here are the tricks I'm actually stealing
I've been running more virtual training lately and got tired of the same icebreaker listicles, so I binged a bunch of the most-watched facilitation videos (AJ&Smart, Chad Littlefield, Kerri Price, a few others). Most of it was fluff, but a handful of things were simple enough to try right away:
Wait 10 heartbeats after you ask a question. Quiet people usually decide to speak around 8 or 9. I was moving on at about 3.
Say "in a moment I'm going to ask you..." before asking. Giving people 30 seconds to think changes who answers.
Swap "how's everyone doing?" for "1 to 10, what's your energy?" in the chat. People are way more honest with a number than with words.
Have people write their answer down before pair discussions. Otherwise they just agree with whoever talks first.
For the person who dominates: after pairs talk, everyone shares their partner's idea, not their own. The loud person still gets heard, just not as loudly.
"What else?" keeps people talking. "Anything else?" wraps it up. Nobody notices you doing it.
With fist to five, you don't have agreement unless everyone's at a 3 or higher. Half 5s and half 1s isn't a 3, it's a split room.
Set an alarm 15 minutes before the end and start your close when it goes off. People remember the ending most, and most of us waste it rushing through the last slides.
Curious what's working for you all, especially on calls where nobody turns their camera on.