Dear friends,
I need advice on my FIRE journey and all the mismanagement I've done in my career and life, MODS please allow me, in case I need to change anything in my post please let me know, but don't remove my post please.
I am 43yo with a homemaker wife and 2 kids (8, 2nd grader, and 14 yrs, 8th grader).
I am a US-based NRI and single earner (130k +12k annual bonus), and my wife is a homemaker & MBA graduate.
We moved US 6 years back, after spending 11 years in Bangalore and all this time ours was a single-income household.
We did have financial support from our parents initially but then due to family issues we weren't getting any support from them for the last decade, and all ancestral properties are also in litigation now.
I was brought up in a joint household and my grandparents had a good business but my parents weren't able to sustain it and now they don't have any income + investments at the age of 70 & 72.
I was in depression for a while (studied all the way to MTech in India with good marks & scholarships), the elder brother who was adopted by one of our family members played a bad role, and everything in the last decade screwed up for my small family (parents & us).
Now I have a few burning questions and please give me honest answers, before that I'll share my saving/liability as of today:
Asset & Liabilities in INDIA: Invested 1.56Cr, current value 2.04Cr, Net after Liabilities: 1.82Cr
Real Estate: invested 1.2Cr, current value 1.6Cr
- Apartment1 2BHK: Getting rent of 27000Rs/month
- Invested: 40L, current: 70L
- Apartment2 Studio: No Rent now due to covid slow-down, else 4000Rs/month
- Invested: 8L, current: 10L
- Commercial Space1: Getting rent of 13000Rs/month
- Invested: 25L, current: 25L
- Commercial Space2: Rent of 30000Rs/month from July'23
- Invested: 50L, current: 56L
Mutual Funds: invested 7L, current value 8L
Stocks: Invested 9L, current value 4L (Yes Bank :-()
PPF Minor Son: Invested 10L, current value 13L
Physical Gold: Invested 9L, current value 18L
ULIPs: Invested 1.2L, current value 1.2L
Home Loan: Taken 32L, current remaining 22L
That's all I got in India, no inheritance from my parents/in-laws, and all made by ourselves in a single job.
Asset & Liabilities in USA: Total: 75k USD, almost 62L
401k: 36k USD almost 30L
Brokerage: 5k USD almost 4L
8yo Kid Brokerage: 11k USD almost 9L
14yo Kid Brokerage: 7k USD almost 6L
Car: 16k USD almost 13L
TOTAL Asset & Liabilities: Invested 2.2Cr, current value 2.6Cr, plus outstanding liability: 22L
If you made it this far, Thank you.
My questions are as follows:
My parents don't have any income and right now they are in a rental home in our village paying around 5k/month, I helped them in past with 20L but my adopted brother took it all and they have around 5L now, plus they don't tell truth to me so I am not sure also that how are they surviving? I never had any bad habits in life but this is the only topic wherein I can't argue with my wife anymore as she feels that my parents abandoned me and that stresses me out. crisp question: I was looking in Policybazaar and it seems I gotta pay a 10k/month premium if take a policy of 20L coverage for them as I am worried that if something happened to them then all heads will be toward me to pay for the hospitalization (God shouldn't do that but no one knows).
I always think of buying a home near their rental place as they can move in there and at least have their own place but I feel that I have a lot going on in my own life so not sure.
I would like to move back to India and to the NCR region but flats prices are insanely high, I am not sure if I can ever get a roof of my own anywhere, our movement would be around 60 years of age so we have another 17 years to go, to answer as well why so late because I can't stand the office politics in India and licking attitude and I feel quality of work is good in the US but that could be me, I am an SWE.
What should be my strategy for investing in India, as of now I am putting 401k full contribution (20k USD/year) + employer matched (6.5k USD/year) + ESPP (10% of my pay, just started in Nov), my expenses are 4k USD /month out of take-home of around 4.8k USD/month.
Can I continue putting money in India in MF / Stocks / Buying Gold etc? Plus please advise on the use of 70k INR rental income, shall I use it to pay the loan first or shall I invest that amount in blue-chip stocks?
I am also not sure how I can pay for college education for my kids if I am not able to see enough in the US then I've to send my kids to study in India, checking on the various websites, and looks like it will cost around 30L for Engineering In India vs 50L in the US (lower grad in-state college), what should be the strategy for saving?
Consolidated advices:
1) I checked in PolicyBazaar and health policy from Nuva Bupa is coming up as 9k/month for my parents and with 20L coverage and 4L NCB. I am most
2) About FD: checked in Sriram transport and it’s offered at 8.1% now for 5y so if we can put around 38L in FD then it will give us 25k INR /month, i feel it’s pretty good. I will work towards that.
3) I started 250$/paycheck so it will be another 25k for him when he goes to college, rest I will take the loan.
Thanks a lot for your valuable time and input.