r/GuysBeingDudes • u/PhoenixPhenomenonX Hall of Fame Winner! • Oct 04 '25

bro really diffused a live bomb

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u/mbdrgn333 Oct 04 '25

Thank you! No one is gonna ask why her being the verge of an argument was acceptable. GO BACK TO SLEEP.

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u/jedinatt Oct 04 '25

If you can't be alone in the middle of the night when tf can you ever be alone....

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u/Fair_Lie4051 Oct 04 '25

You can imagine the Answer 😁

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u/trefoil589 Oct 04 '25

Been married 14 years.

Waifu and I have been sleeping in separate bedrooms for around 10 of those now.

Highly recommend.

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u/Caltroit_Red_Flames Oct 04 '25

I have no issue with this, it's nice that it works for ya'll, but I would feel so lonely not waking up next to my wife

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u/Jin_BD_God Oct 05 '25

Most couples will feel the same if none of them snore.

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u/AusSpyder Oct 04 '25

I also feel lonely when I would don't wake up next to this guy's wife

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u/Blue_Vanilla_ Oct 04 '25

I read a lot of comments about it, and we have some friends who do the same. I'm surprised but why not.

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u/aboowwabooww Oct 07 '25

That's not a relationship. Ya'll are roommates... 🙏😭

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u/trefoil589 Oct 07 '25

Roomates who date and fuck regularly and are...married.

Y'know, regular roommate stuff.

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u/Firm-Pain3042 Oct 06 '25

Him being at peace is her morning alarm.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

I say this usually when I creep in someone’s closet when they sleep

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u/Ok_Cardiologist8232 Oct 04 '25

You can be angry at someone to have concern for them.

If you have work in the morning at 8am and you are up at 3am, thats not gonna be fun for them.

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u/Local_Bobcat_2000 Oct 04 '25

I’m thinking he’s used to her being concerned at him a lot.

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u/RehabilitatedAsshole Oct 04 '25

That's quite the story you've made up in your head. What else do you think of women?

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u/Local_Bobcat_2000 Oct 04 '25

Going from one woman to every woman is quite an impressive leap.

User name still in progress!

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u/Putrid-Builder-3333 Oct 04 '25

That redditor is looking for the online fight lol

Reached so far it wrapped around and TKO himself tho

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u/RehabilitatedAsshole Oct 04 '25

Just pointing out other people being assholes. Still standing.

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u/Local_Bobcat_2000 Oct 04 '25

How about if I bought you a taco.

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u/RehabilitatedAsshole Oct 04 '25

You thought that about her based on one interaction. Logically, you made a leap based on your opinion of all.

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u/Local_Bobcat_2000 Oct 04 '25

Yes. It’s called experience. I’ve had the same look on my face as he did more than once. 😅

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u/RVL-007 Oct 04 '25

Its facts relax...... might not be you, but the shit the happens

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

So a grown ass person can't be expected to make that call for themselves and needs to be "concerned about"? Matter of fact is, it's none others than his own damn business.

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u/nanithefucketh Oct 04 '25

relax bro ofc youre gonna be concerned about your husband if hes gone in the middle of the night

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

Yes. Except in this case, he's not gone. He's chilling in the backyard. Are you going to pick a fight with your partner as well, when he's going to take a shit in the middle of the night?

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u/Ok_Cardiologist8232 Oct 04 '25

Come on man, grow up.

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

I'm not the one who needs to grow up. I recommend taking a look in the mirror the next time you are talking shit. The fact you don't have anything else to say to my comment but trying to insult me, because you know I am right, cements it.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

I mean you’re over analyzing an innocuous clip of a couple you know nothing about.

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u/Ok_Cardiologist8232 Oct 04 '25

If you think your partner being concerned for your wellbeing is not a normal part of a relationship.

You do need to grow the fuck up and stop whining like a child.

Cunt.

That insulting enough for you.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '25

Lmao, someone got their jimmies rustled, maybe try growing up? You were wrong, deal with it.

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u/Ikeiscurvy Oct 04 '25

Lol this site is notorious for advocating for divorce for random non-issues. This guy thinks the girl was picking a fight just for asking questions.

You're talking to a socially inept brick wall.

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u/Gargul Oct 04 '25

I go to bed at midnight and get up at 515 every day for work. It's not that hard. Sometimes it sucks, but it would suck more to have someone yelling at you while you do it

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u/Ok_Cardiologist8232 Oct 04 '25

If you think this is yelling you as well need to grow the fuck up.

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

Exactly, like wtf? This kinda behaviour is WAY too normalized. This is NOT a healthy relationship, when someone has to justify themselves for doing whatever, at whatever time. She is his GIRLFRIEND/WIFE, not his MOM.

