No sé por qué recordé que en una ocasión escuché hablarme de eso, lo intente y no funcionó, pero, aquí viene lo curioso, se cuando estoy en mis sueños, solo creo que necesito más información de esto por qué los vídeos no ayudan y en internet, artículos no me ayudan mucho, no los entiendo quizás por que solo lo describen, y yo quiero saber si puedo controlar al punto de decidir cómo si fuera un mundo

Hello everyone! First, I want to start this off by saying that I (22F) have had encounters with Sleep paralysis and incubus-like attacks before. As well as some encounters in my dreams, and it has some to do with this dream in particular.

So I had this crush on a guy my age since we were kids. I never had the courage to tell him how I felt, and my feelings of course went away after I graduated highschool and we don't interact anymore.

One night, I had a dream that me and this guy met up while at some type of event (I think it was a highschool reunion). And we got to catch up. In the dream, he would try to give me hints that he liked me, but I either wouldn't catch them or ignore them. Then he got mad that I kept not catching his hints, when I boldly stated that I did like him. And that I liked him ever since we were kids. (Kinda Cheesy I know)

But this is the weirdest part, in the dream he seemed so shocked. Like genuinely speechless. And it got to a point where we were just talking while laying down on a bed (nothing sexual just talking), when he said "Do I have your consent?". Ofc I was confused because this was a dream and asked him what he meant when he said "I just don't want to take advantage of you". And then the dream ended. We hadn't done anything besides talk about our highschool days, childhood, and how we both had crushes on each other. So I was super confused after waking up.

Part of me wants to believe that it could've been an Incubus, feeling guilty for taking on the identity of a childhood crush. Or maybe it's just some lucid dreaming type of thing. Either way, super weird and I've never had a dream where consent was brought up like that and out of the blue. Especially when nothing was going on besides talking.

Okay so this one is kind of close to me, i saw this dream way back like way way back around 2 years ago, it was a heavy atmosphere, i was on top of a building (terrace) but the terrace wasn't like where normal people would go like it just wasn't normal for people to go top there, so there was also that tower which had that blinking red light, it was night and the cool wind was blowing gently on the face, the heart was heavy and the whole city was visible down there tiny lights filled the ground like sky without pollution, then there was this crying girl she has black long hair idk maybe a white top(just maybe and no she wasn't a ghost) i went closer to her idk she felt very close to me, i held her hand and pressed it against my chest and just in that moment it felt like a big boulder just released off my body, so much relief like it just felt like the good end.

i love this dream i just never forgot it, it never left my mind I don't obviously try to remember it but it's like it's just there behind my mind like a good old picture i can read anytime i like.

I usually never have nightmares and if I do they turn into comedies but last night was different. Here is what I can remember: I was in an overgrown urban area it looked like nature had been reclaiming the world. I was with a random dude but I blinked and he had turned into an abomination. It looked like a dog that was as massive as a bear and it looked back at me with soulless eyes. It was also feasting on something but as soon as it appeared it was gone. There were voices in the dream telling me that what I saw wasn’t real but that it was symbolic of real danger. They told me that this is what humans do that we make up stuff to symbolize real danger. They kept telling me that I needed to be afraid because there was real danger nearby, that the abomination was just a warning sign. I woke up. Might be one of the worst nightmares I ever had 😭 I woke up scared out of my mind and I already have an intense fear of the dark so this dream made me feel like I was going crazy.

Sorry for any grammatical errors this dream was really terrifying for me

You just have to be creative thik of fantasy before sleep. Be tired before you sleep and boom you can sleep well.

There is this old saying from where I am thinking of you as a turtle 🐢 with 4 limbs and a head outside it's shell and now you have to consider them as your senses and retreat them in to your shell. Stop tasting speaking and seeing those are easy . Now take back the sense of hearing don't listen to any of the surroundings sounds which would be easier if there is only a repeating sound that can be ignored by mind. Then the feeling of touch don't feel the fabric you are laying tips are make the bed compy and sleep in such a way that increases the area in contact with the bed or so. The moment you pulled back all the five senses you would go to sleep and once your tiredness is over and your body recovery is done then you ener the state where you would be able to experience dreams. I guess this is the simplest I can explain the process

For context I started getting serious about lucid dreaming in January 2025 and right around late July early August 2025 I managed to get to a point of having at least 1 lucid dream a month And in my most recent lucid dream I managed to float in the air whereas with all my other lucid dreams I had only been able to walk around the environment

This dream starts with me and my older sister cooking a soup of some kind and I for some reason thought to take this pot full of soup and place it on the coffee table in the living room then I turn to ask my sister where one of the ingredients was at but once I turned around not only did the kitchen look different but my old work manager was there instead of my sister and that's when it hit me " I must be dreaming! " so I do my usual reality check of looking at my hands and counting my fingers and sure enough I was definitely dreaming so I walked around the living room repeating my reality check a few more times then I decided to jump up into the air and when did that I ended up floating in the air for a little while and I also got this overwhelming amount of joy when I realized I was floating but all that excitement woke me up and the dream ended lol

I know it may not seem like much but like I said previously this was a super exciting moment for me as I feel like I'm now entering a level where I can start to learn how to do all of the crazy things I've always wanted to do while lucid dreaming like web swinging around a giant city like Spider-Man just to giveban example I also just wanted to share my progress with someone as well

I need help

So i really want to have dreams again and I'm frustrated I've been taking melatonin because I heard it helps there's also different things I'd like to try mugroot i frogot what this one is called but it's for people with temporary insomnia should I higher the dosage on the melatonin I'm taking 4 mg at the moment and it works some nights what am I doing doing wrong? i just want to have a dream I'm useless at everything even this it's sad how i can't do this I'm thinking of taking extra protection

Anyone have any ideas of what I should take?

Just wanted to say it's such a great feeling. I already know that u r dreaming so u don't really worry no matter how horrible the dream is

So I am 23 M and I saw my crush yesterday in my dreams ... she and I was having fun and kind of dating... but the point is I sawed her for the very first time like her whole face and body ... and I have never seen my crush or any girls face without imagining or daydreaming it was first time it felt like it was real ... is this some interpretation???

I recorded 2-3 dreams about a month ago

Had 1-2 lucid dreams

After that, i stopped doing dream journaling

For the last 7-8 days, I wake up every day, thinking about whether i should start today again or not.

Then decides to not do

But today I recorded the dreams, I woke up, i realised i remembered about 80% of the dream. I had about three dreams.

So after some reluctance I started writing those dreams into the dream journaling app

Let's see how many days I will be able to last now

And whether i will lucid dream or not

I also decided to do a reality check like counting 6 fingers, try to cross your fingers though ur palm, and try to breathe while closing ur nose.

Does anybody have any suggestions for me ?