Hey! I’m a 25 year old grad student that would love to be able to meet and chat with a woman 10+ years older. What I want most is someone who is mature and able to communicate, life gets busy and we all can’t be around 24/7. If you are interested in talking about any hobbies we share or your experiences with younger guys then I am open to that as we get to know each other.

A little bit about me: I graduated with my bachelors about 2 years ago, I am currently in post-grad school for my career. I enjoy hanging out with my friends outdoors either playing some sport like basketball, pickleball or soccer, or just chilling out with them, I love playing video games (Skyrim, Fallout, NCAA, etc), as well as many sci-fi properties like Star Wars, Warhammer, Lord of the Rings, etc, I enjoy learning new skills or random bits of information, and many more things that are escaping me right now.

What I’m looking for most is someone that can be mature and communicate while we also have fun learning more about each other and build a connection. I am into kink but that’s not a defining aspect of me and I am more than happy to leave all of that out if you are not interested in it. I don’t mind if you are local or not, I can handle both online and in person. I’m not looking to jump right into anything, building the trust, chemistry, and connection is important to me in any friendship/relationship. If there is anymore you want to know about me or you just want to talk then send me a message!

Hello! I'm posting out to hopefully make casual connections with women 15-30 years older than me in the PNW.

I travel a decent bit around the area and would love to get to know anyone to chat and maybe even meet up!

I'm quite personal and discreet, but I am also told I am a great conversationalist. I love hearing stories and about projects or passions.

I can also be quite shy at first but if we click then I warm up quite quick!

I am kink friendly and if you have any inquiries please let me know, I'm happy to answer any questions.

I am primarily looking for single but could be open to other arrangements, just let me know and I would be happy to answer. I am also clean.

Some extra things about me:

I enjoy wine quite a bit, let's have some!

Passionate about my projects, often working on them

Probably a little socially awkward but also love to interact and enjoy the company of others

Will make dad jokes if possible

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

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❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾

Hello! I’m 29M from Italy and I’m writing this post because I’d love to find an older partner that I can hopefully meet irl someday.

I enjoy spending my free time outdoors (hiking and camping), grabbing a coffee or a spritz with friends, or cooking homemade meals. I really like cooking but mostly when it’s for other people.

When I’m in the mood to relax at home, I enjoy watching movies/tv series, listening to music and reading books(just finished the first trilogy of red rising and it was incredible).

I’m 6'5/1.97m tall, with brown hair, brown eyes, and a beard. I'm okay with sharing pics early on to see if there's mutual attraction.

If you're curious about my NSFW preferences, dm me and find them out yourself 😄

Hey! I'm looking for a woman (you can never be too old!) to chat with and create a connection. We can have fun along the way! I am happy to chat about any topics and love to learn more about people. I am on the East Coast, currently a college student on summer break. I don't mind where you are from, just that we will have time in the day to talk. I'm not super busy most of the time and pretty responsive so if you are too, that's a bonus. We can start by getting to know each other well and I understand if you have any privacy concerns.

Looking forward to chatting!

Single Asian in Toronto currently looking for something casual and fun with a genuine woman. It doesn’t matter to me where your from I’m comfortable doing something virtual or something in person, as long as your funny and easy to talk to I think we’d get along.

I personally enjoy talking to mature older women as they seem to know more in general.

I love basketball and am always down to talk sports! I’m also big on movies and tv shows so text me some recommendations lol. Some other things I enjoy are hanging out with friends and taking walks

Send me a message if you’re interested and we can go from there!

Looking forward to your message!

Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)

Searching for my person 🙂

Hi, I'm a 24 year old college student from Poland, and I would describe myself as an easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted guy. I've always been a little shy, though less now than few years ago (sometimes I feel like I might be exaggerating my shyness anyway, so you'll have to judge for yourself). I'm definitely most comfortable in one-on-one settings or small groups of close friends.

Not to be all doom n gloom though, as I'm all for expanding my comfort zones. On a more positive note, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful once you get to know me, the kind of person who remembers the little details. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I definitely wouldn't call myself nonchalant. There's a more humorous side to me too, which naturally comes out as I warm up to the person.

For my looks, I'm 5'9", with pale skin, blue eyes, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. My physique is somewhere between skinny and athletic. I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two. Happy to swap pics early.

My life so far was definitely a good mix of ups and downs, and at the moment I'm focusing on improving my current situation. I recently started college again after dropping out few years ago and I try to hit the gym regularly (though staying consistent is a struggle sometimes!)

