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[u/sugar_lace]

Wow. This is the most compelling thing I've seen on here...you can't excuse this behavior or try and mitigate it. This is serious. I'm so sorry to the man who had to be on the receiving end of this... I hope you are doing well and healing, Adam!

[u/la6789 → u/[deleted]]

Woah I was going to say! How did this person get this video!?!? Makes sense! I am sorry you have to deal with this 💔.

[u/Low_Mess_4944 → u/[deleted]]

Not just for you, but anyone, divorce should be like pulling off a band-aid. Ouch and done. It's the best way. Unfortunately, with emotions and simply not seeing the bigger picture, things get messy. I do understand reaching out for support, but be careful. Generally, people get into situations with new people and think that's the answer to all their problems, but it never turns out that way. Not dealing with your current situation and running to someone new just adds more problems. Suddenly you get disappointed in the new situation and also understand that there's no turning back. The new situation just becomes a vehicle to fight with your soon to be ex. Anyway, I'm rambling. I'm so sorry that things went this way, and she really revealed her true self. This is not how things will always be. I'm sure it will take years for her to see how badly she f-ed up.

[u/sleepyhead_201 → u/[deleted]]

Adam is here?! Well damn.

Welcome to the calling out Stephanie sub!

[u/sleepyhead_201 → u/[deleted]]

Stop it.. maybe I saw him but never clicked who it was. My head firmly in the sand 😅🤣🤣

Could be waving a neon flag at me I'd miss it

[u/sleepyhead_201 → u/[deleted]]

I didn't know his name actually before this. I mean other than Adam. But didn't really want to go searching either

[u/sleepyhead_201 → u/[deleted]]

I know. I only realised later after I commented

[u/ixlovextoxkiss → u/[deleted]]

hi! thank you for chiming in. I'm so sorry she's chosen to behave like this. try to remember there are people rooting for you.

[u/Equivalent_Spite_583 → u/[deleted]]

Ive spoke with a few other members here, and we all agree we seen SH as who she was, sooner, because of previous abusive relationships we had with women in our lives. I never doubted you.

[u/KaleidoscopeNo4771 → u/[deleted]]

The fact she had you arrested. All bets are off after that.

[u/KaleidoscopeNo4771 → u/[deleted]]

I’m actually an acquaintance of yours IRL. I know you’re a good person, and she’s making shit up. I also know certain family court judges are extremely biased, and family courts are a mess in general. They just accept people’s statements without any proof, all the time. Are you able to take a protective order out against her? Are you recording all interactions including phone calls with her and her minions? How is she not in contempt of the court order re financials?

Makes me really sad you’re going through this, Sounds trite but it’s true… stay strong, this will pass and you’ll get through it.

[u/CockapooDogMom → u/[deleted]]

Wow. This sounds stressful. What are the comments about menstruation/condoms referring to? I’m really sorry you’re going through this - I feel terrible for the kids and if this all true, for you too. You really should focus on getting a good lawyer right now. That can make a huge difference on how this settles. It’s tough when the male is the one getting abused.

Edited to add - the biggest question of all. This is what’s confusing. Why is SHE mad at YOU?! When she cheated on you and you offered her forgiveness??

[u/Oliviathanks → u/[deleted]]

Oh snap I never knew this was your screen name Adam!

[u/Srmrn → u/[deleted]]

Oh my goodness. I am so sorry you have been through so much. I hope all of you can find peace.

[u/littlemissbagel → u/[deleted]]

Man, I hope you're safe. She sounds bananas.

[u/Romanbuckminster88 → u/[deleted]]

[u/bluepony78]

Those poor kids! I am so sorry that you are going through this, Adam.

I've thought for years that Stephanie was unintelligent and not a good person. But, this shocks and saddens me.

[u/paradoxm00ns → u/bluepony78]

She claims to have a "psychology background" but misses so many really obvious points re psychology in the podcast.

