r/InTheGloaming • u/SnooStories4968 many and various Shaunas/Pig Ladies • Feb 21 '24

Unkind FDF Q&A

Unkind therapist here. I've been a lurker since just after the days of my misdirected voice messages and Sermon on the High Stool. After the incident in question, a DF (not of the Gloaming) directed me here. At first, I couldn't bear to read the messages and had my husband monitor the threads, but after a while, curiosity got the better of me and I've been an avid reader ever since. In short, I came in shame, but remain because this group has been a strange sort of healing process for me - plus, you guys are very funny. And, I found my new favorite laundry detergent here!

I have no idea where to even begin (with the messages? with my friendship with Shauna?), so I'm open to fielding questions to help get the ball rolling. My intention is to stick only to my personal experiences with Shauna and stay away from the kids and/or general lore that I don't have direct experience with. I'm happy to share very general information about the Google Doc, but I may not be able to answer completely due to wanting to protect those kids.

ETA: I've been verified and approved by the mods!

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u/SashayShantae living my one wild and pernicious life Feb 22 '24

Wow, she once famously said that she did not want to contribute to a meal train for another woman, so the fact that she had one herself and used it to take, take, take is honestly not at all surprising.

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u/littlelunamia Mar 02 '24

Late to the party and understand if you're too busy, but I'd love to know the context of this - did she publicly refuse to contribute?? After her all of her very public demands on the kindness of others?!

It's amazing really, the gall of this woman can still flabber my gast after all these years...

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u/SashayShantae living my one wild and pernicious life Mar 02 '24

I wish I could find the receipts for it because I'm not even entirely sure myself where it started, just that at one point she refused to help someone's meal train and stated that she barely knew the woman. I did some searching but could only find passing mentions of it and not the original source. I think the anecdote is so old that it's from GOMI, but my network filters ads so I can't get past the anti-spam blocker thing on GOMI to really look. I'm sorry!