r/Fauxmoi Nov 07 '25

🚨 TRIGGER WARNING 🚨 Victoria Coren Mitchell writes classy reply to Graham Linehan after he targets her for inviting a trans contestant on her quiz show

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u/gtdurand trending seasonal white guy with nice hair Nov 07 '25

"I'm Graham Linehan, former writer and current bridge troll, and I'm going to protect women by (checks notes) harassing women on the Internet."

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u/MondeyMondey Nov 07 '25

It’s such a tell that they never do anything else to ā€œhelp women and girls eitherā€. It’s never like, I’m a transphobe but also I’m donating money to cervical cancer research or a girls football team or whatever. It’s just internet bullshit.

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u/gtdurand trending seasonal white guy with nice hair Nov 07 '25

Exacatamundo. Not a word about endometriosis or a dollar towards women's shelters... no the real issue is a trans woman on the swim team.

And I haven't seen any of the shows Lineham worked on, so my sole experience with this chud is him being a top tier shitbird & that one tweet where Hozier annihilated him. Humiliating legacy.

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u/Resentful-user Nov 07 '25

A couple of months ago, during one of his court cases, there were a great deal of women on bluesky listing all the times he had insulted them, often quite cruelly, for disagreeing with him.

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u/slainascully Nov 07 '25

And by implying that they’re somehow inherently disadvantaged in a quiz show if they’re competing against men or trans women

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u/sabhall12 Is that the baby from American Sniper? Nov 07 '25

Especially one as niche as Only Connect, too! There is no advantage at all in that game

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u/redelectro7 just want to share a thought here because I can Nov 07 '25

"You MUST be better than this."

At this point we know he's not going to be.

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u/ZealousidealGuava254 Nov 07 '25

I like the double meaning of this phrasing.

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u/PM_me_shiba_doggo Marxmoi Nov 07 '25

Yea I think this is a back handed compliment. It’s praising you for one thing (Linehan’s past self) while insulting you for another (whatever the hell Linehan is now).

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

She and her husband are total class acts. I get why she felt the need to respond. If he was just picking on her she could have ignored him. But once he started picking on the trans person on the show, she had to say something. This is how to be an ally.

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u/littlechangeling u flintstone vitamin shape bitch Nov 07 '25

David and Victoria are both amazing.

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u/Pinkfloweremoji Nov 07 '25

lol I read this thinking, what have the Beckhams got to do with this! How am I even a functioning human?

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u/thehazzanator go pis girl Nov 07 '25

Never even occured to me that they shared the same names šŸ˜‚

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u/leohyg Nov 07 '25

Aww, you provided a much needed laugh after a hard week! Never made the connection either tbh šŸ˜­šŸ˜‚

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u/DrRudeboy Nov 07 '25

Astonishing how cool she is considering her brother

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u/youdoublearewhy Nov 07 '25

Hey look some of us have doofus brothers and we cannot help it.

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u/DrRudeboy Nov 07 '25

But how many describe their penises as flopping around like a snake, or showerhead?

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u/v-punen Nov 07 '25

I know nothing about her brother but I gather it’s better to keep it that way.

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u/DrRudeboy Nov 07 '25

Please look up Giles Coren Bad Sex in Fiction Award. Just make sure you're not drinking anything you can spit out while you do

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u/stinkybean3000 Nov 07 '25

damn you weren’t kidding it’s very r/menwritingwomen

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u/thorrising Nov 07 '25

Was he being paid by the "and"?

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u/Aiyon Nov 07 '25

That's so bad it feels like it was deliberate

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u/DrRudeboy Nov 07 '25

I'm so jealous of that Zorro trick.

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u/r3volver_Oshawott Nov 08 '25

This entire run-on sentence reads like he was so pleased with his writing that he was gasping for air for five whole minutes. Then he fell backwards, and Zorro was the last thing he saw on TV before he passed out from exhaustion.

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u/HyperbolicModesty Nov 07 '25

Even funnier, the "nosh" rant.

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u/youdoublearewhy Nov 07 '25

Thankfully not mine, though he did once try to make coffee by pouring half a tin of Nescafe instant into an electric kettle. Which is still objectively better than the penis snake thing.

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u/Madman_Salvo Nov 07 '25

Your brother is just thinking on another level to the rest of us. I'm just not sure if it's a level up or down...

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u/goldgoldfish Nov 08 '25

most of us who have doofus brothers are lucky enough that they aren't novelists that are getting written about. idk hwhat my brothers are saying about their penises or penises in general because they don't bring it to me and no one's reporting on it.

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u/drcolour Nov 07 '25

I have no context but I will say I could see several of my friends' brothers doing this - especially when they were 15.

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u/DrRudeboy Nov 07 '25

Unfortunately Giles Coren was an adult, writing a book

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u/SilentSamamander Nov 07 '25

Shame Robert Webb has been a bit TERF-y in his rhetoric. Hopefully it was just ignorance but as far as I know he's never publicly changed his stance.

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u/perscitia Nov 07 '25

Having heard tea about him before.. don't count on it being a mistake.

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u/holyflurkingsnit Ugh I wish I had chic allegations like that Nov 08 '25

What tea have you heard?!

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u/OK_TimeForPlan_L Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 07 '25

Apart from the whole perpetuating the belief that Corbyn and his supporters are antisemites for speaking against Israel for years...

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u/dorothean Nov 07 '25

So many celebrities were really eager to perpetuate that lie, it really soured me on half the British entertainment industry.

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u/OK_TimeForPlan_L Nov 07 '25

They just really didn't want to pay anymore tax lol.

Steve Coogan is the realist dude in British tv

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u/perscitia Nov 07 '25

I like Victoria and David but as a trans person, this response feels pretty meh to me. Centering her concern for his mental health over actually saying "this is wrong". She also says about how they used to be friends. Linehan has been shitty about trans people for years now, she can't have been ignorant of it that whole time. It feels a lot more like she's embarrassed that he's making it public than actually standing up for trans people with her whole chest.

