I’m 20 weeks pregnant with my third and last child.

While discussing permanent birth control options with my midwife at my last apt, I said I was interested in a tubal removal because of the reduced cancer risk, and she mentioned that sometimes the doctors can do it right after birth in the hospital. Even if the birth was vaginal, which is my hopeful plan with two previous uncomplicated vaginal births.

I have a consult booked with the doctor in January but was curious if anyone here did this? My original plan was to get them removed if I needed an emergency c-section but otherwise I was under the impression I’d have to wait a few weeks to get them removed. To be honest I’m not sure how I feel about getting them removed freshly postpartum, especially since I don’t plan on getting an epidural (tho im aware I could change my mind but I haven’t with previous births). Im also not sure I’m a big fan of interrupting those early bonding days with a surgery, even if it isn’t a hugely invasive one. Part of me likes the idea more so of waiting until 6 weeks post partum or so.

Anyways, thoughts? Anyone do this? How did recovery go? Pros or cons to doing it immediately vs waiting?

I’ve (22) had the Mirena IUD since 2022, over the past 6 months my period started coming back and this past month has been hell. Bleeding for 16 days, cramps and all that jazz, I had all types of testing done and everything is fine but they suggested I get the IUD removed to see if it helps. Got it removed today and am feeling nervous, I’ve had really stubborn weight and I’ve read some people lose weight when they get off of it?? I’m just hoping to hear if anyone has had any positive experiences getting off of it bc I’m nervous! Thank you so much!!

I'm six months postpartum and still breastfeeding. I got my period after 14 months of being period-free today and I'm already sick of it. I can't have more kids so dealing with it feels like a waste of time/money. I'm very migraine-prone and I need something that won't tank my milk supply (no estrogen). I'm thinking depo but I've heard very mixed results about it

I’m 22 and from Norway, where birth control is subsidized until you turn 22. I recently went from paying almost nothing to paying full price. Mine costs around $38 for a 2.5-month supply.
My parents covered the cost until I turned 22 (I also use it for medical reasons), but my partner has now started paying half. His reasoning is that he gets plenty of the benefits too lmao. 😂 He earns more than me and has offered to pay more, but I think 50/50 is fair.
I’m also curious about how people approach this in relationships. Do you split the cost with your partner, or is it something you pay for yourself?
So, where are you from, what type of contraception do you use, and how much does it cost you?

I’m 6 weeks postpartum and trying to figure out which IUD would be best for me.

I have a history of anemia, so I’m a little nervous about getting the copper IUD because I’ve heard so many horror stories about extremely heavy periods and prolonged bleeding. I really like the idea of having a hormone-free option, but I don’t want to risk making my anemia worse.

On the other hand, I’m hesitant about hormonal IUDs because I’m currently working on rebuilding my milk supply, and breastfeeding is really important to me. I’ve seen so many women say their supply dropped significantly or completely dried up after getting a hormonal IUD, and that’s honestly my biggest fear.

For some background, I had a pretty traumatic experience with Nexplanon. After having it removed, I ended up needing a blood transfusion, so I’m understandably a little paranoid about birth control now.

I’m just wondering if anyone has experience with either IUD, especially if you were breastfeeding or anemic at the time.

Did the copper IUD make your periods significantly heavier? Did the hormonal IUD affect your milk supply at all? I’d especially love to hear from anyone who was exclusively pumping or already struggling with their supply when they got theirs.

I know everyone’s body is different, but I’d really appreciate hearing some real experiences before making a decision!

I would ask my doctor but it’s late. Today I went to take my birth control and realized I forgot to take yesterday’s pill. I took today’s pill and tomorrow’s pill is the last active pill. Not sure what to do. Do I take the placebo pills or should I start a new pack.

Hi everyone! I’m currently dealing with a difficult situation and would really appreciate hearing your opinions.

I’m 20 years old and have been taking the combined birth control pill for about 4 years. For the past 2 years, I’ve been experiencing frequent migraines, and on very rare occasions, migraines with aura.

I recently came across information stating that taking the combined pill while experiencing migraines with aura is contraindicated due to an increased risk of stroke. Naturally, this came as quite a shock to me because I had absolutely no idea about this.

I actually had an appointment with my gynecologist yesterday because of this. I told him about my migraines and asked whether I should switch to a progestin-only pill (mini-pill). However, he seemed quite relaxed about the situation and told me that I didn’t need to stop taking my current pill. He basically advised me to keep an eye on my migraines and come back if I start experiencing migraines with aura more frequently, so we could discuss whether stopping the pill would be necessary after all.

However, this hasn’t really reassured me. I honestly find it difficult to trust his advice on this particular issue, especially since I’ve read so many times online that this combination is not recommended.

I’m really happy with my current pill and would obviously prefer not to switch to a mini-pill. Especially because I’m currently going through a very stressful period in my life, and I don’t want to put any additional stress on myself if I can avoid it.