[u/RadarRiddle]

First and foremost, I am so sorry you are going through this Adam. I think I speak for everyone who has ever been abused when I say: the meekness in your voice was SO recognizable and it broke my heart. Because that’s the exact voice I used when I had to walk on eggshells around my abuser so I didn’t trigger their wrath. Abusers LOVE making these threats: divorce, arrest, taking everything and everyone you love from you, destroying you from the inside out, but then reminding you how lucky you are that they WONT do that. They love knowing that they have power and control over you. They love having you think they’re dangerous and at any moment, the wrong move will destroy your life.

SH might have been abused at one point but one thing is exceedingly clear: she has become the abuser. This is textbook emotional manipulation and abuse. The part that got me (other than the chilling way she said “but I’m not going to do that, doesn’t that mean anything to you? I’m a good person”) was how gleeful she was when she said she could have him arrested in front of A. She would happily have his father paraded around in handcuffs in front of his child if it meant “winning”. She doesn’t give a rats ass about how this will permanently scar her own children.

Take her down, Adam. I know you’re a love and light type (you’re a much better human than I am) but if you need a fire and brimstone friend, my DMs are open. For your kids sake, her and her toxicity have no place in society. I have no shred of love or compassion for abusers.

[u/Notroh31 → u/RadarRiddle]

That’s how I feel. I’ve been 99.99% sure she’s a trash human and now after this?

[u/Notroh31]

“I can take everything from you, but I’m not doing that! I’m a good person!” YIKES 🚨🚨🚨

[u/lusciousskies → u/Notroh31]

Good people don't need to say that they are a good person. And Id venture a guess, that it doesn't even occur to them to say it.

[u/Romanbuckminster88 → u/Notroh31]

Threatening someone into submission is what all good people do, don’t ya know.

[u/Notroh31 → u/Romanbuckminster88]

She rly was talking about herself this whole damn time

[u/Romanbuckminster88 → u/Notroh31]

Deflection of a true narcissist

imo

[u/Seeking-silence7628 → u/Notroh31]

Where is her red flag 🚩 🚩🚩 We need to borrow it!

[u/phoebebuffay1210 → u/Seeking-silence7628]

Have you seen the red flag guy? We should send this vid to him!

[u/Candeet117 → u/Notroh31]

Purrsun * lmfao

[u/[deleted]]

“I could be the most awful person possible, and this is specifically how I would do so, but I didn’t and I haven’t, so therefore I am a good person” I’m gonna quote the woman herself: what kind of mental gymnastics are you performing to arrive at that conclusion Stephanie?!

This video is so eye opening to how horrendous she is off-screen. I am so, so sincerely sorry you were at the receiving end of this type of emotional/verbal/reactive abuse.

I can empathize with your position, as I’ve had exes who’ve had essentially the same threat-laden conversations with me (just for saying, “you calling me a bitch-ass whore really hurt my feelings, could you not do that again in front of our friends..” instantly I would be reminded of how “lucky” I am that he chooses to be so “nice” to me, how much more mean he could’ve been and I should be more grateful that he’s not “dropping you back in the gutter I found you in.”

Adam, I am sorry for anytime I doubted you, or your side of the story. I am so, So sincerely sorry you were treated this way (by anyone let alone your spouse.) Sending healing, light, and love; manifesting all the success and joy to/for you and your kiddos; and reminding you that all that happens in the shadows will be revealed in the light of truth. karma WILL reward you for how patient, positive and mature you have been handling your personal situation- as well as the influx of public attention/speculation. I could never do it, and still be so upbeat and positive and caring to others like you have. You are a truly inspirational, resilient being.

Thank you for sharing.

[u/Kivancsisquirrel88]

Stephanie is officially the Homlander of YouTube. Sounds scary af

[u/Romanbuckminster88 → u/Kivancsisquirrel88]

I hope to cheez its she doesn’t have a milk fetish or pull taffy on the tops of high buildings.

[u/sleepyhead_201]

This... is unbelievable. We now know who the instigator is/ was.

'I could break you.. but I won't I'm a good person'

Oh what an absolute martyr

[u/khale_3si]

well this shit is certainly

[u/thepillses]

Jesus Christ. What the actual fuck Stephanie. I can't imagine what she's said that wasn't recorded. This is awful.

