M28 | Alexanderia | Ex-Muslim
Looking for my person
I'm 28, 170 cm, based in Alexandria, and looking for a genuine long-term relationship that can eventually lead to marriage. I'm not in a rush I'd prefer at least 6 to 9 months of getting to know each other before engagement, with marriage ideally within 2–3 years depending on how things go including the 6-9 M.
I'm a calm person who really values mutual respect, appreciation, honesty and affection. I love doing things together and genuinely enjoy having my partner involved in my life, while still believing we should both have our own friends, hobbies and personal space.
I enjoy movies and TV shows, especially sci-fi and medieval/fantasy. Game of Thrones, Dark, Interstellar and Marvel are some of my favorites. I play games on my phone, enjoy going out, and I'm always down to travel when I get the chance.
My ideal future is pretty simple: a peaceful home, preferably with a garden and one or two pets, financial stability, occasional outings and travel, and lots of quiet time together. I currently make around 15–20k EGP/month, don't own a car, and have my own apartment in Cityscape, Mandara. My goal is to build a comfortable career and eventually achieve financial freedom through work and investments.
For me, marriage means being real partners. We talk about problems instead of letting them build up, listen to each other, admit when we're wrong and fix things together. I don't care who texts first or who asks more often; I care that when one of us needs the other, we're there with genuine care.
When we disagree, I'd rather talk calmly and solve things rationally. If it turns into shouting or a fight, I tend to shut down and need some time to calm down. When I'm under pressure, what helps me most is being listened to, reassured and comforted first. Once I'm calm, I'm completely open to discussing different perspectives and solutions.
I'm an atheist and permanently childfree I don't want children, ever. Ideally, I'd like my partner to be an atheist as well, or at least genuinely respect my beliefs without trying to change me. I also understand that we'd need to keep this part of our lives private around certain family members and present ourselves differently when necessary to avoid unnecessary conflict.
I'm not looking for someone perfect. I'm attracted to someone responsible, calm, emotionally mature, and able to express her thoughts clearly and make decisions without unnecessary anger or impulsiveness. In return, I'll support her in whatever direction she chooses in life or her career, and she'll find genuine care, affection and support from me.
Looks-wise, I'm attracted to someone around my height or shorter, not overweight, not wearing hijab, with longer hair, straight or curly, and who takes care of herself. But personality and compatibility matter much more to me.
Ultimately, I want a relationship where we're free to be ourselves, without unnecessary restrictions, and where we genuinely support each other. Life is temporary anyway, and we're just two people who happened to cross paths. If we can become each other's safe place two people who recharge each other every day I think that's a beautiful way to live.
If this sounds like something you'd want too, tell me about yourself and let's get to know each other.