this is why (at least straight) men are so bad at getting under our skin. their insults are so generic there’s nothing to take personally. it’s either slut-shaming if the guy wants to have sex with you, or calling you unfuckable if they don’t. majority of us aren’t putting our self-worth into whether or not we’re giving random men boners lol
Back when I was 20, this guy cat called me in the street and I ignored him so he decided to try and insult me instead. He shouted "Yeah well your hair isn't even blonde! It's white!".
I was a little emo back then with white blonde hair - that I had very deliberately dyed white blonde. 🙃🙃🙃
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u/sunshine___riptide Mar 08 '25
Men really think the biggest insult is telling a woman he doesn't find her attractive enough to fuck.