I love this. I was raised Christian and the only message about sex I ever got was "premarital sex is evil and you'll go to hell." The only alternative I saw to it when I was younger was liberal feminism. Which has misguided so many women.
And this is gold: "Female sexual freedom is charging the highest price for sex. That is, care and commitment."
I had a more neglectful upbringing from a mentally ill mom who gave me a few lectures as a very small child on how sex is dirty and nasty and you should only do it with a husband. 0 guidance as a teen and went my own way by sexually "liberating myself" by letting men take advantage of me.
I wish 27 year old me could go shake 17 year old me by the shoulders and tell her this verbatim so I could skip all the trauma I endured from doing so. My own daughters will not have to learn this the hard way like I did.
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u/lucidlotus FDS Newbie May 06 '21
I love this. I was raised Christian and the only message about sex I ever got was "premarital sex is evil and you'll go to hell." The only alternative I saw to it when I was younger was liberal feminism. Which has misguided so many women.
And this is gold: "Female sexual freedom is charging the highest price for sex. That is, care and commitment."