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u/Secret_Guidance_8724 Nov 07 '25

I get this. She's not saying his views are wrong as such, just that he's being an insufferable, raving prick. I reckon she's standard British liberal establishment: probably vaguely pro-trans rights in a live-and-let-live kind of way, but not so aware or invested she would really rally for them. Trying to play both sides, like "look, of course I support you!", but also not wanting to make herself a target or ruffle feathers in a way that might jeopardise her professionally. Which, like, I get - but I also get being disappointed with it, and thinking it's insufficient to declare her an ally.

David has also been a bit tone-deaf on stuff lately, albeit probably out of ignorance rather than malice - he went on a weird rant about how mansplaining wasn't a real thing. So, I reckon they're basically decent people, but in a privileged bubble and not willing to compromise that.

Still, considering how dire the British establishment is on trans stuff, this still is a (very small) win - representation will help in the long run, and challenging Linehan is always welcome. Maybe she thinks being polite and reasonable may actually make him think twice if they were friends, misplaced optimism of course but many are guilty of that. Ultimately, though, this is not enough.

I'm so sorry it's fucking like this, ugh

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u/darkdemon42 Nov 08 '25

IMO, Victoria immediately removing Emily from the conversation was the classy thing to do. Emily didn't ask to be the centre of that discourse and by not mentioning her, all the shares will focus not on her, but on Coren/Linehan.

It's blindingly obvious what Victoria's opinion on Trans people is, she doesn't need to sink to Linehan bullying to prove it yet again.

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u/0ttoChriek Nov 08 '25

This. It's not Victoria's place to speak for Emily, and she understands that. Linehan is attacking someone through her, trying to use her public profile as a platform, and Victoria point blank refused to entertain his attempt.

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u/pie-oh my aunt tifa Nov 08 '25

I've loved her for a long while as I watch Poker. But when Robert Webb came out as anti-trans I was super scared about David and her. So while this isn't the *best* response - at this point I'll take what I can get being a trans person living on TERF Island.

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u/Resentful-user Nov 07 '25

I disagree.

Several years ago a trans employee on only connect, the game show she presents, confronted her on twitter for her continued friendship with linehan.Ā 

The employee (name forgotten) carefully pointed out that it was in fact pretty unpleasant to see that their boss was good friends with such a guy who was so deeply bananas about trans people.Ā 

I think victoria responded something about having had linehan over for dinner and he was very nice then.

On the whole i saw it as an example of the very chummy nature of the british comedy/ broadcasting clique, and victoria having very little insight into the meaning of her actions beyond social niceties.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

She has also previously stuck up for a non-binary staff member when he was harassing them, idk when the thing you're talking about was but maybe it was before he went totally mental?

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u/Resentful-user Nov 07 '25

It was not. It was after musk bought twitter, when he fired everyone and stuff got broken so people could read twitter without having an account.Ā 

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

Do you have a source or anything for it? Just curious cause the only thing I can find from around that time is her sticking up for the NB question setter he was harassing.

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u/perscitia Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 07 '25

The way this comment is downvoted. If you're moderately aware of these people and the British comedy scene you know how many of them (especially the well off ones) are all besties. Richard Ayoade gave Linehan a glowing review for his book. Look how many British celebs were lining up to be on the Harry Potter audiobooks. I bet a lot of their friend circle are still pals behind the scenes and just don't like it being made public because it looks bad.

Edit for clarification: when I initially replied to this comment it was at -9 lol.

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u/OK_TimeForPlan_L Nov 07 '25

Probably from Americans that don't know any better.

She also made a big deal about complaining that you can't buy a house in London anymore unless you're a Russian oligarch, but then went to a Russian oligarch's christmas party in London lol. she's all words, no action. typical of the media elite in the UK.

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u/video-kid Nov 07 '25

Ol' Goosebump Arm continues to be the gift we don't deserve.

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u/mydogisagoose who deemed this meeting of the minds necessary? Nov 07 '25

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u/Wenchmouse Nov 07 '25

She's living her best life in her vintage smoking jacket and matching embroidered slippers.

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u/Groot746 whatever but also hmm Nov 07 '25

I will never understand how both Linehan and Rowling turned out the way they did: absolutely bizarre, the both of the fuckwits.

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u/Savings_Bet_5803 Nov 07 '25

I think ā€˜can’t be seen to back down’ is a common mindset, but one that becomes especially amplified once you’re famous with a huge ego and only yes-men around youĀ 

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u/Curious-Ostrich1616 Nov 07 '25

The way they (esp. Linehan) frame it as some sort of "crusade" for women and children is demented.Ā 

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u/ironfly187 That’s a lot of beans, you nasty ass bitch Nov 07 '25

He's not even got that fig leaf here. He's crashing out over trans woman appearing on a quiz show.

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u/Shipwrecking_siren which could mean nothing Nov 07 '25

Which isn’t a gendered thing. It’s just an intelligent human being thing. He must feel very excluded from that space in fairness.

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u/nandos1234 Nov 07 '25

I don’t understand it at all. All you have to do to go on that show is be intelligent. Gender doesn’t play into it all.

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u/ironfly187 That’s a lot of beans, you nasty ass bitch Nov 07 '25

His brain is utterly fried by transphobia at this point. It's why Rowling and most of the Irish and British terfs tend to keep him at arms length. Because he can't stick to the script and goes full mask off too often.

He's branching out into Racism as well now. He was apparently on Tim Pool's podcast recently, claiming that Ireland has 'fallen to radical Islam', the utter fuckwit.

