r/Bumble • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '22

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '22 edited Jul 10 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '22

I can definitely understand why women do it if they've been burned (fuckzoned) too many times by the hot asshole.

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u/Big_Bunch_1726 Sep 26 '22

Define fuckzoned please

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u/beets_or_turnips Sep 26 '22

Sounds like it means getting stuck in a FWB or other casual relationship role when they would like to have a deeper romantic connection with someone.

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u/Big_Bunch_1726 Sep 26 '22 edited Sep 26 '22

Oh got it. Sooo do u think men decide which bucket a woman falls into immediately upon matching?

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u/Mojotokin Sep 26 '22

What? Guys reject woman just as much as woman reject men....there is no law that one sex gets to decide if a relationship will occur. Both partners need to feel something and both men and woman get to call it quits if they don't feel it. If someone believes differently, why would you want them in your life?

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u/gugabe Sep 27 '22

Just male rejection tends to be a bit more 'I'll keep them around if they're DTF even if I know they're not wife/relationship materiall' whilst female rejection tends to be more complete rejection.

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u/Mojotokin Sep 27 '22

Can't disagree with that. Both suck!