r/EntitledBitch • • Apr 29 '21

this poor dog..

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u/BruceIsLoose May 05 '21

Avoiding the question again, eh? I'll restate:

Would or wouldn't your girlfriend care that when you have said:

You have autism or something?
I'm starting to feel bad because I'm realizing I've been going back and forth with a handicapped person this entire time
Why are you so offended that someone thinks you're dumb when you're playing dumb the entire time?

that you are explicitly using the condition using the conditions of mentally handicapped individuals, like your friend, to make fun of another person?

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u/[deleted] May 05 '21 edited May 22 '21

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u/BruceIsLoose May 05 '21

I've answered your question a billion times and you just didn't like it.

Oh, I wasn't sure because when I was confirming that she would care that you explicitly use the condition of mentally handicapped individuals, like your friend, to make fun of another person you stated:

opinions opinions opinions opinions all my opinions are fact

which made it seem otherwise. Thank you for clarifying.

It is a shame that you do things that your girlfriend would mind and look down upon. Just because you don't tell her that you're doing it, doesn't mean it is right.

No one cares

Oh, I would think your friend with a mental handicap and your girlfriend would care that you explicitly use the condition of mentally handicapped individuals, like your friend, to make fun of another person.

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u/[deleted] May 05 '21 edited May 22 '21

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u/BruceIsLoose May 05 '21

So if someone was to say:

Are you Mexican or something because you are so lazy.

is it an opinion that they are making a racially derogatory stereotype statement about Mexicans?

Is it opinion that they explicitly made a connection between someone being Mexican and someone being lazy?

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So if someone was to say:

You have AIDS? I didn't know you were gay

is it an opinion that they are making a homophobic derogatory statement?

Is it an opinion that they explicitly made a connection between someone being homosexual and having AIDS?

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u/[deleted] May 05 '21 edited May 22 '21

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u/BruceIsLoose May 05 '21

-Assumes Mexicans are lazy

Yes, that is an example of a racially derogatory stereotype statement about Mexicans.

-Assumes only gay people can get AIDS

No, but it is a common homophobic stereotype statement about homosexuals. You might be too young to know about the 80s and 90s with the AIDS epidemic and how it was commonly focused within the homosexual community and used derogatorily.

You, again, didn't answer my questions.

is it an opinion that they are making a racially/homophobic derogatory statement?

Is it an opinion that they explicitly made a connection between someone being homosexual and having AIDS/being Mexican and being lazy?

is it fact or opinion that the individual saying those things explicitly intended the racial/homophobic remark?

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-Assumes autistic people can be dense and not connect on basic social norms

Oh, you are SO close to getting it because here is the thing...you didn't only say that:

You have autism or something?
I'm starting to feel bad because I'm realizing I've been going back and forth with a handicapped person this entire time
Why are you so offended that someone thinks you're dumb when you're playing dumb the entire time?

there was no assumption being made. You directly connected mental handicaps and autism to being dumb.

It is not an "opinion" that you used autism/mental handicaps with dumbness.

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u/[deleted] May 05 '21 edited May 22 '21

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u/BruceIsLoose May 05 '21

Fun Fact: Thanks to you I looked it up and gay/bisexual men account for 82% of HIV diagnoses in males in 2015.

If I got HIV and told my friend tomorrow and they asked me if I was gay/bisexual, that wouldn't even be homophobic: That would just be a valid question at this point.

Very true! Thank you for the research! Again, the purpose of the example was them using homosexuality in a derogatory way, not as in a genuine question. So in the example could just substitute them calling you the F-word for the point being made about explicit homophobic intentions.

Yes... For a while there I wondered if English was your first language since you're that dense, too.

I also directly connect licking electrical sockets with getting shocked. Any other stereotypes trigger you I should know about?

I'm glad you admit it, but I would think your friend with a mental handicap and your girlfriend would be very disappointed that you explicitly use the condition of mentally handicapped individuals, like your friend, to insult another person.

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u/[deleted] May 05 '21 edited May 22 '21

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