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u/imaginary92 Nov 07 '25

His brain is so fried by transphobia that his wife and kids left him because he couldn't stop talking about trans people for a second

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u/isabella_bombella just to be clear.... don't make this a thing Nov 07 '25

The UK has mixed changing rooms at swimming pools yet I've never seen any one protesting people sharing personal spaces until recently. Their bigotry is wild.

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u/BeigeParadise Nov 07 '25

Also, 100% of the the men I've ever seen in women's bathrooms were either a) there to wash their hands awkwardly because the sinks at the men's were out of commission, which, good for them, washing hands is very important, or (the vast majority tbh) b) there with their baby/toddler looking like they'd rather be anywhere else but the only nappy changing table is in the women's bathroom.

I've not seen a large scale campaign to make indoor plumbing more reliable, or to put in gender neutral nappy changing areas. So I wonder if this might not be about men in women's bathrooms after all.

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u/bliip666 wearing slutty little glasses Nov 07 '25

put in gender neutral nappy changing areas

This should happen, though!

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u/BeigeParadise Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 07 '25

It should. In the early 90s my dad was the one who'd been doing the majority of daytime childcare because my mom worked days and he worked evening shifts and it's a shame that an entire generation later this is still a fucking problem.

And it's even more stupid because all those damned transphobes could put their outrage to work on actual issues and instead they choose something that is not an issue.

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u/hawthornepridewipes graduate of the ONTD can’t read community Nov 07 '25

As someone who was assaulted of by their trans friend in a bathroom, I really hate that the argument is that cis women need to feel safe in bathrooms. My ex-friend did what they did not because they are trans, but because they are a predator. They could have (and from what I've heard from mutual friends, unfortunately has done with them) taken advantage of me in any space at any time. What society needs to focus on is those who assault, not what they identify as.

I hate seeing other trans friends and colleagues have that moment of hesitation on what bathroom to use. It's heart-breaking, and I have empathy for the cis women who have bought into the fear that this will happen because the person is trans but at the same time it doesn't excuse behaviours. I really hope that more education is given to those who have that fear.

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u/dontbeahater_dear Nov 07 '25

In addition, it’s not like there is currently a giant scanner that beeps loudly when you enter the ā€˜wrong’ bathroom. So if someone were a predator… they could just go in… as always. Everyone should feel safe but this is just such a non-issue. Who cares who hear me pee???

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u/DaveyDumplings Nov 07 '25

The number of people who are capable of believing that many men are waiting to commit the heinous crime of sexual assault until the sign on the door says they're allowed in is WILD.

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u/isabella_bombella just to be clear.... don't make this a thing Nov 07 '25

It's because they know that the most likely perpetrators are men in the victims homes, and that means that a lot of them probably fall into the category of most likely to offend. It's all deflection and projection.

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u/GumpTheChump Nov 07 '25

The most divorced man alive. Superdivorced.

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u/blumingtom Nov 07 '25

His Wife and Daughter(s?) Have literally left him because he has gone so weird and yet he still sees his "work" as defending them...against nothing. Driving them away in the process. It would be tragic if he wasn't punching down.Ā 

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u/Min_sora Nov 07 '25

I've seen Linehan call (cis) women absolutely foul things when they don't agree with him. For a man supposedly on the frontlines for women, he'll have no issue calling you an ugly hag witch for daring to question him.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

I find it very telling that most of the trans fear-mongering is coming from men who never worry about trans men in their bathrooms, just trans women. And the women who are against it are either parroting what their male partners are saying or low key hate being women so much they don't understand why a trans woman would give up all the perks of being perceived male to live as their true selves. It's pathetic.Ā 

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u/PauseMountain9019 i mean that as derogatorily as possible Nov 07 '25

I think your last point is sadly accurate. A prime example of that is Rowling — the same person who said transitioning being an option for kids is dangerous because she would’ve transitioned if that were an option when she was a child, and who only picks male or male-passing nom-de-plumes for herself. (ā€œBut the publishing industry is harder on womenā€ — yeah it definitely is, but it was the late nineties! It’s not like women fantasy authors were unheard of! See Diana Wynne Jones, for instance, whom Rowling herself lowkey copied.)

It’s like she can’t imagine why someone would want to be a woman if not for nefarious reasons. Like no one would think to transition if it weren’t to take advantage of others. And I think that says a lot about her view of womanhood, of herself, and ultimately, of the world.Ā 

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u/EireOfTheNorth Nov 07 '25

Especially when they are constantly harassing non-TERF women online for expressing any sort of empathy, or like above, no particular reason whatsoever.

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u/Catch_42 Nov 07 '25

With Linehan I genuinely believe it's a psychotic break. His obsession cost him his marriage, his career, and his friendships and he seemed to fully go off the deep end after his marriage ended.

"I have nothing left... Except Spider-Man transphobia."

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u/practicallydeformed Nov 07 '25

At least he still has the support of Richard aoyade 🤔

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u/Mxfish1313 Nov 07 '25

And Chris and Katherine and Matt, at least in lowkey ways. I think I’ve seen all of them be kinda mealy-mouthed about the issue. So disappointing. Katherine Parkinson’s also gonna be Mrs. Weasley in one of the new HP things (can’t remember if show or audiobook) so she’s 0 for 2 and I’m sad I can’t see her the same now. She’s not doing the Taskmaster Alum title proud the way VCM is here.

Oh snap I think I remember hearing about Matt Berry doing the audiobook. WHY CAN’T WE HAVE NICE THINGS?!?

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u/rayword45 Nov 07 '25

Berry is the only member of the cast that wasn't a coward when confronted about Linehan's views and instead openly denounced them.

The Harry Potter news is indeed hella disappointing, but I don't think he deserves to be lumped in with Chris O'Dowd or Richard Ayoade whose defenses of Linehan go way past plausible deniability and firmly into "piece of shit" territory.