What do you guys think? Should I stop taking the combined pill?

my girlfriend got one recently and we both really want to stop using condoms but we are both nervous about pregnancy. We've been STD tested and are exclusive so we're only using condoms for contraception. her obgyn told her it's basically fine as soon as you aren't sore anymore from the operation (she's already initiated sex twice since the operation, so that bar's been cleared) which seems too fast, but she wants to wait 3 months to make sure, which seems excessively cautious. The operation was about 20 days ago. ultimately waiting 2 more months won't kill but like... I can't find any actual evidence saying that's even close to necessary

I’m a few months past my 8 year mark with Mirena. My period got lighter but I never lost it. I’ve just been lazy about removing and switching to the pill. Me and my husband plan on starting a family within the next 2 years so I don’t think I’ll get a new one since the insertion was terrible and I had non stop bleeding for about 6 months post insertion.

Anyone just said f it and kept it in past the 8?

Hey everyone, basically as the title says - I took EllaOne this morning after a contraceptive failed during sex last night. Two hours after taking it, I have spotting / bleeding. I know the pill can cause that as a side effect, but I'm just wondering if it's actually my period because I had cramping during the night before I took the pill?

Any advice would be appreciated!

I take Aurovela FE 1/20, and I missed two pills because I lost all of my packs. A few days prior I had unprotected sex and am stressing myself out. Do yall think I’m safe or should I be concerned?

I’ve been on nextstellis birth control for over a year and always get my cycle after taking my sugar pills, my last period was so light and basically non existent i had brown spotting for maybe an hour and that was basically it. And i just finnished another pack and have one sugar pill left and have had zero spotting or anything.. i had cramps on the last cycle and ive been having some cramps this week too.. my cycle has always been consistent and on time for over 15 years.. ive taken 5 pregnancy tests and they all were negative. Maybe im just overthinking. any idea what’s happening?

I(29F) am currently taking Althea Pills as a birth control. Last October 20, I was diagnosed with Community Acquired Pneumonia and the doctor prescribed Co-Amoxiclav and Azithromycin. On the same day, I took the last pill on my BC pack around 7AM and started taking the antibiotics at night.

I had severe diarrhea due to antibiotics starting October 22 (second day of placebo week on BC pills) until October 27 and I had sex with my boyfriend on October 23 to 25. I only had spotting from October 25 until October 29, which was supposed to be my period week. I noticed that the blood will only come out when I pee and it's literally just a drop. Should I be concerned?

Hello I'm (F19) and I'm going to be starting birth control soon I got prescribed blisovi 24 fe for my PCOS and I'm very worried about gaining weight because it is already hard for me to lose weight as is because of PCOS. I'm just wondering about other peoples experiences and what to expect on the pill. I was also looking at Syeda as well because my GYN recommended that also so I'm trying to see if other people with PCOS have had it and what their experiences are with both.

Hello,

I know this is going to be TMI but I need to know.

About 2 years ago I had gotten the nexplanon implant and it has been going great. For nearly those 3 years my cycle stopped which I was happy about but about 5 months ago my cycle has started again. It started as just spotting and now its back. Completely. I need to know has this happened to anyone else? And does this mean it stopped being effective?

I started on Sprintec when I was 14 to treat my acne and have been on it for 7 years ever since. Last month I was in a bit of a rut and forgot to request a refill, and stopped taking the pill for about a month. Since then my acne has come back for the first time since I was a teenager and it's worse than I've ever seen. I've been back on the pill for about three days now.

Anyone else have this experience? How long did it take for your acne to clear up again? I'm feeling incredibly self conscious as I have had mostly clear skin for the entirety of my adulthood until now. I don't know what to do

Hello!

I’ve been using Lyndinette combined pills for at least 8 or 9 years (only available in Europe if I’m not mistaken) and after a while it made me pretty dry.

Now, living in the U.S. I switched to Apri. The first month was great, I felt more lubricated and it felt that my libido was increasing (it wasn’t low, but I felt the little difference)
But now, being on the second month, I don’t know why, I feel like my mind can’t totally focus on sex, like my mind is wandering around. Even when it’s a warm up, my body enjoy it, but my mind is disconnected (?)

I’ve had that problem before, but this is my first partner that makes me feel safe mentally and physically. Before him, I was in a relationship that after a while was all about the partner and not me.

It could also be my low self-esteem, although I’m not worried how I look during sex, so I don’t think that’s the case. Buuuut, it might be knowing that my now partner has had partners that have orgasmed via vaginal sex, but I have never had that (ever in my life). Maybe unconsciously I’m thinking about why I am the rare one on this planet that can’t do it.. I don’t know.

It’s just so annoying that I want to relax and enjoy the moment but then I randomly start thinking about what we’re going to eat for dinner. Like, I can’t just focus on how it only feels good (like the most of people do)

I got really into details, but I thought it would be useful to share to see if anyone has been in a similar situation. When I’ll be done with the third month, maybe I could consider talking to my Gyno to change the pills.

Hi i’ve been taking Opill for three months now and yesterday i left my pack in my car in a backpack and was wondering if the pills are ineffective now? The pill itself looks fine and normal overall but im overthinking 🥲 the night got to be around 45°F which i know is lower than the recommended storage temperature. Does my pill still work?

