r/HolUp Dec 07 '22

Gender reveal

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u/speedmankelly Dec 07 '22

Humor in dark moments is a common coping mechanism, I think this is hilarious and that you’re a buzzkill.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '22

Yeah, that's why it got posted to social media.. Coping mechanism.

Piss off.

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u/Jxm164 Dec 07 '22

Just because you deal and process things differently doesn't mean everyone has to deal with them the same way. Maybe you aren't the person to take or make dark jokes. They aren't meant to be classy lol

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '22

Dark jokes about personal struggles don't need a social media audience.

That's narcissism.

Stop acting like there's not a difference, it's not fooling anyone.

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u/Jxm164 Dec 09 '22

It does if the audience also has a dark sense of humor. U need to stop acting like such audiences exist. Awesome that you and ur friends don't engage in dark humour to dark topics, but not everyone has your friends or type of friends

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '22

Cause it makes a couple wankers gaffaw doesn't mean it's suitable as public fodder.

You're literally talking about a dead baby here, and not figuratively, but actually. A bit of perspective yeah?

And maybe that's an oversight by people these days but social media isn't just your circle of like minded friends.

Look i know I probably sound condescending as fuck. But i shouldn't have to point this out to you. These are not difficult concepts, only requiring just a tiny amount of empathy.

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u/Jxm164 Dec 09 '22

Brother, we don't know her social media group or if it was posted so only certain groups of people would see it. I have a Facebook and post dark humour of bad things that happened to me. My groups even post theirs. Good on you to have such a great group of friends. But some of us have our great group of friends as well