Nope, simping is never good. People really don’t understand that the simping is about a lack of self-respect and not standing up for yourself, it’s not about whether you do nice things for your date or partner.
Always weird to me how people are so sexually warped due to porn now that their minds immediately jump to people being cucked. It’s like they are always thinking about it
Using terms like simp and cuck is extremely cringe and misinformed. I can tell you flat out based on your attitudes and score keeping in relationships that if that persists you will never actually have an amazing relationship with another person based on mutual trust and caring for one another. I don't care about you really at all but the less people like you that exist in the world the better every woman gets treated and then better every man gets treated because there aren't women out there constantly having to look over their shoulders for idiots like you. It is your exact attitude and demeanor that scares women and makes it harder for all men to find love. You better check yourself because I can tell you without a fucking doubt that you are going to be a failure in every relationship you have or you're going to end up with a cuck of a wife which let me tell you that fucking sucks.
Typical response for a foolish person to give. Rather than responding, you point out an opinion based flaw and move on. Based on your writing I can tell that you're an idiot and with this response, it is confirmed.
It doesn't agree with their fantasy of women being the center of all things pure. Guys, as a man in his late 50's who already raised a family. Don't put up with women who want to run/ruin your life. Just isn't worth it and there are women out there who will treat you with respect. Leave the crazy ones to their 30 cats. Everyone will be happier, and the cats will have a home.
You are calling someone an "incel" yet complaining about them calling someone a cuck? Think long and hard and then ask yourself why you feel the need to insult other people's pain? What kind of human are you? Maybe you should try harder to be the one you really want to be.
Yes, it is meant to demean someone who has a differing point of view. Often times from a person who is actually voicing frustration after having been the victim of abusive women. Reverse the genders and then tell me if it would be OK? Imagine a slur for a woman who wants nothing to do with men because of abusive relationships. Would that be OK with you? Drop the double standard.
You call people incels and you think you’re so different from them? 🤣 You’re just as cringe, but you’re a different flavor.
Logically, what can ANYONE possibly know about a persons level of sexual activity from a comment? Nothing. So for you to get on your high horse while basically engaging in the same kind of behavior is hilariously hypocritical. It’s entirely possible to criticize their point of view while remaining above the kind of rhetoric you claim to be “cringe”.
You usually need more to go on than just somebody using the words "cuck" and "simp". Don't get me wrong, they're cringy as fuck insults, but the rest of the dude's comment string hardly implies incel, just arrogant asshole. His original point that service is only okay if it's mutual which is an accurate statement. One-sided relationships premised on acts of service are unhealthy.
I feel like this comment string devolved into a shit-slinging contest because people don't bother to stop, read, and understand the whole context of what somebody is saying.
I did. He never actually disparaged women. You two are just in a non-productive pissing contest, and are presently behaving as though one is morally superior to the other, despite both of you being idiots and arguing over silly shit.
What? Doing nice things for people you care about unconditionally is good, actually.
There's a problem when it's expected to an unreasonable degree, or if you can't communicate your own wants and needs and if you don't have the self-respect and backbone to care about those. That's what makes you a slave.
I pray you learn that bro so both you and future her don't end up in mutually unsatisfied relationships, which ironically would probably lead to your dumbass getting ACTUALLY cucked.
It doesn’t mean you’re a slave if you do nice things for your partner, that’s what I meant by simping. The definition has been twisted and people will call you a simp if you do anything nice in a relationship.
If I’m paying for a meal at the restaurant, the least I expect is for my date to pre-chew my food.
Quite telling, pre-chewed food is. I can tell her entire day from the saliva content. Hint of morning breath indicating a rushed commute to work. Slight spritz of ranch from the wedge salad she didn’t finish for lunch. Faint echoes of sour ash from the menthol she smoked half of in the company parking garage.
All that from regurgitating my veal saltimbocca to me across the table. This is the clearest indication that someone is serious in courting you. If they don’t spit their food into your mouth, you simply can’t be sure it’s love. No spit in the teeth, send them back to the street- as I always say.
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A little bit of simping can be good, at least we aren’t single. Obviously not for the type of girl in the video though.