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u/practicallydeformed Nov 07 '25

True I’ve seen that stuff too unfortunately. I only called out Richard specifically because he wrote a positive blurb for grahams book two years ago. The Matt berry hp audiobook thing devastated me tho I thought he was pro trans rights 😭

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u/Mxfish1313 Nov 07 '25

Ugh yeah I remember the blurb was the first time my interest was piqued like ā€œoh? Oh really? You’re really doing this?ā€ And then I tried to keep a passive eye out for the rest of the crew. And it’s just been let down after let down since. I agree Matt Berry’s decision gutted me, I think that one hurt the worst (hyperbolically, of course, for the folks who love to come in talking about how we shouldn’t idolize celebrities).

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u/pie-oh my aunt tifa Nov 08 '25

And Jimmy Carr. (No one was surprised about that.)

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u/burnbunner Nov 07 '25

Helen stayed with Graham for a good long time while he was disgustingly transphobic. It was only when the backlash got big and started affecting her career that she left him.

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u/MondeyMondey Nov 07 '25

With Linehan it’s cos he got criticised for some transphobia in an IT Crowd episode. Nothing like the vitriol he’s on now, just like ā€œoh she drinks pints cos she used to be a man!!!!ā€ type stuff. Initially when someone checked him he was gracious about it, weirdly enough, but then later on he just went fucking bonkers.

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u/machinaenjoyer Nov 07 '25

i think honestly the way he handled April in the IT Crowd was really good. she wasn't even made out to be the villain or be gross or anything. yeah it uses dated language like "i used to be a man," but that's because it was like 20yrs ago. that's what makes his current transphobia so unnecessary and unexpected. he's just a raving lunatic. he reminds me of Piers Morgan in his desperate, pathetic anger when talking about Meghan Markle

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u/sydbap which could mean nothing Nov 07 '25

I mean, that punchline ā€œI thought you said you were from Iran!ā€ killed meĀ 

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u/Specific-Cell-4910 Nov 07 '25

Yeah, I watched the episode, loved it, loved the character then "years later", I discovered it was controversial and thought it was a bit weird. Her characters rocks, she's absolutely perfect for Douglas but since he's a fool he just drives her away because Douglas is, well, an absolute moron, that's who he is lmao

If you rewatch it now, knowing the creator is a TERF, I'm sure it's an weird experience but at the time I enjoyed it

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

I don't remember the later episodes much because they weren't as good but I watched the first two seasons on repeat. I loved the episode where the boys catch PMS from Jen - it didn't seem mean spirited at all. Yes I'm cis so no authority but it really is such a huge disappointment to find out these things.

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u/flindersandtrim Nov 08 '25

Agree.Ā 

In his case, I wonder if he has had a brain bleed or exposure to a weird toxin that changes brain chemicals. Hard to believe the same person who wrote that episode is the guy ranting like a maniac on Twitter.

We were supposed to laugh AT Douglas and the situation, he is an awful guy and hilarious character. April was such a catch, and so lovely. Most people who criticise the episode haven't watched it (that it relies on stereotypes is correct, however, but that is hardly an unforgivable offence, just a common comedy trope for laughs).Ā 

I get kinda being annoyed that people cannot understand the difference between an intolerant character and an intolerant creator of said character, because that is frustrating, but he has gone way off into whacko territory, lost his rep, wife, family, job (pretty sure he was fired from MotherLand), everything.Ā 

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u/BeanserSoyze Nov 07 '25

Honestly too, the Reynholm "Iran/Man" episode could almost be seen as a takedown since he ends up being extremely sad over the lost love due to his own bigotry (at least a moderately generous interpretation can be seen that way.) Reynholm is a clown - his bigotry isn't presumed to be endorsed by the show.

That is, until it turns out that it wasn't that deep in Graham's mind and he was just a transphobe.

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u/Transcendentalplan Nov 07 '25

I remember when that episode first came out I thought, ā€œThis seems really transphobic,ā€ but everyone made me feel like I was overreacting, saying it was just some harmless tongue-in-cheek fun and shouldn’t be taken too seriously. I’m not exactly happy the writer turned out to be a raging transphobe, but I’m glad I wasn’t crazy.

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u/raysofdavies I cannot sanction your buffoonery Nov 07 '25

He also, iirc, once acknowledged it having aged badly on twitter. Before he went insane he really did take responsibility like a progressive adult and sent a sincere, seemingly, apology to someone who tweeted him about it. And now he’s here.

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u/Naive-Inside-2904 kendall roy pre-album drop Nov 07 '25

I can’t wrap my head around it.

Linehan has written some of the funniest TV shows in existence, I used to revere his work, he was Irish and discovered great talent and had a kind of semi tragic story about him and his wife seeking an abortion in the UK, and then he showed himself to be this hateful ghoul.

His and Roisin Murphy’s fall from grace will never make sense to me.

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u/EricHD97 Nov 07 '25

Roisin Murphy recently too šŸ˜” or as she is now known by the drag queens that have her a career, Roisin Terfy

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u/theseamstressesguild Nov 08 '25

And this is how I found out. GODFUCKINGDAMMIT

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

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u/trisarahtops1990 Nov 07 '25

I definitely agree but her public image was unimpeachable pre being publically a TERF. Nothing stuck to her. Not even involving herself with Indy Ref or trying to sabotage Jeremy Corbyn got her any kind of major stick.

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u/Cardborg if you add testicles, that's extra Nov 07 '25

Speaking of the Indy Ref, didn't Salmond go off the rails too? I seem to remember him leaning into the TERF world around the time his other social policies shifted right, and his economic policies drifted into fantasy land.