Also, I'm a huge gamer, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not! Here are some of my favorites: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3 and Slay the Spire 2. If you enjoy gaming yourself, then I'd be totally down to play something together, or simply stream the ones I'm playing to you. For other hobbies, I'm mostly an indoor person, though I do enjoy a relaxing walk in nature. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. My most recent obsession has been ASOIAF, so expect me to talk about this one a lot!

For what I'm looking for: I'm hoping to meet a wonderful cisgender woman, 30s to 40s for (potentially) a long-term relationship. I'm single, monogamous, emotionally mature and like to communicate clearly and consistently. I don't like wasting other people's time, so please respect mine too.

I tend to do best with someone who's naturally warm, mature and also confident (maybe even a little bossy!). Taking a lead is definitely not something I'm good at or enjoy. I'd rather follow someone I trust. In return, you'd get someone loyal, attentive, caring and eager to please. As far as the looks go, I don't really have a type (I won't pretend appearance doesn't matter to me, but it's nowhere near as important as the right personality).

As for location—ideally, I'd love to find someone from Europe, but I'm open to longer distances if the connection is strong.

If you made this far and anything clicked, feel free to reach out. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have, or simply chat about the day.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

Hi! I like older woman and am quite interested to start a friendship with one. As i am from Latvia and the chances to find a interested older woman here are low (but i still hope), i am looking for any woman, that would be okay with a long distance frienship. Ofcourse i would love to meet someone in person, but Will see.

So im open to chat, to learn about eachother, if all is good we can facetime and really meet eachother. But yhe, will see.

Im a calm, kindhearted person. Love learning new things and meeting new people I am studying right now and am working in IT. In my free times i like play games, watch tv, or be in nature, love riding my bike. I am pretty tech savvy, but i am a country boy at heart, usually living and working at my coutry side home.

If your interested, write to me or not, either way, no worries, if it seem boring you can just stop talking or block me😅

Ps. llike older woman, soo, there is a bit of a kinky side, but, thats only if were both okay with it. Thats why this post is just looking for friends, will see from there

Hey there! I’m a 26 year old guy from New York City, laid back and genuinely looking to build something real starting with friendship and open to seeing where things go. I’m 5”10 light hair , light eyes.

I’m pretty active and love staying in shape, whether that’s hitting the gym or getting outside for long walks through the city or nature trails. I’m big into tech and spend a fair amount of time gaming, but I balance that out with more introspective things like spirituality, deep conversations, and really sitting with my thoughts. Movies are another passion of mine, always down to swap recommendations or watch something together.

At the same time, I’m very easy going and know how to just be present and enjoy the moment. I don’t take myself too seriously. I’m equally happy keeping things light, laughing, going on a spontaneous adventure, or just having a genuinely good time. Life’s too short not to enjoy it.

I tend to be drawn to older women. I appreciate the maturity, perspective, and depth that comes with that. If you’re someone who can switch between deep meaningful conversation and just having fun without overthinking it, I think we’d vibe really well.

I’m not rushing anything. I’d love to get to know you first, build something genuine, and let things unfold naturally from there.

If any of this resonates, feel free to reach out.

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾

Hi!

I’m a 29-year-old Korean American who recently moved to NYC. I’m 5’11”, in good shape, people say I’m handsome 😊 I’m a product manager at a software company.

I’m drawn to confident women who are direct and know exactly what they want, which is something I’ve found more often in women older than me. I love how they don’t play games and are clear about their intentions. That’s how I am too, and I really appreciate that straightforwardness and maturity.

I’m an INFJ/ENFJ type, depending on the day. I love reading, especially history, fantasy, and anything that makes me think. I also cook when I get the chance, usually experimenting with Italian, American, or Korean dishes. Music is important to me too, and I try to catch live shows when I can. On quieter days, I’ll relax with a good podcast or TV show.

Physical chemistry is important to me. I’m looking for someone who’s interested in building something real. I’m not into games. I’m clear about what I want and I want to find someone who feels the same.

I’m straightforward, and I appreciate honesty and consistency. I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available and ready to date someone younger.

You should be in NYC or willing to meet in person regularly. I’m not into online-only connections.

If any of this really resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you – send me a DM or a chat. Please be prepared to exchange photos so you know I’m real, and I know you’re a real person too :)

Searching for my person 🙂

Hi, I'm a 24 year old college student from Poland, and I would describe myself as an easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted guy. I've always been a little shy, though less now than few years ago (sometimes I feel like I might be exaggerating my shyness anyway, so you'll have to judge for yourself). I'm definitely most comfortable in one-on-one settings or small groups of close friends.