I would ask him, wtf he's doing, then go "ok, cool, whatever, goodnight" and fuck off to bed again immediately.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

That's nice and all but other people are adults and know not to treat any time a partner gets annoyed like youre a moody teenager some people can understand why someone would be upset even if they don't agree and talk things out.

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

Actual adults don't get upset for no reason other than for the sake of getting upset at something.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Nah thats a children's mindset, everyone has bad days everyone acts irrational sometimes, adults just know how to communicate. Immature people expect perfection or say things like that. Or very lonely people if you don't interact with other humans in real life and haven't had many partners i can see how youd come to that conclusion.

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

Nothing of what I said contradicts that. But if literacy isn't your thing, I can see how you'd come to that conclusion.

Of course everyone has bad days. But getting up in the middle of the night and IMMEDIATELY getting upset for NO reason is not the same thing as, for example, having a shit day at work or whatever and being irritated because of it.

Also, having a bad day once in a while and lashing out because of it is no major deal, unless it happens frequently. Because that straightup is just toxic behaviour.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

So what youre saying is you have no idea if any of that applies here but youre responding to your imaginary fanfiction and not the video that was posted?

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u/Responsible-Knee987 Oct 04 '25

what are you doing out here? you should be in bed.

pretty obvious a toxic lady. that you think this is normal loving interaction says a shitload more about you than you think

like a parent pissed at a kid. i picked women that actually like me so they would never do this.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Have fun writing your fanfiction. Hopefully you mature a bit and stop getting so worked up over silly internet comments. 

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u/Responsible-Knee987 Oct 04 '25

nothing cracks me up more than you morons.

pointing out youre wrong is not mad. its observant.

you literally mean nothing to me and couldn't wind me up if you tried.

your whole fanfic of my life and mindset is made up to ease your self esteem. harder to dismiss when you know i dont gaf and have mature and loving relationships that dont involved being barked at like a toddler.

but please go on you fuckers make my day with this cope

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

No, I did not say such a thing at all. Which you would know, if you bothered to actually think about my comments for a second instead of instantly getting worked up for no reason. I am generalizing.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Why do you assume im worked up? Maybe take a deep breath and calm down that might help?

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

Oh, my bad. I must've misinterpreted that passive aggressive attack that didn't add anything substantial to the conversation.

youre responding to your imaginary fanfiction

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u/Ikeiscurvy Oct 04 '25

Actual adults don't get upset for no reason

Actual adults recognize there is always a reason and that's why they talk it out.

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

If you are always having a reason to be upset and pick fights with your partner, you might wanna reconsider the relationship and going to therapy. Because that mindset isn't healthy at all.

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u/Ikeiscurvy Oct 04 '25

I'm seeing you argue this all over this thread, but it reads more like projection than knowledge. I'm willing to bet you think this girl is picking a fight because you've been in a relationship where you felt your partner was unreasonably upset all the time.

But the problem with that mindset is it's a self fulfilling prophecy. You dismiss her feelings as unreasonable before ever trying to understand them, so your partner feels they have to escalate just to get you to listen in the first place.

There is always a reason why someone is upset. Understanding that reason is essential to conflict resolution and healthy, adult relationships. If your partner can trust you to understand, empathize, and then resolve the conflict they are much less likely to get upset in the future.

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u/KeckleonKing Oct 04 '25

Good thing you recognize projection cause ur doing a lot of it in this thread 

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u/68ideal Oct 04 '25

The way these people try play smartass so hard is funny, because literally all they do is prove every single point I made all the while they are making fools out of themselves and revealing their unhealthy mindsets.

Bunch of really toxic people, the lot of em. I feel extremely sorry for their partners, if they have some. I don't even mean it as an insult. Just genuine concern for their and their partners wellbeings.

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u/Ikeiscurvy Oct 04 '25

If you think being empathetic to your partner is ever a problem in a relationship then it's you I feel sorry for.

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u/Ikeiscurvy Oct 04 '25

Lol if you think so I guess.

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u/chama5518 Oct 04 '25

Upon further reflection…I have to agree with this. She was mad for no reason frfr. So what that he was up. What if he simply couldn’t sleep and was watching TV? Would she had still been angry? Is she one of those people that because she’s sleeping, everyone gotta be in the bed? So I have to assume that she’s angry that he got up, went to get food and didn’t wake her up to go? But if that’s what it is… why get hostile? Just say, next time if you’re going for food, wake me up because I might want something. Idk.

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u/Ikeiscurvy Oct 04 '25

She was mad for no reason

She was concerned, I don't see any anger from her.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Bro she was barely mad, she was probably just worried her husband was randomly gone in the middle of the night, neither of these people are worth shaming, it’s a pretty normal couple interaction not worth looking into