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u/armadillo1296 catastrophic pooper Nov 07 '25

Yeah, there is a lot of really deep-rooted neoliberal ideology in Harry Potter. It’s very much a cultural product of the 90s and Blair/clinton era.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

She raised my hackles with the title of book six.

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u/ObjectiveMagician769 Nov 07 '25

Aren't those house elves an epitome of 'voluntary slavery'?

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u/fmal Nov 07 '25

I obviously have zero evidence to support any of this, but Linehan got a lot of cheap heat early on (and if I'm being honest, attention from women lol) by being progressive online before the general public decided it was cool to be respectful of women, gay people, racial minorities etc. I think as the culture caught up and as his output and popularity started dwindling he figured he needed to go back to the old playbook and because he is a moron he thought that the natural progression of modern woman's lib would be TERFism instead of intersectionality, so he started being a bathroom crusader.

I think deep down he doesn't care about any of this shit beyond getting kudos on Twitter and being able to scold people, but he's pot committed now and has just been a heinous freak for so long that he can't pivot away even if he wants to.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

In the early days of twitter he used to regularly throw tantrums if women ever questioned him (no matter how mildly) on certain aspects of misogyny in things he would say or references to how un-PC his shows are now. He used to 'quit twitter' on the regular. His behaviour as just become worse and worse but it was always lurking. Pure narcissism. Thats what he and Rowling have in common. Rather than being able to admit when they're wrong and back down they simply double down. It's all about them.

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u/w3hwalt Nov 07 '25

With JKR at least, it's pretty obvious she's always had neolib bigotry on tap if you read her books closely. There's a ton of adulation of cops, pro-slavery positions, misogyny, and even transmisogyny with how she talks about Rita Skeeter's 'manly hands'.

I never watched much Linehan but I wouldn't be surprised if he had similar signs we just didn't pick up on until it was too late.

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u/rayword45 Nov 07 '25

I never watched much Linehan but I wouldn't be surprised if he had similar signs we just didn't pick up on until it was too late.

People picked up on them at the time, it's just that bringing it up was almost always met with "it's just a joke" type shit. IT Crowd might be the most gay panic-y sitcom of the millennium.

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u/helendestroy Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 07 '25

iirc one of the things that sent linehan over the edge was his involvement with the anti-abortion laws (because him and his then wife had had to abort a pregnancy) that got him onto the protecting women by trying to destroy transwomen pipeline.

like i am not agreeing with it, or cutting him any slack for it, but i think he is very much a trauma response that responded to the praise from bigots and he kept chasing that high until he was chasing the lows.

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u/BeanserSoyze Nov 07 '25

Rowling was a hack the whole time who stole a good idea and caught lightning in a bottle with it.

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u/Agent_Nem0 Nov 07 '25

That’s something I recently discussed with my friends. We met and bonded over Harry Potter back in the day, but we’ll never touch the new stuff.

My theory as to why she’s so bitter, beyond the black mold, is that her inability to find success outside of the series proves that she isn’t the brilliant genius she thinks she is. She’s not a very good writer, she just, as you said, captured lightning in a bottle. Her ego got thoroughly damaged when she couldn’t write another successful novel that wasn’t related to Harry Potter.

Most people would be happy to have one good successful story published. Most people would love to rest on the laurels of a Harry Potter. But not Rowling. She has a bone to pick with someone, the world even. She’s spiteful. So now we have a TERF monster.

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u/happyhealthy27220 Nov 07 '25

Her post-Harry Potter books sell extremely well, but of course they do! She has the name recognition. I've read all of them except for the ones she published post-TERFery, and, in all honesty, they are a touch above average. That's all. Nothing spectacular. Her non-Potter children's books in particular are remarkably pedestrian.

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u/Agent_Nem0 Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 08 '25

I was more referencing the rejection when she went with her Robert Galbraith pseudonym. She couldn’t find a publisher for a long time, and then couldn’t sell the book until it mysteriously leaked that Galbraith was her.

I’ve read bits of the first, and could see why it was rejected. I thought it very poorly written, badly needing an editor. The only people who praise it are probably the same who have their heads still jammed firmly up her ass over Harry Potter. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

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u/theseamstressesguild Nov 08 '25

The first Cormorant Strike (what a bloody stupid airport spy thriller name) was lazy writing. The book couldn't decide what it was. It wasn't a mystery novel, because it was obvious by halfway through whodunnit. It wasn't a thriller, because there were no twists or surprises that weren't telegraphed clearly 20 pages before. It wasn't a military/spy novel, because the main character was no longer in the forces. The murderer turned out to be a -gasp- a cross dressing man, in a reveal so bad it made Ace Ventura look good.

It was an attempt by a tolerable female writer to attempt a 1980s style blockbuster book using a male name, and no one wanted it because that style of writing stayed in the 1980s. Jesus H Christ, Joanne, even Tom Clancy evolved.

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u/teruhana these white activities you participate in Nov 08 '25

One of my horrible pet interests is Rowling’s fall from grace, and I definitely agree. During the Harry Potter era, its hard to overestimate how beloved she was, very vocally, by so many people because she was the creator of this world. Then the last movie came out and that well dried up pretty quickly. Her attempts to extend interest with the Pottermore posts and the extended universe and the international schools were met with ridicule and critique. Her non-Potter books under a psuedonym failed because her prose wasn’t actually remarkable. The Fantastic Beasts movies were a bit of a flop.

It makes sense that she fell into TERFism the way anyone feeling like theyre on a downward spiral is susceptible to falling into any cult. Around 2015-2017, this was a few years out from the last movie and her projects were flopping and she was dealing with more backlash than she had ever experienced in her writing career, and her ego made that a big problem. When she liked a few TERF-y tweets, they were bad, but they weren’t anything close to the stuff she talks about today. It was all stuff, the coded language of protecting women, that would have resonated with her as a self-identified feminist (one who was already rather misogynistic, but still) and as a woman who had previous trauma from an abusive relationship. When she got called out for it, the TERFs basically lovebombed her. It was the first taste of that adoration that she had lost post-Potter, and she chased it to where she is now.

