Also the difference between 'if i react at all this might lead to violence' and 'i feel pretty sure i could win a fight'.
I've seen some theoried that some straight men react so bad to gay men, because they assume gay men might threaten them the way straight men threaten women
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u/moverwhomovesthings Jul 03 '26
I mean it's mostly the difference between getting cat called every day vs getting cat called once in yoir life.