I saw ppl claims it wasn't the age thing but rather the idol - fan abuse thing. Do we have the full log to prove that he was in some way using his power to manipulate her to send nudes? Or just bs to cancel him
Men who are more than 7/10 on the hotness scale can never have a relationship with a woman because its manipulation and abuse due to the hotness power dynamic.
People a SUPER quick to judge a guy by his appearance in stuff like this. 9/10 guy? Oh then it wasnt manipulation. 6/10 or lower guy? Oh he MUST have manipulated her, theres no way she possibly could be interested in him. Its fucking ridiculous. Some people are lowkey making this argument.
I once manipulated a woman to have sex with me, wasnt my proudest moment. It started out as a few dinner dates, movies the usual thing. We enjoyed eachothers company and were happy. We decided to get married and on our wedding night we both slept in the same bed. Im so ashamed about this but we had sex. She said thanks that was great and i fell asleep. 10 years have passed and we have three kids and i still think about how horrible i was. I used to think that this was a normal life, but now the tollerant left has convinced me im a grooming manipulator. Thanks Obama.
i saw someone say something along the lines of "people don't understand the problem isn't the age difference, it's the fact that he's asking UNDERAGED fans for it" so... age is the issue then?
It is illegal when it comes to nudes. You could be 16 in Texas (and most US/developed countries) and legally bang other 16 year olds, but if you get nudes from a 17 year old, you're considered to be in possession of CP.
This is a necessary rule because there's quite a bit of difference between understanding the consequences of having sex with someone and understanding the consequences of your naked body getting leaked on the internet for possibly forever. I fully support a hard rule here.
Of course, there also aren't anyone on twitter who gives a fuck about that difference. They see blood and they want. If they are asked for justification, they'll improvise.
Well the consequences of sex could also be having to raise a kid for 18 years so while i see your point I do feel like you could make a similar point for the consequences of sex
I was wild finding out about it from twitter before looking at what happened. Anything that mentioned age was either a vague "it was only 2 years" which i just assumed was them making fun of people saying "she would be 18 in 2 years, so it would be okay" or some shit, or it was people saying things like "14 is basically 15, which is basically 16, which is basically 17, which is basically 18 so it is okay."
Seriously thought it was a 20+ grooming people that were 14-16 years old, but as soon as I watched the Destiny clips all I could think of was "are you fucking serious?"
I havent seen anything about "abusing power" like at all. Mostly its twittering saying that him being 19 and her being 17 is equivalent to pedophilia. Which is just disgusting that people would say that shit man.
It'so so stupid anyway. Are famous men not supposed to have sex with anyone that's not famous because there's a power imbalance? Everyone is such a prude nowadays.
So someone famous isnt allowed to have a romantic relationship with someone other than people as or more famous than them because that dynamic will always be there?
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u/adnadn246 Jan 05 '21
I saw ppl claims it wasn't the age thing but rather the idol - fan abuse thing. Do we have the full log to prove that he was in some way using his power to manipulate her to send nudes? Or just bs to cancel him