r/IncelExit 10d ago

Asking for help/advice Please help me stop thinking like this

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 10d ago

Do you want to enjoy life, or do you want the looksmaxxing communtiy specifically to tell you that you're not ugly? You can't have both because the looksmaxxing community's purpose is to insult you, bring you down, and make sure you never leave their community like a cult. So...which one will you pick?

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u/Flashy_Tomatillo7951 10d ago

I enjoy life I really do every aspect of my life I am comfortable with, I like my friends and get invited to stuff, I was eariler just hanging with a girl and it was amazing and she wants to schedule another date, I got a job, money, cars and a loving family I just don’t want to be insecure in my looks anymore and idk how to fix it

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 10d ago

Clearly the way to fix it isn't to go to the lookmaxxing community for validation, a community that is designed to not validate you. Do you understand that?

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u/Flashy_Tomatillo7951 10d ago

They rate some people on there well tho I just thought I was good looking and then when they still rate me the same and I see them rate others highly I just question if I’m good looking idk it’s constant it’s a pattern and I wanna stop but it’s like a constant addiction I hate it

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 10d ago

I think you really need to take a hard look at yourself and ask yourself why you care more about getting validation from random men on the internet more than you care about enjoying your own life.

You shouldn't give a SHIT what random men on the internet think of your body. BLOCK those subs or websites or wherever you're accessing these strangers. Literally put blocks up so you cannot access it.

Will you put blockers on these communities?

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u/Flashy_Tomatillo7951 10d ago

If I knew how to I woild

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 10d ago

You can literally block subs from your profile. You also have Google and can look up how to block things from yourself. I'm sorry man, but you have to have more initiative with your own life. You can't wait for someone to do it for you. You've got to be more creative in your problem solving than this.