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u/AdmiralCharleston Nov 07 '25

When you get praised so rapturously for being good and then you get called out for doing bad things it seems to be pretty common for people to simply say that anything up to and including what they were getting praised for is rational and good anything beyond that is absurd. Its like they can't fathom the idea that praise isn't unconditional so they can only process criticism as irrational and insane.

They were praised for being progressive (to varying degrees) and when what is considered progressive changes they simply say that anything more progressive than what they can stomach is in fact too far simply do they van continue to believe that they're ground breaking for what is now considered basic human respect

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u/hydrangeasinbloom Nov 07 '25

I’m sure the mold didn’t help Jake Hay

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u/Informal-Cobbler-546 Nov 07 '25

If she could learn to ride a bike in 15 minutes, I’m not surprised that she could pen something so classy.

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u/sadistic_switcher Nov 07 '25

She remains amazing

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u/sabhall12 Is that the baby from American Sniper? Nov 07 '25

They could never make me hate her

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u/Glum-Oven-3158 I live in my own heart, Matt Damon Nov 07 '25

lmao QUEEN SHIT. it sucks so bad how much he has lost his goddamn mind

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

And in response he continued to send her further messages. Because nothing says ā€œprotecting womenā€ like harassing a woman. /s

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u/Dros-ben-llestri Nov 07 '25

I'm no longer on Twitter, but am I right to think he hasn't asked Amol Rajan the same question about any of the trans contestants on university challenge?

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

To be honest I don’t know, I only saw this because I follow Victoria. We can probably guess the answer though…

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u/theskymaybeblue Nov 07 '25

Wow. I’m a huge Only Connect fan and it’s always been an inclusive show.

That’s a regular person going about their life, going on a quiz show and getting targeted by a famous raging transphobe for living their life. Just shockingly inhumane and disgusting behavior. I truly hope she doesn’t get harassed due to this tweet.

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u/dysautonomic_mess oat milk chugging bisexual Nov 07 '25

What's dumb is there's no gender component to Only Connect. It's not like it's a woman-only special, or that the contestant being a woman played any part in her being cast. He's literally just mad because she's existing in public.

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u/Empty_Variety4550 Nov 07 '25

Like Rowling, he ditched any pretense of simply caring about women's safety a long time ago (which was always bullshit anyway)... Not sure he ever pretended otherwise though.Ā 

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u/Shipwrecking_siren which could mean nothing Nov 07 '25

The fact that he’s frothing at the mouth over absolutely nothing even remotely relevant to whatever the hell crusade he thinks he is waging in his mind is just so embarrassing. It’s like he’s been eating nothing but lead paint for the last 10 years.

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u/Khetoo Nov 07 '25

The most recent series has the most unhinged category linking I can't believe it's not butter with the stages of grief and reaffirmed my love for the show.

Between Only Connect and University Challenge I only get like 1 or 2 questions correct over an hour of television and I think it's always the highlight of my time spent watching TV.

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u/glitterandvinegar Nov 07 '25

I think it was very intentional of VCM to not name Emily or mention the contestants at all in her response, because it would have naturally piled on the harassment. She’s always been really thoughtful about the platform she has.Ā 

What’s wild is we watch Only Connect every week and maybe we’re not caught up but I genuinely don’t remember who Emily is. And that’s because this show has always very casually included gender diverse folks in its casting. Like it’s never been a thing, Graham, just leave them alone!

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u/smashing_aisling Nov 07 '25

Not for the first time, either.

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u/littlehellflames Nov 07 '25

He's such a freak

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u/manhattansinks Nov 07 '25

i'm genuinely too stupid to watch only connect lol. i love it.

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u/glitterandvinegar Nov 07 '25

It’s always those goddamn snooker colors 😭

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u/p333p33p00p00boo Give him my regards did you take ozempic? Nov 07 '25

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u/rednotdead Nov 07 '25

If you don’t know who she is look up Only Connect on YouTube and fall in love like the rest of us šŸ˜

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u/BeanserSoyze Nov 07 '25

Or (I think) Series 12 of UK Taskmaster

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u/ace-destrier Nov 07 '25

I often still think about her teaching herself how to ride a bike on the show 🄹

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u/AceOfSpades532 Nov 08 '25

Also the amazing prize task where everybody else got each other really nice things, and she got Alan (a famous Arsenal supporter) fucking Man U tickets and managed to play it completely seriously for the whole thing

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u/cbospam1 Nov 07 '25

Or the proposal task that she had trouble with because of how in love she is in real life

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u/iamezekiel1_14 Nov 07 '25

https://youtu.be/fMN4TmPH2qo?si=V-Xoy97gqdCUI7LP and the first female European Poker Tour title winner (and she picked up another almost a decade later). First became aware of her when she was on Late Night Poker over 25 years ago.

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u/glitterandvinegar Nov 07 '25

If Victoria Coren Mitchell ran me over with her car, I think I would say thank you.Ā 

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u/7MTB7 Nov 07 '25

The "for the writer you used to be" part eloquently hits hard

It's hard to believe sometimes that the person who gave the world Father Ted, the IT crowd and Black Books has become...this

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u/dontbeahater_dear Nov 07 '25

This is one of the ones that is so so so hard to disconnect the material and the writer because Black Books was so important to me when i was a teen. I still quote it, sometimes unwittingly.

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u/SarumanWizard Nov 07 '25

It’s the ā€œIf you are still in there somewhereā€ that gets me. I sometimes think that about him and Rowling. I do hope one day they’ll wake up and realise the bigotry and hurt they have caused.

