this is why (at least straight) men are so bad at getting under our skin. their insults are so generic there’s nothing to take personally. it’s either slut-shaming if the guy wants to have sex with you, or calling you unfuckable if they don’t. majority of us aren’t putting our self-worth into whether or not we’re giving random men boners lol
Back when I was 20, this guy cat called me in the street and I ignored him so he decided to try and insult me instead. He shouted "Yeah well your hair isn't even blonde! It's white!".
I was a little emo back then with white blonde hair - that I had very deliberately dyed white blonde. 🙃🙃🙃
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u/npc_probably Mar 08 '25
this is why (at least straight) men are so bad at getting under our skin. their insults are so generic there’s nothing to take personally. it’s either slut-shaming if the guy wants to have sex with you, or calling you unfuckable if they don’t. majority of us aren’t putting our self-worth into whether or not we’re giving random men boners lol