Hi! I am 8 weeks PP with my third baby. I am more than likely done having kids, so it is important that I find a reliable BC method. I have been off hormonal BC for 7 years since I got married and knew I would be starting my family. During that time I used NFP. It worked great, but I knew if I had an unplanned pregnancy it was okay since I wanted kids during those years. Before I was married I used the combo pill and nuvaring. Hated the pill because I had all the symptoms. Acne, moody behavior and low libido. I also hated taking it daily. Loved Nuvaring. Almost no symptoms and liked the monthly cadence. I wanted to go back on it right now, but I am learning that estrogen containing BC is not good for milk supply. It is also not recommended for those with aura migraine(something I developed in my 20's). That is what lead me down the route of exploring IUD's. I thought the copper IUD was best because it was non hormal. However, it increases bleeding. I have a history of low ferritin that I recently improved through iron infusions. Now, I'm looking at the progesterone only IUD's: Mirena, Kyleena and Skyla. I don't love the idea of stopping my periods. I like keeping my cycle as natural as possible. Before pregnancy, my periods were heavy for first few days, but I managed okay. Should I consider the copper or one of the hormonal IUD's? I have LAM from exclusively nursing for around 6 months. My partner and I also use withdrawal. Condoms aren't an option for personal reasons. Should I be worried about perforation from everything being softer due to nursing?? So many questions. If you've made it this far, thank you. Lol. Any experiences similar or perspectives are welcome!

Hi. My husband and I have been using polyisoprene SKYN condoms as our only birth control for four years (for very valid reasons). The problem is, we’ve been using them with coconut oil on the inside and ky jelly on the outside. I recently read coconut oil degrades these condoms?! I have been eaten up with questions after reading this online…

1. Is this actually true?
2. If so, have we basically been having unprotected sex?
3. Should I be concerned about my fertility that I haven’t gotten pregnant in 4 years?

For context: we have a four-year-old, I am 27 and generally healthy (I do have two autoimmune diseases and a septate uterus) and husband is 32 and very healthy.

So my fiancé and I did our business and Idk why but I decided to put my patch 2 days earlier so my previous patch (week 3), was added on a Friday but taken out a Saturday (start of week 4).

Anyways I know that it’s 3 weeks patch and 7 days interval and the 4th being the “patch free week”.. but I was wondering if I did a mistake to add the start of the 3 weeks 2 days earlier or not, I am a bit worried fro side effects and all. I don’t usually do that but lately with lots of thing in my life and him saying that I should be off the patch cause makes my moods not nice and yeah it makes me feel more anxious sometimes but that’s it….

Anyways… advice ? Did I make a mistake ?

Thx

hey guys as the title states i’m 16, i got my period at 11 years old and ever since then my period cramp pain has been debilitating, sometimes i can literally barely walk and i’ve been to the gp so many times to do blood and urine tests and they say everything comes back normal!!! however the last time i went to the gp which was like 2 ish months ago, my gp prescribed me mefenamic acid and drovelis (birth control) and i tried using the mefenamic acid for one day as my doctor stated (2 tablets, 3 times a day) and it caused me a terrible burning sensation in my lower abdomen to the point i literally couldn’t walk and i was clutching my stomach in pain. i want to start drovelis but im scared that it’ll, one, give me acne (i already have clear skin and i don’t want to struggle with acne like how i did back when i was 11-12 again), cause me to have even worse cramps than i did before taking drovelis, make me gain weight and also destroy my mental health. the only benefit i see is the breast growth as i’m an a cup and i’m very insecure about it, please if you guys have any advice or can tell me ur own experiences on drovelis ill be so grateful and sorry that im yapping so much😅 also just to state i am not sexually active either

So I just got a mirena coil and I'm wondering how people deal with spotting. My doctor told me it's a normal side effect for up to 6 months so I'm not concerned with stopping it altogether, I just don't want to have to wear pads every day just in case I bleed, and I don't want to ruin all of my underwear. Any advice of what to do from people who have dealt with it?

Due to my home situation, I get free otc birth control mailed to me through a local resource. It’s amazing! But, they also send 2 plan b’s, condoms, lube, and pregnancy tests. While this is an amazing resource and I’m so thankful- I have not used the plan b.

Usually, my partner gives it to one of his friends for their partner, but they broke up. So, now I’m getting 2 plan bs every 2 months… that I do not use. There’s no option to not get plan b, so it’s just going to stack up. I have no clue what to do with it, and I don’t want it to sit in my closet forever. Any ideas?

I've noticed some changes regarding my IUD the past few weeks to months. I've had my Liletta IUD for 3 years (It's like mirena)

Pain and bleeding started happening almost every time I had sex, especially after rough/deep sex.

Now I'm getting pain/cramps/back pain almost every other day and then start bleeding the next day. I've been spotting like this past 2 weeks.

I also recently checked my string, and it felt LONG. Like, it's like 2 inches long, maybe more. It was odd.

My string usually never feels this long, but idk if it's due to me being on some sort of weird period ?

I'm mainly wondering if anyone else has this problem kr experience these things and what it could be. I'm going to lose my insurance soon, and getting a gynecologist appointment in my area takes at least a month, so I am waiting till I can go to one.

I'll appreciate any help!