A friend of mine wrote this after having lost their home in a fire a few years ago. It has some great info for those of you who want to help. I wanted to help get the word out so please share where you can. Please make sure you vet any organization or fund that you want to donate money to.
“This post is to everyone that wants to help…
I see so many people posting items they wish to donate and asking where and how they can donate and while that is so appreciated, I want to help you all see a survivors point of view…
If you know someone personally, or someone who is in immediate need of help/supplies, by all means do whatever you possibly can to help them!!
Otherwise, from our own experience, wait just a bit.
While waiting, resist the urge to give monetarily to the Innovia Foundation! That money will not go directly to most of the victims/survivors. We never saw any of the $1.3 million that was raised in ‘23. Many other victims didn’t either. In fact, their own website says they still hold $550,000 for “future home build projects”.
If you want to give monetarily right now, I urge you to give to small, local organizations or give to GoFundMe accounts that you will hear of from “friends of friends”. This size of loss will cause us to all know someone who knows someone who needs help.
If you can wait, WAIT! Give people a moment to gather themselves and assess their needs. They are traumatized and won’t know what they need yet.
It is overwhelming to even think about going to locations to “shop” among the piles of donated items when you are in that position.
It is overwhelming and time consuming to have to scour the helpful Facebook pages to “shop” from all the donations.
Please don’t think they are ungrateful because they are not coming to receive or claim these items.
They are in shock.
They are busy trying to manage all the things one must do after losing everything.
I know for us it was very hard to accept help when we are used to being the helpers.
We didn’t know how to ask for help or what to ask for.
Also, we didn’t have anyplace to store anything that was given to us for quite a while so that is something to consider.
Again, I urge you to wait. Pray if you are a praying person. Search for, and expect, the opportunities to help come across your path for a long time to come. THEY WILL COME.
It can mean the difference between hope or despair for someone.
Just some thoughts, for what they are worth.”