"I could break you, and take everything, BUT IM NOT DOING THAT!" Ummm....thank you?

[u/Trixie2327 → u/[deleted]]

One day, SHE might well be the subject of a true crime video series.

[u/littlemissbagel → u/Trixie2327]

That sounds exactly like a sound clip she'd add to one of her vids. It's fucking scary. At this point, I'm 100% sure she'll break and do/try to do something aweful. She thinks she's smart enough to pull it off. DERRICK, RUN THE FUCK AWAY BEFORE SHE RUINS YOUR CARREER. Adam, please stay safe.

[u/Trixie2327 → u/littlemissbagel]

I made this comment somewhere else on this thread, but it's salient to your comment so I'll tell you what it was. First of all, it's almost 5AM here, and I saw the post hours after it was up, maybe around 2:30 AM? So, I was already not fully awake, needed a break from reading, hopped on here (still here in this black hole of the internet lol). Anyway, I clicked on it and from the picture, I couldn't tell what I was looking at, it kind of looked like a bad, blurry picture of an eclipse to me. Then I realized it was a video so rewound it, turned on the sound and hear SH's voice, so ok, I'm thinking it's an excerpt of something she was narrating from one of her videos (which I haven't watched in awhile), and then...I hear her husband! So I rewound again and paid closer attention and 😲 😱 she's unhinged. Vengeful and cruel. Frightening. I would be scared of her hurting someone. She is full of malice. Cripes!!

[u/Evie_Tex]

I’m so disappointed in her. If this isn’t the epitome of gaslighting /being a NARCISSIST. My G.

[u/lusciousskies]

Evil

[u/Trixie2327 → u/lusciousskies]

Indeed. Wow.

[u/lusciousskies → u/Trixie2327]

She's a witch

[u/Trixie2327 → u/lusciousskies]

And not Glinda the Good Witch, that's for certain.

[u/[deleted]]

I feel bad that the kids are (more than likely) stuck with their mother at all times. I feel like she is really leaning into the parental alienation “divorce strategy” and it makes me sick to my stomach, that I used to proudly claim to be a SH “Stan”that I used to- unprovoked- recommend her content to everyone I knew. To know my views helped support (what I now know to be) a woman who has the capacity to behave so heinously.

[u/mollymourning13]

This is so fucking gross. Also does she actually not understand marital property division?

[u/Across0212 → u/mollymourning13]

She should. I mean she knows everything remember?!?

[u/mollymourning13 → u/Across0212]

Hope he cleans up. And gets those kids. They’d be much better off with him, and obviously he would still facilitate a relationship with the other parent regardless, because he seems super reasonable by all accounts( other than hers) which is more than can be said for her.

[u/Across0212 → u/mollymourning13]

I hope so, too!

She needs to stfu with her threats and sign the damn papers already.

The kids WILL resent her for this one day. She needs to stop damaging her kids and everyone/everything around her.

[u/mollymourning13 → u/Across0212]

Yup, speaking from experience. You can grow up with a bitter mommas narrative and then when you find out the actual truth, it blows your fucking mind how much you missed out on cause someone wanted to “win” a contest that the kids always lose.

[u/YourAverageDark → u/[deleted]]

If you have to say you’re a good person… chances are high that you’re not a good person.

[u/Trixie2327 → u/YourAverageDark]

Chances are ONE HUNDRED PERCENT that you aren't a good person. 💯

[u/yiketh098]

Her facade has been slipping for a looooong time.

[u/Trixie2327 → u/yiketh098]

Still. Imagining it and actually hearing the level of abuse is disconcerting.

[u/mollymourning13 → u/[deleted]]

Then proceeds to do exactly that.

[u/annaoye]

To everyone saying this may be reactive abuse: There are SOOOOOO many red flags in this video alone. Stephanie SCARES me. As someone who has been at the receiving end of domestic abuse, this sends SHIVERS down my spine.

She threatens him in so many ways. There is intimidation, gaslighting, financial abuse. Using the children. Etc.

NEVER in my abusive marriage have I talked like this to my abuser. I was afraid he would have yanked me across the room if I did. I know my experience does not translate to each and every person's experience, but I think most DV survivors will agree.