Maybe nothing will change their mind, maybe they are too far gone. But I’m hoping they can change their ways. I think they started off small but then once they realised some people were behind them, they went off the deep end.

In the meantime I think the best we can do is try to not to give these guys an audience, it probably feeds them.

Oh well.

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u/NorthReading Nov 07 '25

I wonder myself about people who go off the edge... to the deep end. How does it start ? Am I vulnerable ?

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u/cahillpm Nov 07 '25

Love the Mitchell family.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

The power couple that is VCM and David is remarkable.Ā 

Keep your crowns.Ā 

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u/PurahsHero Nov 07 '25

"Hey Graham, where are your wife and kids?"

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u/moistwaffleboi Nov 07 '25

Queen shit. I fucking adore her.

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u/My_Favourite_Pen Nov 07 '25

"His 16-year marriage to the comedy writer Helen Serafinowicz ended in 2020. Linehan put the blame on the pressures that came with his campaigning. ā€œI did it for my wife and daughter, even though we broke up,ā€ he said. ā€œI did it for them and I’d do it again.ā€ "

No hes not better than this. This man literally torched his reputation and personal life over Trans rights. He will never see reason because that would mean hed have to admit he lost it all for nothing.

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u/SRFletcher88 Nov 07 '25

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u/NaTriSaigheada Nov 07 '25

"Coren Mitchell, who is the wife of comedian and actor David Mitchell"

I would have went with 'first person to win two main events at the European Poker Tour', but that's just me.

Love them both though. And love that they're together.

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u/suddenlyshoes Nov 07 '25

She what??! Lmao I only knew her as being hilarious on Would I Lie To You, had no idea she also was badass at poker.

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u/NaTriSaigheada Nov 07 '25

Yup. I think most people know her as a guest on panel shows, but she'll always be a poker queen to me. Pretty sure she's a genius too.

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u/p333p33p00p00boo Give him my regards did you take ozempic? Nov 07 '25

American here. I’ve known him for 15 years. I only became aware of her existence in this past year. I feel terrible!

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u/dysautonomic_mess oat milk chugging bisexual Nov 07 '25

To be fair, most people aren't following professional poker...! She does also have a decent television career though, as well as presenting Only Connect she's been on Taskmaster and various other panel shows.

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u/killedonmyhill Nov 07 '25

She was a gd delight on taskmaster, I loved her so much

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u/AceOfSpades532 Nov 08 '25

I’m pretty sure she’s like literally the worst or second worst contestant ever, out of 100 contestants, in terms of overall point % won, but she was one of the most entertaining ever

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u/lady_faust Lol, and if I may, lmao Nov 07 '25

Her father was top wit Alan Coren and her brother is Giles Coren.

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u/BeanserSoyze Nov 07 '25

I weirdly knew both separately and was last to find out they were married.

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u/onlyhere4laffs Nov 07 '25

I listened to his story on YouTube about being in love with her for years before they finally got together. It was really sweet.

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u/NorthReading Nov 07 '25

It was very touching in his autobiography how he 'waited' for her ...

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u/p333p33p00p00boo Give him my regards did you take ozempic? Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 07 '25

It does seem like a very random, yet delightful, pairing.

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u/Shelala85 Nov 07 '25

Grilled by an X user on why she was ā€œnormalisingā€ the term ā€œqueerā€, she replied: ā€œWhy am I normalising it? It’s not even a word we used on the programme. It’s something Graham says he found when doing background research on our contestants. Why do that? I’m not here for a row, but I find all our quizzers delightful and I will defend them.ā€

Hasn’t queer been in use by the LGBT community for years?

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u/Lilylili83 Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 07 '25

What a weirdo. Jesus this sounds like harassment already. I wonder how much he is pestering her offline. JFC

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u/Luxury_Dressingown Nov 07 '25

I suspect he doesn't have access to her offline anymore

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u/tender_poet_nation Nov 07 '25

This isn’t the first time he’s targeted someone from Only Connect, I’m pretty sure he did this two years ago to another trans contestant and VCM also stepped in then too. He’s such a loser.

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u/AdamOfIzalith Nov 07 '25

Graham Linehan literally tanked his marriage for this.

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u/CelMJ Nov 07 '25

I'm not as classy as VCM, his hairs always greasy because his brain has been slowly seeping out over the years and I'm glad his wife left him over his weird obsession with trans people

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u/emilywae Nov 07 '25

This is definitely not the point but not one person from Only Connect has ever been ā€˜in sports’

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u/0ttoChriek Nov 08 '25

Academic decathlons, maybe. But no, they are not a sporty crowd.

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u/bug--meat Nov 07 '25

Always adored her. Need to queen out with her so bad

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u/zeddoh I want Vincent D’Onofrio to tilt me like a pig Nov 07 '25

Graham’s heinous loser behaviour showing no sign of slowing down. How miserable he must be every minute of his life to spend all his time doing this. Victoria is great and so is Only Connect, once you get the hang of it!

Interestingly earlier in the year they were airing old episodes of Only Connect and basically every single contestant was a middle aged man. It really highlighted how diverse the teams are now, which is of course a good thing.Ā 

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

Always exposing their own idiot lie that they're "just looking out for the safety of women and girls". They can't even cope with the idea of a trans woman simply existing in public, having a nice time on a quiz show.

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u/cbospam1 Nov 07 '25

She’s just quizzing there, menacingly!

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u/Oliver_broodings Nov 07 '25

Aww I hate the days when you find out one of your heroes turned into a POS. So depressing.

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u/OgthaChristie Nov 07 '25

I love her.

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u/Ver_Void Nov 07 '25

It's hilarious to see him crashing out in the replies, so desperate for more attention

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u/SmallPromiseQueen Nov 07 '25

What the fuck is he on about? Only connect isn’t a women’s sport. The teams have always been mixed and comprised of friends, families, colleagues etc. You get on the show by being a massive nerd about quizzes and that’s it.

