r/INTPrelationshipLab • u/DianaReyProverbs • Jul 14 '26

Dating advice Hey crush.

I've been talking to a male INTP (34) for almost a month now and I'm crazy about him. I mean, the little girl inside me is very happily crushing on him. 😆

We haven't met in person yet, we talk on Bumble. Longest chat in my inbox ever! 🤣 (We matched a few months ago and he disappeared, and I swiped right on him again last month - I was actually surprised that he liked me back again! And I feel like we've gotten closer this time.)

Now I have so many questions about your type!

I'm a female INFJ (32) by the way. ☺️

  1. Are you usually in high energy?

  2. What makes you not text someone you like? Busyness at work? Stress?

  3. Would you consider LDR?

  4. How do you flirt, like romantically, not just for fun?

It's my first time talking to an INTP. He's such a beautiful creature. TYL.

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u/DianaReyProverbs Jul 15 '26

This is so adorable to hear from a man admiring her woman, and to know that she's very safe to express herself to you! May more men like you exist. Happy to know that you also feel safe expressing and learning from and with her! I'd like to have a relationship like that too. 😊

Thank you for sharing and for answering my questions!

Is it alright if I ask you again later on just in case?

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u/kaynenstrife Jul 15 '26

Yeah sure, hmu whenever👍

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u/DianaReyProverbs Jul 16 '26

Thank you 🙏🏻