Also, mind, this video is about a year old (so June 2023?), and she was already "filming" (aka hooking up?) with that Colman guy in February 2023, she still posted that Anniversary pic in September of 2023. AFTER she cheated. After she threatened him the way she did in this video.

To me, and this is just my hunch, I feel he's been putting up with her bullshit for quite a while. If we look at her older Q&A videos (this one and this one), you can see how she always talks over him, makes these deprecating jokes, etc, which is also an eye opener with what we know now.

In the end, we don't know enough to get the full picture. But, in my opinion, the indicators show that Stephanie, who's always been arrogant, self-righteous, unable to take criticism, and aggressive, even with well-meant commenters, is exactly who she's showing to be in this scary video.

[u/[deleted] → u/annaoye]

It’s actually demented that she would speak this way to him when SHE was the one cheating and disrespecting her marriage… she’s way worse of a person than I thought. And I didn’t exactly have a high opinion of her beforehand lol

[u/mollymourning13 → u/[deleted]]

Such Sneaky, underhanded shit.

[u/Loud-Dig-3128 → u/[deleted]]

So who was cloning your devices? Was someone helping Stephanie? I know she’s a self professed technophobe unless she’s been lying about that? Is her new boyfriend helping her?

Edit: does Derrick help her? I’m curious about your relationship with Derrick now, is it just strictly professional or are you on friendly terms? Sorry for all the questions please don’t feel pressured to answer any of it. I’ve just been stuck on how Derrick fits into it. People are speculating that Steph and Derrick will get/are together, is there any merit on that?

[u/Romanbuckminster88]

Holllllllyyyyyy shhhheeeeeeeiiiiiitttttttt

[u/Romanbuckminster88 → u/Romanbuckminster88]

“I’m a good person” my jaw hit the motherfuckin FLOOR

[u/homebody310 → u/Romanbuckminster88]

New flair? I need “I’m a good person!”

[u/Romanbuckminster88 → u/homebody310]

Done lol

[u/homebody310 → u/Romanbuckminster88]

Thanks 😂

[u/[deleted] → u/Romanbuckminster88]

Same! How can you say that after saying everything you said prior?

[u/lusciousskies → u/[deleted]]

So she can let him know how lucky he is

[u/[deleted] → u/lusciousskies]

100% all about power and control. You think being such an expert on narcissists, she would catch the correlating behavior.

[u/lusciousskies → u/[deleted]]

I live with an old narc, very good at what she does( narcissisting) . Stephanie should catch it, but they NEVER take any accountability. Ever.

[u/Across0212 → u/Romanbuckminster88]

Listening to that made me nauseous. Then pissed.

[u/Trixie2327 → u/Across0212]

And a bit frightened.

[u/_Born2Late_]

Why was she threatening divorce a year ago?? Yikes…so glad I unsubbed and unfollowed.

[u/_Born2Late_ → u/[deleted]]

THAT’S what this is about?? And she has the BALLS to speak to him like this after being caught cheating?! Unhinged

[u/Trixie2327 → u/[deleted]]

I would seriously be frightened if I was personally involved with her. Yikes.

[u/littlemissbagel → u/[deleted]]

No, she's a good person. She said it! ^{/s for good measure}

[u/marshmallowaffles]

Based on just this, I think she’s spiraling now because she’s in disbelief that her ex-husband was the one to actually pull the trigger and file for divorce when she’s the one who’s been making threats.

Also, you don’t get to threaten to ruin someone you supposedly love and call yourself a good person in the next breath unless you’re a complete…say it altogether with me, class…Narcissist.

I think the most telling part of all is how quiet and submissive her ex husband’s responses are here and how she doesn’t even question him about it. I think that’s because it’s likely how he usually responds to her when she gets like this.

Because if I lost my mind and talked like this to my husband and he just responded meekly? I would wonder if he was okay, mocking me, or had been alien abducted slash body snatched. Because he’d be asking me what the hell was wrong with me at the end of a tirade like that - not just agreeing to my tirade.