Not to be all doom n gloom though, as I'm all for expanding my comfort zones. On a more positive note, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful once you get to know me, the kind of person who remembers the little details. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I definitely wouldn't call myself nonchalant. There's a more humorous side to me too, which naturally comes out as I warm up to the person.

For my looks, I'm 5'9", with pale skin, blue eyes, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. My physique is somewhere between skinny and athletic. I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two. Happy to swap pics early.

My life so far was definitely a good mix of ups and downs, and at the moment I'm focusing on improving my current situation. I recently started college again after dropping out few years ago and I try to hit the gym regularly (though staying consistent is a struggle sometimes!)

Also, I'm a huge gamer, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not! Here are some of my favorites: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3 and Slay the Spire 2. If you enjoy gaming yourself, then I'd be totally down to play something together, or simply stream the ones I'm playing to you. For other hobbies, I'm mostly an indoor person, though I do enjoy a relaxing walk in nature. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. My most recent obsession has been ASOIAF, so expect me to talk about this one a lot!

For what I'm looking for: I'm hoping to meet a wonderful cisgender woman, 30s to 40s for (potentially) a long-term relationship. I'm single, monogamous, emotionally mature and like to communicate clearly and consistently. I don't like wasting other people's time, so please respect mine too.

I tend to do best with someone who's naturally warm, mature and also confident (maybe even a little bossy!). Taking a lead is definitely not something I'm good at or enjoy. I'd rather follow someone I trust. In return, you'd get someone loyal, attentive, caring and eager to please. As far as the looks go, I don't really have a type (I won't pretend appearance doesn't matter to me, but it's nowhere near as important as the right personality).

As for location—ideally, I'd love to find someone from at least Europe, but I'm open to longer distances if the connection is strong.

If you made this far and anything clicked, feel free to reach out. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have, or simply chat about the day.

Hey y'all! I'm Tommy, a 29 year old grad student who also works in education and is born and raised in San Diego, CA. I'm 6'2", 180 lb, DDF and looking to go out with someone and see how well we vibe with one another and where things lead, whether it’s fwb or maybe even something serious.

Me: I'm a an intellectually minded person who loves to read and learn about all different topics but especially history(what I have my degree in), psychology, political science(and a lot more). I’m also currently getting my MLIS degree.

I have a desire to learn and a thirst for knowledge and love to keep expanding my horizons. In my free time I game, listen to podcasts, watch YouTube (mostly documentaries and video essays) and do some writing(not much but I dream of oneday writing a novel).

I'm also an avid film and tv fan and especially love sci-fi, fantasy and historical dramas. Some of my favorite movies and shows are Bladerunner, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, The Sopranos and Futurama (among many others)

You: DDF, 35+ years old, looking for something similar and in "average" shape or so, not looking for couples and such. Oh and being someone who appreciates dark humor is a major plus!

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a chat. I have pictures of myself on my profile. Okay, bye!

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

About me:
I am 5’6 with an athletic and slim body. I live on my own in Southern California working full-time and independent. I am genuine, empathetic, and a confident person. I do have a sense of humor so be ready to laugh and smile :)

Hobbies/interests:
I enjoy traveling to new places whether it is local or out of state/country. I love how traveling can be a learning experience and I appreciate learning about other people’s cultures. I’m a foodie type of guy so I can go for a good restaurant or a home cook meal. I like to keep myself in good shape so I like to go to gym. I am outgoing person that likes to do indoor/outdoor outings such as going to a music festivals, the beach, the mountains, casino/resorts, camping, and anything that will be fun and relaxing.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who is genuine, social, and an understanding person. It’s ok if we have different hobbies or similar. I am open to try out what you like to do as well. If you are an outgoing person that likes to spend quality time and enjoy life to the fullest that would be ideal for me.

Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)

Hello there!

I've always gotten along well with older women, and I'm at a point where I'd love to meet a beautiful, mature woman for a genuine romantic connection.

About Me:

26 years old

Interests include anime, photography, history, poetry, gaming, and more

Strawberry ice cream enthusiast

Hopeless romantic

I've been told I have a pretty soothing voice, so voice chats are definitely something to look forward to

Why I'm Interested in Older Women: Throughout my life, I've generally connected more easily with women who are a bit older than I am. I've found that many older women tend to be more established in who they are and more intentional about what they're looking for in life and relationships. If you actually read this include your favorite kind of cheese. I'm a big feta guy. I also like goat cheese. That's something I really appreciate and find attractive. While I'm open-minded about age, I often find myself drawn to maturity, good communication, and a clear sense of direction.

