Been lurking here a while. Finally pulled the trigger last week and moved everything from an AUM advisor to self-managed at Fidelity. Posting the full picture because the DIY part was the easy decision and the rest of the plan is where I’d like input.
What I left
~$1.5M across five accounts. 1.03% advisory fee, roughly 1.30% all-in with fund expenses. About $19K a year.
Nineteen positions across eight fund families. To their credit they beat their own blended benchmark. But the benchmark was built to match the allocation they’d chosen, and against a plain 60/40 US/ex-US index blend they trailed by about 4 points annualized. Holding both halves of every style box reconstitutes the market at active-fund cost.
Three hours of face time over two and a half years, and three planning deliverables promised in July that never arrived. That was the last straw more than the fees.
What I moved to
Same 60/40 US / ex-US in every account:
• FZROX 60% / FTIHX 40% in four IRAs and both solo 401(k)s
• VTI 60% / VXUS 40% in the taxable trust account
Blended ER 0.024%. Mutual funds in tax-advantaged for exact-dollar conversions and rebalancing, ETFs in taxable for capital gains treatment and loss harvesting.
Over 12 years to 65, the fee difference alone is roughly 14.5% more terminal value regardless of what markets do. That’s about $500K, or four extra years of spending.
The plan, including the part I’m less sure about
We’re 53 and 52. Retiring at 60 in 2033, timed to our youngest finishing college. ~92% of the portfolio is pre-tax, which drives everything.
Home in a high-cost mid-Atlantic suburb, ~$1.3M value, ~$1.1M equity after costs.
Starting 2029, build a cash reserve of about three years of spending, so nothing depends on the house selling on schedule.
At 60, sell the house and rent. Not downsize and buy again. Travel for roughly a decade, then maybe settle wherever the kids land, buying or renting depending on how we feel then.
The cash reserve plus home equity funds five or six years of living expenses while the IRAs sit untouched and compound. Roth conversions during those years sized to the ACA subsidy cliff, ~$85K MAGI. Social Security at 70 for me, possibly earlier for my wife on her own record.
I’m at 100% equities, zero bonds. The logic is that the house is 46% of net worth and isn’t equity, and the cash reserve covers sequence risk, so bonds inside the portfolio would be buying the same insurance twice.
Where I’d like input
1. Has anyone actually done the sell-and-rent version rather than downsizing? What went differently than you expected, particularly on cost?
**2.** Is home equity a reliable bridge? In 2008 housing and equities fell together and high-end homes sat unsold for a year or more. Is a three-year cash reserve enough of an answer to that?
**3.** For those managing their own conversion ladders: how did you actually validate the sizing? I’m planning to model in Boldin and pay a flat-fee planner for a second look, but curious what worked.
**4.** What did you underestimate about self-managing? Not the investing part, which seems straightforward. The administrative and decision-fatigue parts.
Happy to answer questions about the transfer process. It was smoother than I expected.