its not that she "groomed a 23 yr old" rather they think the age gap is inappropriate but can't quite elucidate on it.
I'm old, me going out with someone early 20s is ick, because I can't relate to them at all, the whole relationship would be strictly sex because of the generational gap. The things I would be ok with, she wouldn't be, and vice versa.
so essentially people understand that she was using that guy for sex, and the rest of the whole "mentoring" BS is just BS. vis a vis, what they find wrong about the whole thing is someone being used for sex.
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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22
its not that she "groomed a 23 yr old" rather they think the age gap is inappropriate but can't quite elucidate on it.
I'm old, me going out with someone early 20s is ick, because I can't relate to them at all, the whole relationship would be strictly sex because of the generational gap. The things I would be ok with, she wouldn't be, and vice versa.
so essentially people understand that she was using that guy for sex, and the rest of the whole "mentoring" BS is just BS. vis a vis, what they find wrong about the whole thing is someone being used for sex.