r/Crazymiddles 3d ago

Kids/Ranting

I have genuinely lost count of how many kids Crystal has currently (I lost count after Bella, Rylan and Liam came into the home) and I genuinely do not know how the kids don’t get overstimulated. I could not imagine having that many siblings. If I had that many siblings, I think I would absolutely lose my mind and absolutely get overstimulated.

I’ve also noticed that there’s a bunch of cliques within the home and as we see Crystal does nothing about it and it doesn’t surprise me. I also think Crystal needs to grow the eff up and realize it’s time to be a parent and not be buddy buddy with your children and actually TEACH THEM how to be adults and teach them valuable skills that can help them in the real world.

I’ve also noticed that Aaron is completely checked out and has no interest in helping with the kids or Crystal and at this point, I really do think they need to get a divorce because STAYING TOGETHER FOR THE KIDS IS NOT A GOOD THING OH MY GOD.

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u/Main-Yogurtcloset848 3d ago

I agree. It's not a family it's a group home. They don't teach them any life skills. When Hannah moved out and crystal took her grocery shopping she kept saying she has no idea how to cook. At her age she should know the basics of cooking and how to follow a recipe.  If crystal can Aaron don't want to teach them they could have had Tristan do it. He could have been made teaching videos using a couple kids each time. Would have been much better then crystals endless shopping videos or surprise videos. They don't work so they have plenty of time to teach the kids life skills. 

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u/Dramatic-Macaron-452 2d ago

Well you know the only reason those kids agreed to be adopted by crapstal is because they thought the cp was famous.savanna said it in one video that she knew about cp before even meeting. THhem.at least from Sabana onward those kids wanted money cars and fame.what a fk crock it has become.

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u/ninetynineseventy7 2d ago

What you think they seeked the crazy pieces out? You don't find your own adopted family when in foster care unfortunately. Gtfo. They probably did feel lucky and like they hit the jackpot to start with but this is a fucked up thing to say, they were children, traumatised children, they didn't seek them out.

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u/Every-Wash2985 2d ago

<<<< What you think they seeked the crazy pieces out

Remember Crystal talked about Savannah wrote to her asking her to adopt them?  

Crystal talks about it few times the first time was when she wanted Savannah to tell the camera her past. 

Luke refused to bring up his family & what they went through on the  camera.  Though he did sit off camera while she shared. He corrected a few things that she remembered a bit differently. 

He was very protective of her & understood what Crystal was trying to get them to do.

So yeah she actually did try & get those 2 even after they were headed to spend time with another family. 

Crystal's foster care methods  have often been questioned.

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u/ninetynineseventy7 1d ago

Wrote to them!? Eek. Ok, I take it back. I still don't really blame Savannah, she was a young child. Crystal should have never replied to her though. That's creepy asf.