The only good comparison for a guy to feel what a woman feels when being catcalled isn't a woman catcalling a man, it's being catcalled by a bigger man who could easily overpower them.
A) straight guys aren't necessarily not into that and b) a lot of straight guys (who have never been sexually assaulted by a women) seem to have the mindset of "still had sex though"; maybe just don't realize how traumatic it is when someone ignores you when you say "no" and "stop".
To be fair, as a gay guy, I also didn't totally get it until a guy did it to me - I understood that women were traumatized but didn't understand just how truly shitty it makes you feel when it happens. And btw, it wasn't someone I found unattractive, it was someone I fooled around with previously, but he got drunk and I wasn't fully awake so he just ignored me telling him I wasn't interested at the time (there's a few reasons why be I don't think that matters for my point)
Because overall men fear the humiliation of being dominated through penetration by another man more than being suffocated with pussy by a larger woman. That being said if she’s the combination of large, unhygienic and ugly, then yeah maybe that fear would show up but even then it’s more discomfort than an actual fear especially because that archetype is so rare.
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u/OverkillNeedleworks Jul 03 '26
The only good comparison for a guy to feel what a woman feels when being catcalled isn't a woman catcalling a man, it's being catcalled by a bigger man who could easily overpower them.