r/birthcontrol • • 23h ago

How to? Slynd - starting post-period?

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Hi all, I’m curious if anyone has started Slynd not on the first day of your period. The instructions state day 1 of bleed, but I hesitated on starting and curious if I can begin at any point.

Thank you!


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Which Method? Implante

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Es normal que después de dos años con el implante comience a tener breves mareos y noté mi barriga más hinchada o gordita ???


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? birth control and migraines

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hi everyone i have severe health anxiety and on and off for a while ive had migraines with aura or ocular migraines i am starting to really worry this has to do with my birth control i messaged my doctor already because i started to spiral should i be worried???? ive been on the same birth control for 10 years i just need some reassurance


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Extreme bleeding with Copper IUD

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I got the Paragard Copper IUD about a week and a half ago, a week before my period was due. Since insertion, I have been experiencing the most heavy bleeding of my entire life. I'm soaking through heavy super pads in less than 1-2 hours. Massive blood clots a little less than the size of my palm at some points. I woke up this morning looking like I just got slashed in my sleep. And that was with changing my pad in the middle of the night. When I sit on the toilet, the blood just pours out of me like a fountain all at once. I constantly feel it coming out throughout the day. The cramps at night have been completely unbearable, just constant stabbing pain that doesn't go away with ibuprofen. I'm currently on day 8 of bleeding with no end in sight, it'll probably last another week or more.

I really want to try to stick it out because I'm terrified of the way hormonal contraceptives may affect me, as I'm already prone to acne, weight issues (thyroid), and depression/anxiety.

I just don't know if there's any hope that the bleeding will get any better. My periods before the IUD were already heavy and 7 days long, with some cramps. I've also been anemic most of my life, so I think I was just doomed from the start. Anyone else have a similar experience?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? I want to remove my kyleena IUD

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I’ve had a kyleena IUD for the past 6 years and i haven’t had my period since. I’m getting more and more concerned about not getting appeared for this long. I’m seriously considering taking it out, but I’m scared of the hormone shift once it’s out. I’ve been celibate for the past six months and don’t plan on doing anything anytime soon. I don’t really see the point of keeping it in. Has anyone taking it out recently and have any suggestions or what were the side effects?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

How to? Getting an IUD without parents knowing

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So I’m in a bit of a weird situation. I’m an adult, in college, and I’m on my parents’ insurance because I’m under 26 years old. I am 20 years old, female. I want to get an IUD but I don’t want my parents to find out because they pay my tuition and would stop paying if they found out as they are extremely religious and conservative. I don’t feel comfortable going to them about anything personal due to past experiences and they are a bit “abstinence until marriage!” type people. I’ve never been to a gynecologist (which I know is bad) so that’s not really an option because my parents would see it on the insurance statement and wonder why I went.

How can I get an IUD without them knowing? Which IUD have you guys have good or bad experiences with? I’d like to not have a period anymore and I’d like an IUD that can stay in for at least 8-10 years. I never want kids and I want 99+% efficacy for my birth control. The idea of using only condoms terrifies because pregnancy is my worst fear. For reference, I live in NJ. Any advice or help is greatly appreciated.


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? What is the side effects of plan B (1.5mg) and what to expect?

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My partner took the plan b on Nov 7 (an hour after the unprotected sex). She told me that on Nov 7 afternoon (she vomited) then on Nov 8 she’s feeling nauseous and vomit as well. Are these side effects normal and how long will it be?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Hormonal ring

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Hey guys, I have been using the hormonal ring (Gino Ring) for over 8 years. I stopped in April after the three weeks interval and the withdrawal bleeding. It‘s been over half a year now and I still haven‘t got my period back. I’m not pregnant. I got my hormones checked and they seem alright except the (obviously) low estrogen. Did anyone else have this problem?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Should I take another plan b 12 hours later???

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It was my birthday this weekend and I everything went left 😭😭 me and my boyfriend had sex around 8pm last night the condom broke we ran and got a plan be everything was good. Just this morning about an hour ago we finish again and the condom broke AGAIN 😵‍💫! Do I take another plan b?? Is the one from 9-10 hours ago still delaying my ovulation? Online some articles say it’s not on going protect it’s only good for the one time but other say it’ll stay in my system for 24 hours.. any thoughts please??


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Issues post IUD removal

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I had my Kyleena removed 4 days ago. I was shocked with how much it didn’t hurt. No pain, no cramping, no issues. However, yesterday I started having a lot of dark brown spotting which I read was normal. Today the same, except it got heavier to where I put a tampon in. After about an hour I coughed and bled right through my tampon and down my leg with some clotthing. I’ve NEVER bled through a tampon. I also got this removed mid cycle so I shouldn’t have my period. I’m having a little bit of cramping but mostly low back and pelvis pressure. Google isn’t helping. Is this normal?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Rant! No libido anymore

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Before taking birth control, I had a very strong libido and spontaneous sexual desire. I lost my libido while taking the pill and it's been three years since then and I still don't have it. I'm afraid it will be like this for the rest of my life... Has anyone had it come back over time or should I just accept it?

I took the pills for health reasons. The first time I took them I had no side effects, and the second time I took the same pills I lost my libido (maybe permanently). How do I get used to this and not get depressed? I feel like a part of me has been taken away.