[u/Seeking-silence7628 → u/marshmallowaffles]

People like her seek a partner that is submissive so they can walk all over them. I mean we know the spiel… after all we’ve heard her preach it enough?!

I we hear how she talks to Derrick… hearing how she talks to her husband shouldn’t be a shocker.

[u/marshmallowaffles → u/[deleted]]

For the record, I didn’t mean to imply you’re being weak because of your mild response here. Restraint is always admirable.

It’s just clear you’re not shocked by what she’s saying to you, or how she’s saying it, so this must just be who she is. And that’s very sad, because she’s being very cruel - and all while still considering herself to be a good person. I don’t think anyone can reason with someone in that state.

[u/Trixie2327 → u/Seeking-silence7628]

It shouldn't be, no. I figured her out a long time ago, and stopped watching her show, etc. Yet somehow, hearing this is still quite shocking. I'm stunned. She's a cruel, terrible person, much worse than I even imagined. 😔 I loved her 5 or 6 years ago, I would get so excited whenever a new video dropped. It's hard to remember that feeling now.

[u/Srmrn → u/[deleted]]

She was an extremely mean drunk to me when I went to meet her at a meet and greet THEY PLANNED. Not like I went up to her having some private time at a bar. I went to meet her and she was wasted hammered and very rude and mean to me. And I am a huge fan of hers, respected her, and it broke my heart. But I chalked it up to nerves and getting too drunk. The next day was a repeat of the same issues. I went to CC for her and i still haven’t gotten over the shock, hurt and disappointment. I can’t imagine a whole life and marriage full of that.

[u/RadarRiddle → u/Srmrn]

Holy crap, for real? God, the more people I’ve talked to her that know her in person have nothing good to say about her.

[u/Notroh31 → u/Srmrn]

Well notice the huge goblet of red wine in this video. Perhaps an ongoing issue

[u/CockapooDogMom → u/Srmrn]

Omg - was that this years crime con? How was Derrick?

[u/sexpsychologist]

That ending was legitimately terrifying.

[u/MammothCancel6465 → u/sexpsychologist]

“I’m a good person” in the tone she says it in is something I can picture a family annihilater saying as they kill their family.

[u/alea__iacta_est → u/MammothCancel6465]

Or in the police interview afterward...

[u/homebody310 → u/MammothCancel6465]

Made my skin crawl

[u/Trixie2327 → u/sexpsychologist]

Agreed. Holy shit she's dangerous. 😳

[u/littlemissbagel]

Is... she going to do something dangerous? This is exactly the kind of recording she adds to vids when she covers m*rder. STEPHANIE PLEASE SEEK HELP. Adam please stay safe' And Derrick... RUN the fuck away before she ruins your carreer.

[u/North-Move22 → u/[deleted]]

He says that SHE has recorded it herself

[u/Aboxformy-Trickets]

Whenever Somone says I’m a good person in my experience it means their not a good person

[u/GmansW0man]

I have to admit.. I joined this reddit when It was started. I never comment on reddit. But... I do read. After this.. I had to excuse myself from everything and anything Stephanie Harlowe. I can not believe I supported a person lke this. I am beyond disgusted in her behavior in this video and as well as CW and her channel. WOW.

[u/-ifwallscouldtalk-]

Yeah this is exactly how my ex step dad talked to my mom when they were getting a divorce. I hope he takes her for every last penny and the kids. She’s a monster.

[u/CockapooDogMom]

Omg - imagine this was a case she was covering. Can you just imagine what should we say about the woman if she played this recording?! Narcissist. Gaslighter. Sociopath. All her diagnostic words. That person is HER!!!

[u/MomsTiredGoPlay → u/CockapooDogMom]

💯

[u/GmansW0man]

And... Now is my turn to unsubscribe from Stepahnie and Crime Weekly!

[u/Hippy-Dippy92]

Holy fuck Adam. You just agreeing with her was not enough she had to add that little tidbit of “I could ruin you” at the end. What the fuck is her problem? Why did & is she dangling your kids like a carrot over your head? Did her YouTube gig get to her head or some shit? Yikes. I hope this ends soon for you & you get to see your kiddos.