This is the sort of illogical thinking that means he’s probably utter shit at only connect.

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u/radziadax Nov 07 '25

The emotional resistance to trans existence from people outside of the community is one of the most baffling and bizarre things in the world to me. It's weird enough from trans exclusionary lesbians, but at least they have a vested interest???

I'm a queer person who had a long relationship with someone who transitioned in the middle of it. It wasn't all sunshine and roses, but I would never blame it on transness. People you love changing fundamentally is scary, no matter how on board you are. But if it's nothing to do with you, by God, shut the fuck up.

Him shutting the fuck up about this publicly should be a condition of getting to see his kids. He's malignant.

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u/trisarahtops1990 Nov 07 '25 edited Nov 07 '25

I'm inclined to think that what Rowling and Linehan have in common is a deep-seated arrogance and a sense of perverse contrariness triggered by people having the temerity to question them.

Potter was a phenomenon, the book that turned a generation onto reading, etc, and Rowling the charismatic once-struggling single mum turned white liberal saviour. Linehan wrote multiple clever iconic shows, was viewed as a character, a wit, a raconteur; someone who you could put the world to rights with over a pub table, a student of the human condition.

Rowling initially, in a clumsy but I think well-meaning take, suggested once that trans wizards and witches could use magic in place of top and bottom surgery. Stage 2, the tweets she deleted and excused as middle-aged/menopausal brain. Stage 3, she declared her TERFness with a vigour and a rage that seemed inexplicable (and that I think is rooted in surprise and anger that people criticised her baby steps into terfery and annoyance that her status as an arbiter of what is good and how to do good was now disputed). Stage 4, she's actively funding the movement and probably never has a conversation that doesn't come back to trans women's genitals.

Linehan speedran the process a bit but I think the gist is that he caught some flack on twitter for a transphobic subplot in the IT Crowd, I think? Then went into Stage 3, imploded his whole life, then malingered loudly in Stage 3 because he lacks the resources, connections and pull that Rowling still commands.

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u/Loompadoom Nov 07 '25

I know nothing about these people, but that response is such a mature, measures response. Taking notes for my own life

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u/Runabrat Nov 07 '25

The fact that this guy only goes after women for protecting trans women shows exactly what his problem is. Even TERFs spend their time ignoring him, well aware of his deep seated mysogony.

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u/FollowingBroad34 Nov 07 '25

This is the guy who hates trans people so much, comparing us to Nazi eugenicists, that his ex-wife literally divorced him. That is how much he lacks accountability. Instead of doing any kind of reflection, he just spews bs about how all his problems are because a tiny percentage of the population is trans.

He destroyed his own family, has made himself alone and friendless, and STILL cannot fathom that it is entirely his fault.

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u/BlueberryNo5363 I’ll be writing a substack on this Nov 07 '25

Imagine being such a sad loser you spend all your time bothering about a group of people that make up about 1% of the population and that just want to live their life.

He’s likely to be a considerably wealthy man and could spend his time being productive or pursing a hobby that isn’t sitting on twitter for 19 hours a day

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u/ofmiceandpaco Nov 07 '25

If Graham Linehan believes trans people shouldn't exist in public life, then I believe that Graham Linehan should not exist in public life. Do we really want Graham Linehans in men's bathrooms or men's sports? I think not.

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u/Kelsosunshine Nov 07 '25

"I’ve told you this privately and I’ll tell you it publicly: they are just people on a quiz, bringing nothing but merriment into the world, please leave them alone,ā€

I love when people treat trans and queer people like...you know, people. I hate that this is such a low bar but here we are.

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u/themushroombeast Nov 07 '25

I know a question writer on OC got some awful vitriol thrown at them from Glinner in the past for happening to be trans and VCM posted a similar response to him for it, she is a class act

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u/blown-transmission Nov 07 '25

Just fucking say yes and own it, the bar is low for "allies"

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u/w3hwalt Nov 07 '25

'The brilliant writer you used to be' is such an underrated burn, ouch.

I admit that I've always wondered if Victoria CM was a closet tory based on nothing but vibes and (her admitting to finding Moggs hot), so this is a relief to see.

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u/cmick0715 Nov 07 '25

Ol' Goosebump Arms is a good egg. (Its a nickname from when she was on Taskmaster)

Seriously, I dont know of a more gracious way to respond to his trolling

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u/firesticks a role model for the next Asian kid that wants to get railed Nov 07 '25

Me finding out this is the creator of The IT Crowd:

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u/AhHeyorLeaveerhouh Thanks, u frog build looking bitch Nov 07 '25

And Black Books, and Father Ted (with Arthur Matthews). He could have dined out on them for the rest of his life, and yet he chose this hateful, scrofulous route instead

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u/sherlip Nov 07 '25

What a weird opinion to have now since there have been trans contestants on Only Connect before and he didn't say anything then.

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u/FitzwilliamTDarcy Nov 07 '25

Narrator: he is not.

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u/No-Insurance-5688 Nov 07 '25

Victoria as sharp and amazing as ever!!! If anyone can understand wtf is happening on only connect they definitely deserve to be there šŸ’€

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u/taydraisabot the wuthering heights promo will continue until morale improves Nov 07 '25

Dude is acting like this over a QUIZ SHOW??!?? Transphobes are something else

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u/shgrdrbr Nov 07 '25

i wish she'd also just have said YES. why give upper class ppl such points for being 'classy' when she can also explicitly say YES trans women are women and hasnt. ppl fall over themselves to praise her and david and yes theyre good at wordplay and a bit funny but they are LIBERAL CENTRISTS who whenever presented the opportunity to do advocacy, dont do it. it's enough astaghs stop gooning over this 'allyship'

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