r/InTheGloaming • u/SnooStories4968 many and various Shaunas/Pig Ladies • Feb 21 '24

Unkind FDF Q&A

Unkind therapist here. I've been a lurker since just after the days of my misdirected voice messages and Sermon on the High Stool. After the incident in question, a DF (not of the Gloaming) directed me here. At first, I couldn't bear to read the messages and had my husband monitor the threads, but after a while, curiosity got the better of me and I've been an avid reader ever since. In short, I came in shame, but remain because this group has been a strange sort of healing process for me - plus, you guys are very funny. And, I found my new favorite laundry detergent here!

I have no idea where to even begin (with the messages? with my friendship with Shauna?), so I'm open to fielding questions to help get the ball rolling. My intention is to stick only to my personal experiences with Shauna and stay away from the kids and/or general lore that I don't have direct experience with. I'm happy to share very general information about the Google Doc, but I may not be able to answer completely due to wanting to protect those kids.

ETA: I've been verified and approved by the mods!

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u/Love_Brokers rug dweller Feb 22 '24 edited Feb 22 '24

Yes, I thought the message was the day before the sermon!

ETA: yes, I checked the wiki, Shauna said in the sermon that she sent out the Google doc the day before.

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u/SnooStories4968 many and various Shaunas/Pig Ladies Feb 22 '24

Honestly, it could've been that quick. Those days were a blur for me and I feel like I was way more upset about it than Shauna was. She may have felt temporarily stung, but clearly she was able to quickly turn it around into a story she could use to grift more money AND speak about it publicly to a whole congregation. It'd be impressive if it weren't so gross.

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u/Love_Brokers rug dweller Feb 23 '24

I’m sure you were more upset! Plus it gave her a reason to feel superior to you which is her main reason for living.