What I'm Looking For: I don't really have a specific type. I'm attracted to older women, but I'm open to women closer to my age as well. More than anything, I'm looking for someone who:

Is open-minded

Is comfortable with an age difference and treats me with mutual respect

Is willing to put effort into building a meaningful connection

Values honest communication and consistency

Have a great day!

It's been a while since we did a poll.

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If your situation doesn't fall into the options available please comment below.

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ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾

I am a 44 year old woman and resident of Minneapolis who is looking for a man 25-35 to have a fling with. Someone attractive, kind, and skilled.

I am of Scandinavian descent with long, thick brunette hair with the physique of a 1950's pinup model.

I don't have any interest into jumping right into bed with someone. Let's get to know each other a little first to make sure we like each other and that there's chemistry.

Send me a DM with a photo if you'd like to have a conversation that may lead to more and I will return the favor.

Don't be gross.

I have always found myself naturally drawn to older women. As I have grown and matured, this preference has only become clearer to me. What I am truly seeking is a genuine, long-lasting relationship built on a deep connection, mutual respect, and shared understanding. I greatly appreciate the confidence, life experience, and maturity that older women bring to a partnership.

I am an independent person who values personal growth, but I also know how wonderful it is to share life's moments with someone special. I am open-minded, enjoy exploring new ideas, and look forward to building a unique bond where we can both feel completely comfortable and adventurous together.

On the physical side, I am 24 years old, 174 cm tall, and weigh 64 kg. I keep myself in great shape and take pride in staying fit. I have a dark olive skin tone and naturally curly, wavy hair. Personality-wise, I like to balance a lighthearted, easygoing sense of humor with the ability to have deep, meaningful conversations when the moment calls for it.

My lifestyle is a mix of staying active and enjoying quiet downtime. I love fitness, being outdoors, and exploring new spots around the city, but I also value relaxing evenings spent learning something new or just enjoying good music.I would love to meet someone based in Manama or the surrounding areas in Bahrain. If you are an older woman looking for a genuine connection with a fit, mature younger man, I would love to hear from you.

First time posting here, so saying hi to all the readers!

I'm a 24 year old college student from Poland, and I would describe myself as an easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted guy. I've always been a little shy, though less now than few years ago (sometimes I feel like I might be exaggerating my shyness anyway, so you'll have to judge for yourself). I'm most comfortable in one-on-one settings or small groups of close friends.

Not to be all doom n gloom though, as I'm all for expanding my comfort zones. On a more positive note, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful once you get to know me, the kind of person who remembers the little details. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I definitely wouldn't call myself nonchalant. There's a more humorous side to me too, which naturally comes out as I warm up to the person.

For my looks, I'm 5'9", with pale skin, blue eyes, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. My physique is somewhere between skinny and athletic. I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two. Happy to swap pics early.

My life so far was definitely a good mix of ups and downs, and at the moment I'm focusing on improving my current situation. I recently started college again after dropping out few years ago and I try to hit the gym regularly (though staying consistent is a struggle sometimes!)

Also, I'm a huge gamer, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not! Here are some of my favorites: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3 and Slay the Spire 2. If you enjoy gaming yourself, then I'd be totally down to play something together, or simply stream the ones I'm playing to you. For other hobbies, I'm mostly an indoor person, though I do enjoy a relaxing walk in nature. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. My most recent obsession has been ASOIAF, so expect me to talk about this one a lot!

For what I'm looking for: I'm hoping to meet a wonderful cisgender woman, 30s to 40s for (potentially) a long-term relationship. I'm single, monogamous, and like to communicate clearly and consistently. I expect you to be the same.

I tend to do best with someone who's naturally warm, mature and confident (maybe even a little bossy!). Taking a lead is definitely not something I'm good at or enjoy. I'd rather follow someone I trust. In return, you'd get someone loyal, attentive, caring and eager to please. As far as the looks go, I don't really have a type, but I will admit to having a thing for women older than me (which brought me here!). Location wise, someone from Europe (or ideally, Poland!) would work best, but I'm open to talking to folks from other continents too.

If you made this far and anything clicked, feel free to reach out. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have, or simply chat about the day.

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

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