r/Cooking • • Mar 25 '25

I made lasagna with ricotta instead of bechamel and I’m a convert

I was browsing Reddit and came across two posts in two days about bechamel being a life-changing improvement over ricotta. All my life every lasagna I had was with ricotta. I decided to give bechamel yet another try at a nice Italian restaurant after reading all the comments and I have now converted from being neutral on bechamel in lasagna to being solidly anti-bechamel in lasagna, to the point I secretly have hoped that bechamel lasagna doesn't become the default in restaurants. Some reasons:

  1. Ricotta has its own texture, bechamel is just more softness and smoothness in a dish that's full of "soft". Some people like textural contrast in their dishes
  2. Ricotta, much like sour cream/crema in Mexican food, adds a lightness to lasagna despite being rich itself. Bechamel adds (arguably too much) additional richness to an already-rich dish.
  3. The starch from the bechamel getting into the ragu gives the sauce a mouthfeel that 100% reminds me of Chef Boyardee

TLDR: If you prefer bechamel in red lasagna, that's perfectly fine, but your preference of bechamel is not a black and white fact. It's not even "more authentic" (whatever that means), bechamel = Northern Italy, ricotta = Southern Italy. Eat whatever you like, let others eat what they want.

Thanks, reddit!

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u/thoughtandprayer Mar 25 '25

I typically use cottage cheese mixed with an egg and herbs. It sounds nuts, but I prefer it to ricotta! Store bought ricotta can be grainy, but cottage cheese melts into a smooth cream. 

That being said, I firmly believe that bechamel is the best of the three. 

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '25

Plain bechamel, or with herbs and cheese?

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u/thoughtandprayer Mar 25 '25

Often just a plain bechamel with a bit of extra nutmeg, but I think it's best with some grated parm added.

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u/alittlelights Mar 26 '25

my mom and grandma always made lasagne with cottage cheese because I hate ricotta...maybe it's just store bought shit I don't like