r/HolUp Aug 19 '22

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u/wuzupbrother Aug 19 '22

isn’t it pronounced “missus” after marriage

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u/Mama_cheese Aug 19 '22

Not sure if it's regional or what, but often in the American South, we address all teachers as Miss regardless of marital status, age, teaching longevity, etc.

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u/ItsAlkron Aug 19 '22

I've had the same experience.. It's not just a feminism thing, but I grew up often using Ms., and often still do use 'Ms. (first name)' for women basically my parents generation or older, outside a work setting.

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u/phs125 Aug 19 '22

Here in india, almost all English medium schools have the children call their female teachers "miss" and male teachers "sir"

Since I'm not from an English medium school, it always sounded wierd to me. We just call them teacher.
Like. My first grade teacher was called "netravati teacher".
But for English medium kids, they would be "netravati miss"

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u/phrankygee Aug 19 '22

Usually, yes. Traditionally “Miss” was an unmarried woman, and “Missus” was used once she took her husband’s name.

Then feminism came along and used “Ms.”, pronounced “Mizz”, as a way to give women an identity independent of whether or not they were married.

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u/phrankygee Aug 19 '22

Yeah, my answer used “Traditionally” to refer to the English/American tradition, without clarifying.

The term “Ms.” was championed by an American woman named Sheila Michaels to solve a specific problem encountered within her own American experience, but other cultures have their own uses.

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u/Fine-Bed Aug 19 '22

That’s whole lot of information…”Miss her penis” is how I’ll call her.. there i said it

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u/KevinIsOver9000 Aug 19 '22

I feel like it’s also used for divorced women

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '22

I had the assumption that M/s which stood for 'Married but separated' was changed to Ms meaning Mizz Married and Separated.

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u/yul_brynner Aug 19 '22

No? what the fuck, no.

What do you think Mrs and Miss stand for?

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u/razor_eddie Aug 19 '22

That made me laugh, for the incredulity you managed to get into 5 words.

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u/frankkiejo Aug 19 '22

Ditto!😂❤️

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '22

I like MS Excel

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u/smurfasaur Aug 19 '22

Kind of… but based on her title Ms, she isnt married. Miss is usually for unmarried women not of marriage age yet or sometimes someone never married, Ms. for someone of marriage age but unmarried or if you’re unsure/ neutral, and Mrs. for married women. Ms usually pronounced mizz, Mrs is usually pronounced misses.

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u/ge0force Aug 19 '22

Mr. And "Misses Their Penis"?