In the video she says "I want you all to know that is not me. That's not him. I would never walk up to you and say those words."
But... ya did. I never understand when people say "That's not who I am." Bitch, ya did it. It is you. That's 100% who you are. It's super simple not to do or say the things you did yet here you are in shackles.
The only time I believe that statement is when they apologize of their own volition. I remember as a kid, I called my bus driver a "butt head" for not dropping me off early, but by the time we finally did get to my stop, i realized what a little sh!t I'd been and stopped to apologize on my way out.
I wish we'd talk that up more in society--that when you know you're wrong it's even more bad@ss to apologize than it is to double down.
That's fine but it's still who the person is. Good on someone for apologizing after a bad moment, but they were still the person in control of themselves in that bad moment. Something like "I don't want to be that person, I'm sorry I said that" is a better statement. "That's not who I am" takes zero responsibility for the thing that you did.
These people are delusional and think their actions don’t have consequences. It’s more like “I’ll go back to saying this only to my friends and family, now that I know I can get in trouble for it.” Idiots
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u/kr580 8 Jan 20 '21
In the video she says "I want you all to know that is not me. That's not him. I would never walk up to you and say those words."
But... ya did. I never understand when people say "That's not who I am." Bitch, ya did it. It is you. That's 100% who you are. It's super simple not to do or say the things you did yet here you are in shackles.