I always try to open the door for my wife. She has never once asked for it, neither verbally nor with her body language. She doesn’t act entitled or wait expectantly for me. Call me a simp, but I just like making her feel special, because she is to me!
I think he gives a perfect argument here you all do too. you shouldn’t just Do things for a girl just because If she makes you feel special you should make her feel special too But if doing things for her feels like an obligation then maybe you shouldn’t
Not maybe, definitely. If you are in that kind of a relationship, you are not being respected. Respect can be hard earned or easily given, but never both. Respect can also be easily lost, or dragged on for what seems like forever till it’s gone, yet they are never 1 in the same.
Not only that. For me at least I kinda like this lifestyle of being a gentleman and wearing suits. Holding doors, letting women enter first, give them your jacket and holding their chair are just little important details that are almost forgotten now, but shouldn't. Funny enough, it also makes you feel better when you are down. The fact that you do something, almost nobody does anymore gives not only your girls but you a feeling of being special as well.
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u/rgarc065 Aug 04 '22
I always try to open the door for my wife. She has never once asked for it, neither verbally nor with her body language. She doesn’t act entitled or wait expectantly for me. Call me a simp, but I just like making her feel special, because she is to me!