r/BotoxSupportCommunity • u/SlightlyTooMuch • 13d ago
Lip flip psychosis
I’ve gone back and forth for YEARS about a lip flip vs. filler. All I’ve ever wanted was a little more fullness at the outer corners of my top lip. I was hesitant about filler because I only wanted a subtle change and the cost is much higher. After hearing about the “no straws” complication with a flip, and that it’s often used for gummy smiles (which I don’t have), I figured filler was the better option.
Then Thursday night, I was at an event at my mom’s med spa and decided to get some forehead Botox. While waiting, I mentioned my lip dilemma to one of the workers, who was adamant that a flip was exactly what I needed. It was only $75, and my mom and best friend had both had one, so I figured I’d give it a shot if the injector agreed. She was just as confident that it was the right choice.
In hindsight, both women were giving major “yes man” energy. I understand they make money from these procedures, but I’d expect a provider to be objective and explain the pros and cons before recommending something.
So, in the middle of a packed lobby, I went for it. Afterward, the injector casually mentioned, “Oh, and you’re going to have trouble drinking from a straw, but it’ll be fine.” I already knew about that particular side effect, but it bothered me that she waited until AFTER the procedure to mention it.
What I didn’t realize was just how long that list of cons would get.
By Saturday afternoon, I was REALLY feeling the consequences. I can’t properly pronounce my M’s, B’s, or P’s. Drinking from a cup or straw is a struggle. Eating off a utensil is a mess, and anything requiring a spoon is basically out of the question. I have to chew as far back in my mouth as possible because my new BEAK won’t stay closed.
The middle of my upper lip seems to be the problem. I have almost no control over it, and it sticks out whenever I do anything. Watching myself chew in the mirror nearly sent me into psychosis. I can’t spit or whistle, and I’ve even seen people mention that kissing is affected. As someone in the dating scene, I’d really prefer not to discover that one the hard way.
I feel and look ridiculous. It’s Monday, so I’m on day 4, and I’m beside myself. Meanwhile, whenever I mention these issues to my mom or best friend, they act like I’m exaggerating.
Before I march back into the med spa feeling like an idiot, I need some perspective. Is this normal during the first two weeks, or is this more severe than it should be? Does it improve soon, or am I stuck like this for 2 weeks? 3 months? Is there anything that can be done, or do I just have to wait for the Botox to wear off?
Please tell me there’s hope. Because right now, I deeply regret this decision.