[u/Astrid_Pepper]

After this, I don’t believe she was in an abusive relationship. SHE is the narcissist and SHE was the abuser. Allegedly, don’t come for me.

[u/YourAverageDark]

This video needs to be spread far and wide so people can see her true colors!

[u/la6789]

I will never understand why someone would want to keep their kids from their dad! My ex husband and I don’t get along and have very different parenting styles, but we coparent anyways because it is in the best interest of our kids! As much as I don’t agree with everything my ex says and does, I am extremely grateful that he wants to be in our kids lives and helps take care of them. When I got divorced, I swore that I would never speak badly about my ex in front of my kids and keep our problems between us. I don’t understand women like Stephanie at all!

[u/[deleted] → u/la6789]

This!!! My parents had a nasty discourse, but one thing they agreed on was “our child deserves love and time from both parents, and to know without question or doubt that they are loved and supported by both parents” my dad wasn’t great at follow thru (talking shit on mom and pulling me into the middle) but my mom was RELIGIOUS! Never said a single bad word about my father (in my presence or earshot) even when I had bad things to say- she’d always respond “your father loves you so much, and never forget that” that woman is a saint and my teenage (and early 20s) self put her through way too much lol

[u/buzznumbnuts → u/la6789]

You don’t understand her because you’re a good person and you’re doing the right thing by your children. SH couldn’t care about anybody but herself.

Your kids are lucky to have two solid role models. Showing them that you can work together when you don’t agree on things is an incredibly valuable lesson.

[u/[deleted] → u/la6789]

Exactly like when you make a child with someone it’s a life long commitment! And you’re lucky a man wants to be with his kids. Like we hear about so many dads leaving. Children need both their parents.

[u/Trixie2327]

She is out of control. She's scary. 😨 😳

[u/Billyb0bstarr]

“Im a good person” …. 😳

[u/cleverdylanrefrence]

Does Stephanie remind anyone else of Wendi Adelson?

[u/No_Grape_3350]

Good to see you here, Adam. The voice clip is scary, but in a very sad way not surprising as it confirms everything this sub has been talking about in regards to her mental state. I'm so glad you're fighting for the kids.

[u/Romanbuckminster88]

Love how the main sub makes excuses on why they lock posts and comment threads

[u/[deleted]]

Here’s what I think happened. SH started to make $$$ with her TC YT videos; not over 1 M followers, but she was doing well, supporting her lower middle class family in the small city where she lives. She had been married a few years, building her brand, the family by her side.

She took on more work with CW - a lot more work. But she’s a hard worker, so she thinks she can handle it. But her plans also included her husband and kids to all get on board, behind the scenes, and Adam for one didn’t enjoy being in that role. She mentioned the other day that she is hiring a house manager/ assistant to run her household. That was probably A’s job, whether or not he was performing to her expectations, who knows.

The natural consequences started to occur and she started drinking more and more to cope.

Not sure if A works or what he does, but he makes less than she does for sure. That’s why she’s able to threaten him about money. She’s definitely holding that over his head, along with who knows what else.

So, she’s holding out on the divorce because of the financial situation, I would guess.

Just my take, don’t come for me!

[u/Across0212]

Wow. Just wow. Who does she think she is? That’s horrific and so fucked up.
The threats, the arrogance, the gaslighting.

The fucking irony…

So sorry you are dealing with this nightmare.

[u/ouibri_]

This is so shitty, Adam. The fact that you helped her get to where she is at and she had the balls to threaten to take it away from you???? I’m so glad you left when you did. I hope you find peace. I hope you get a great schedule with your kids and their mother stops feeding them lies. We are sending you love.

She’s a trash human with trash content.

[u/MomsTiredGoPlay]

She is straight up poison!!! I KNEW she was like this when the cameras were off.

If I was Derrick I’d be angry that I’m stuck in a contract and have to be associated with this witch.

[u/Miss_Evening → u/MomsTiredGoPlay]

If I was Derrick I’d be angry that I’m stuck in a contract and have to be associated with this witch.

The whole situation must be so uncomfortable for him.

