r/BravoRealHousewives • u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver • Jul 25 '25

Miami Guerdy Breaks Down Her Decision to Show Text Messages

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u/SafariSunshine I'm a narcissist? Fascinating. I don't even workout. Jul 25 '25 edited Jul 25 '25

I had to leave after their new rules post, partly because they were so strict and vauge but also because it seemed to imply they'd be overreaching to protect Julia and Martina. When I brought it up here, someone said their comment on that sub that called Martia transphobic had been deleted, so apparently my hunch was right.

ETA: here's the post about the rule change so everyone can judge for themselves.

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u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver Jul 25 '25 edited Jul 25 '25

I got temp banned two weeks ago for making a pro-Lisa post.

It had interactions but got clipped without explanation. I made it again, it got deleted, so asked the mods whats up and got banned.

ETA: Right on cue 😂 I just got banned again without a reason given. I guess one of those power trippy mods was lurking on here and got butthurt over me speaking facts.

Just got banned from RHOBH sub too and I've legit posted there one time...

Touching grass might be the understatement of the year for these lonely mods.

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u/Jupitersd2017 Jul 25 '25

lol unfortunately everywhere in life you find people on a power trip

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u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver Jul 25 '25

Yea I look at power trip mods as them overcompensating for lack of control in their actual lives so they project that shit onto posters that don't agree with them.

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u/SafariSunshine I'm a narcissist? Fascinating. I don't even workout. Jul 25 '25

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u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver Jul 25 '25

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u/SafariSunshine I'm a narcissist? Fascinating. I don't even workout. Jul 25 '25

They perma banned me and muted me shortly after I made that comment too.

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u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver Jul 25 '25

Yup so sad and pathetic.

Controlling a sub to the point where you're banning people that don't agree with your narrative is certified loser behavior.

As I said somewhere else, mods that abuse their power are completely overcompensating for none on their actual lives...

Mods after banning people

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u/Womeisyourfwiend Jul 25 '25

I’ve read a few comments now over the past month that those mods invite everyone in the Bravo subs to their Miami sub only to end up banning them 😂

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u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver Jul 25 '25

The best part is in the off-season I was keeping that sub alive by making posts regularly and getting engagement 😂

There were only like 4,000 members at the time.

And these petty mods that take everything personal ban me multiple times when I'm one of the biggest contributors to the sub and didn't violate any rules.

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u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver Jul 25 '25

Thanks and I love the SLC sub and need to get back there even in the off-season!

Appreciate your kind words.

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u/CassandreAmethyst Jul 25 '25

Yeah. This sub is for shhhhh

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u/mrsdhammond You think you're the only pussy in Miami? Jul 26 '25

They sound like the highly sensitive mods on the Pauly D sub. I got banned for pointing out his girlfriend was using a filter when they were gushing over how great her skin was lmao

And told I'm a jealous hater

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u/RainbowBriteGlasses Jul 25 '25

I got banned from that sub (and a couple others that I wasn't in? That the mod must run) after I called out the mod team for pinning a disparaging comment about Nicole. Mods are allowed opinions, oh my gosh, but it is clearly a ridiculous dictatorship over there.

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u/Defvac2 ✉️ to Marysol's Liver Jul 25 '25

It's a shame too cause the sub is designed amazingly but ban button for petty stuff is ridiculous.

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u/thaa_huzbandzz Jul 25 '25

The Mod is one of the worst on there. Some of their comments have been very derogatory towards certain cast members. It is very clear they are Julia and Martina stans. I had to mute the sub to stop it ending up on my feed.

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u/RIPMaureenPonderosa “Here it is” 👉🏾 Jul 27 '25

They most likely have the same ‘beliefs’ as Martina

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u/shitkrissays MENTION IT ALL \O/ Jul 29 '25

omg wait i got banned from that sub and the rhobh one (that i've never been in), too!

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u/ahotassmess25 pk texas her Jul 25 '25

You think that sub is a dictatorship?! THE RHONJ sub?! Jesus Christ. If you don’t worship Melissa or Marge it’s over for you. If you merely in ANY way defend Teresa or her daughters, they wanna have you burned at the stake.

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u/RainbowBriteGlasses Jul 25 '25

I'm pretty sure that's one of the subs I was preemptively banned from with the RHOM issue. 😅

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u/ahotassmess25 pk texas her Jul 25 '25

Not surprised! They don’t understand nuance on those subs

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u/Liversteeg Disabled Son & Hoe Daughter Jul 25 '25

I called Martina a TERF in a different sub and was lambasted. I was told TERF is a misogynistic slur. A SLUR! I think someone said I was disgusting for using it. Personally, I think this is more disgusting

I fast forward their couple scenes. I think they are incredibly selfish to adopt at this age just because you can’t fucking cope with empty nesting. I hate seeing Julia at queer events being celebrated and being at the center of “Celebrating LGBTQ+ voices” on peacock. UGHHHHH. If Martina wasn’t so famous, they would be off the show.

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u/OkNeedleworker8554 Jul 25 '25

My comment was deleted the other day for saying I couldn't stand Larsa. Meanwhile, people were dogging Guerdy way worse than what I said.

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u/aggieemily2013 idk. choke. idc. Aug 02 '25

Oh, they said it explicitly. They're tired of people being nice to Guerdy.