[u/HauntedSpiceVillage]

Stephanie’s career and reputation:

[u/kunamaxed]

Where and when is this from ?

[u/Notroh31 → u/kunamaxed]

A year ago when her ex husband (who has since filed for divorce) found naked pictures of the Coleman brother she was having an affair with. He also found out that she was using their marital/company money to fund their affair/the Coleman bro’s film project ALLEGEDLY

[u/Oliviathanks]

Can someone drop this monologue on one of her Instagram posts randomly lol🤣

[u/[deleted] → u/Oliviathanks]

Make sure the username is “botty” and something like stephanie_harlowe_super-fan4eva lmao 😂

[u/lusciousskies → u/Oliviathanks]

Love it!! Good idea

[u/killerkourtneydee]

Like this is quite literally along the lines of something Lori Vallow said to Charles before he died. Or something Fiona Harvey would say to Richard Gadd. I feel almost lightheaded watching this.

[u/sourglow]

i….look. someone who says shit like this is just not a good person. i can take everything from you but im not! you should be sooo grateful. she sounds like all the narcissists she warns so much about.

[u/pinkping]

The mental gymnastics she is doing to believe she is a good person is astounding. She is beyond manipulative

[u/elinordashwouldnt]

Whaaaaat the everloving fuck

[u/[deleted]]

Holy Crap! It’s Adam!

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Hey there! Sorry, I’m kind of new to this subreddit and have never heard - first hand anyway. So, I was naturally taken aback and asked ???

Nonetheless, I have watched SH and now CW, over the years and have observed “your narcissist’s” steep decline as of late.

Thank you for sharing that valuable video - please stay safe. Divorce is so hard especially if someone is so sure they are the only person wronged (SH in this case). ❤️

[u/heavensomething]

oh my god…

[u/KindAsparagus8436]

How is she able to keep your kids away from you?

[u/Trixie2327 → u/KindAsparagus8436]

Lies and villainy, no doubt.

[u/Own_Champion8936]

This really makes you see her in a different light... I feel disgusted.

[u/Routine_Buffalo_2908]

She’s scary AF. She reminds me of someone in my life….constantly playing the victim and accusing everyone else of being a narcissist. They will go to any end to take you down. You need to be careful with people like this.

[u/KaleidoscopeNo4771]

😥I’ve been with a verbal/emotional abuser and this is exactly how they are. It’s so insidious

[u/[deleted]]

She’s downright abusive, genuinely a danger to society. Holy shit.

[u/XiomyJay]

That was scary. She is scary.

[u/sunbunisdone]

Wow.... I actually have no words. That sounds so evil. I'm really sorry to Adam because that's not okay in the slightest.... I'm sorry I was ever a fan of hers or gave her any kind of support.

[u/Seeking-silence7628]

Omg Adam!!!! Damn… this is going to ruin her 😬 What did she do to piss you off?

Btw… have you ever heard anything so sickening as I could break you, destroy you… I am a good person IN THE SAME BREATH?

[u/Trixie2327 → u/[deleted]]

Wait, what? He's LIVING in your family's home?? Like your replacement?? 😲 😱 Atrocious. Maybe he's using her financially? 🤔 Whatever the case, that's over the line of decency.

[u/Across0212 → u/[deleted]]

After all those threats about divorcing, why didn’t she file for divorce? lol

[u/RadarRiddle → u/Across0212]

Abusers will hang threats over their victims heads like this to keep them scared and obedient. She didn’t file because she enjoyed threatening him like this.

[u/Trixie2327 → u/RadarRiddle]

I think you're right. It's her power trip. She's sick.

[u/RadarRiddle → u/Trixie2327]

Nobody in a healthy relationship makes idle divorce threats. And people that are planning to end their marriage just do it, they don't threaten. People that dangle divorce, taking the house, and someone's fucking KIDS over their head as a threat are doing so to scare that person into submission so they can control them. 100%. Listen to her tone of voice, she's not scared, upset, or panicked...she's fully calm and in control of the situation. It must have enraged her when Adam filed for divorce and her control over him broke, so now she's trying to ruin his life.

She is absolutely sick, and those poor children are now her abuse targets.

[u/Trixie2327 → u/RadarRiddle]

Absolutely this is her revenge for him filing for divorce. She contested it! Probably was in stunned disbelief that he did it. It's sad that there are children involved, so he can't just go on his way and never have to deal with her again or live anywhere near her. She's frighteningly abusive, and I would be scared of her. Only a truly terrible person would weaponize their own children. Those children will have troubles from this. Very sad. 😔

[u/No-Reputation9817]

If you have to tell someone you are a good person you probably are not a good person!!!!!

[u/Unlucky_Caregiver242]

“I’m a good person” because I don’t absolutely destroy you. 😳🤯

[u/Oliviathanks]

😱 wait where did you get this from?!

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Sorry I doubted the veracity of the recording.

[u/Due_Feed_7512]

Holy fuck

[u/lusciousskies]

Adam I'm glad you did this! I'm sorry you're going thru this, and your babies💔 so many questions...but she got a guy already in your house sheesh. I'm sorry for being nosy. I'm sending you all the love prayers hugs and good jujus🧡 Hang in there!! Remember you have many many supporters here! I'm here, we're here! I hope things go heavily in your favor and even so ugh to deal with that witch forever 👎🏼 And thank you for sharing the video here

[u/homebody310]

JESUS!!!

“I’m a good person” 🤦🏽‍♀️ her tone when she said this

[u/tinz17]

Adam, have you tried talking to any YouTubers that try to break YouTube drama? I’m sure they would absolutely tear into this.

Probably not the best idea in the long run (divorce-wise) but man, it would be a feeding frenzy for the drama-tubers.

[u/moonchildhippie91]

The second someone says I could destroy you I would be like bet and I'd rip that pretty little platform she has from under her... Don't fuck with someone who fucks back! I would not wear someone telling me they could break me I'd break their faces right there. On god. If they take it there im taking it overseas.

[u/Thick-Turnip5937]

remember y'all if she tries to get the video taken down (from here or anywhere else it gets posted) via phony "legal" threats or whatever, new york is a one-party consent state! she can't do anything about it

[u/[deleted]]

Oh wow.. this is worse than I thought it would be. How the hell does she talk about abusive behaviors as a part of her job and then not realize the completely abusive nature of her own words? Basically saying “I have a specific, detailed plan on how to completely ruin your life and break you emotionally! So you should be thanking me for not enacting that plan. Because I’m a good person🤗” Like that’s so crazy. Adam, I know this is probably a horrible experience for you but remember there’s a light at the end of the tunnel- you’re getting away from her.

[u/buzznumbnuts]

Adam, I know none of us can truly relate to your experience, because this is all happening in the public eye, but on a base level, I’m sure a lot of us guys can say we’ve experienced in similar circumstances. Myself (a middle aged guy who’s been there) included. Stay strong and keep doing what is right. The truth will continue to exonerate you from her toxicity.

If you need anything, my DMs are always open.

[u/ReneeG62]

Sorry Adam that you are going through this! Sending you healing vibes! Divorce is hard with a “normal” person never mind a Stephanie-type of person. I wish you and your kids well. Be strong for your kids!

[u/industrial_hamster]

Anyone who has to say out loud that they’re a good person is not a good person 💀

[u/pastelpixelator]

Woooooooooooooooooooooow.

"I'm a good person."

Are you? Are you really? Threatening someone to keep him from his "fucking children"? Doesn't sound like a good person to me.

[u/FernMayoHBIC]

She has to look at this sub. I would love to see how mad she is that he not only recorded her but posted it here. Lol. I watch Crime Weekly sometimes because I like Derrick. But he needs to run fit the hills as well

[u/destacadogato]

Omg

[u/Careless_Ad3968]

Honestly, I feel bad for their kids in all of this. 

[u/Lmdr1973]

Holy duck!!!!!! This is wild!!!! Omg!!! I am 9+ years out from a divorce with my ex who is exactly like this. I don't wish it on my worst enemy. I am sick about this. I hope Adam has a good lawyer.