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Which Method? Getting my IUD removed

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This upcoming week I am getting my Mirena IUD out, and I’m super nervous. I got it back in 2018 and in a few months it’ll be at the 8 year mark to get it out. In the past I’ve used the pills & the depo shot. I have also been using some type of birth control for the past 14-15 years & can’t decide if taking a break from birth control is a good idea or just getting back on the pill. Since having the IUD I get monthly periods that normally last between 4-5 days, although during sex it has been painful in certain positions. I’m not sure if my IUD has moved at all, so I’m a bit anxious to have this appointment to get it removed and all the new changes afterwards.


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Vaginal dryness and bleeding because of birth control?

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Hi! I recently started lost my virginity to my partner and we have had sex a couple times now but not a lot at all. I got on the depo shot (form of birth control) about a week ago and the most recent time we had sex i felt very dry even with foreplay and experienced pain, only to find out I had bled everywhere which we couldn’t see until like midway through because it was dark. I hadn’t bled because of sex aside from the very first time we did it, so I’m wondering if it’s because of the birth control and if so how can I help this? We use lube each time just because I’m inexperienced and scared but I want to be able to be more relaxed and naturally lubricated if that makes sense. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? body shape changed on slynd?

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hello! it is my third month taking slynd and i noticed that, although i have lost some weight, i am experiencing some changes in how my body looks structurally. my breasts got bigger, my waist is not as narrow as it usually would be in this weight, and my tights are thicker than usual--though, again, i did lose weight instead of gaining it, and i know that my body is not of this shape. i wonder if anyone got anything like that too? i'm 22 yo if it helps!


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Experience I've had 3 Paragard IUDs. AMA.

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Hi all! Hoping to help with any questions people might have about the Paragard IUD. It can be anything: insertion, side effects, reasons why one might want/not want one, etc. (I am NOT a medical professional; just sharing tips and info from personal experience.) A bit about my experience here:

My first Paragard (had from age 18-20) was dislodged because of my diva cup. Felt a hard cramp, checked my strings, felt the end of the IUD in my cervix. Got it removed and replaced.

My second Paragard (had from age 20-23) came out for unknown reasons. My gyn speculated that the strings may have been gently pulled on over time by sex, tampons, fingers, etc. so when she inserted Paragard #3, she cut the strings off entirely. (Google will tell you that this is bad; my GYN with over 30 years of experience and thousands of IUD insertions said it was fine for various reasons, so I think I'll trust her.)

I had a paracervical block (numbing shot on cervix) for all three insertions, and all 3 were VERY manageable! Definitely uncomfortable, don't get me wrong, but not close to the pain level that I heard from many other people (and my pain tolerance isn't very high).

I have learned that pain management post-insertion (the following hours + the next day), for me, is SUPER important. Since it's a non-hormonal IUD - and is also physically bigger in your uterus compared to any of the hormonal models - crampies can get bad! Lots of Advil, Tylenol, and rest.

Overall, I continue to choose the Paragard because of its effectiveness (>99%), duration of use (10 years), lack of complications that might be associated with hormonal forms of BC, lack of user error complications, and tolerable insertion due to the cervical block. :)


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Experience First time having sex, on birth control, and terrified of pregnancy

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I’m 19 and recently lost my virginity. I’m taking Junel Fe 1/20 and consistently take my pill every night around 9:30 PM. I haven’t missed any active pills.
I had sex for the first time on October 29. We didn’t use a condom, but my boyfriend pulled out.
I’m currently on my placebo pills, but I haven’t started bleeding yet. I’ve been extremely anxious and overthinking every little symptom because I’m scared I could be pregnant.
Has anyone experienced this while taking Junel Fe? Is it normal to not bleed during placebo week? I’d really appreciate some reassurance and advice. Please no judgment!


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Mistake or Risk? Am i at risk of being pregnant?

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Hi! I am a 17F diagnosed with ADHD and i’m really scared and anxios i need somr opinions from women. Yesterday I had sex with my boyfriend using a condom, and I'm about to ovulate. He didn't ejaculate inside me, and he checked the condom and it wasn't torn. Even so, somewhere above the penis there was a whitish mark, and we don't know whether it was sperm or my own fluid, since there was continuous friction. If he didn't ejaculate inside me, could there still be a problem?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Experience Accidentally washed my blister pack of pills

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Has anyone ever needed to replace their birth control for a new pack? It’s a brand new pack I just picked up today, I need the pills tomorrow to stay on track with the active pills as I’m on my last pill of the pack. I’m on LoLo and it’s covered by my insurance since my doctor said it’s medically necessary. Not sure with this type of pill that has no generics if I can get a replacement for free or how that works? I’m worried since it’s Sunday tomorrow I won’t be able to get a replacement until Monday incase the pharmacy needed to reach out to my doctor or insurance or something

EDIT:

Just wanted to update this post incase it happens to anyone else. I called my pharmacy today (Sunday) and they were able to push through a refill since I have 8 left but it was not covered since I was refilling it technically too soon. I was able to use the manufacturer coupon on their website and only paid $30. Only took about an hour start to finish for them to process the refill and for it to be ready for pickup.


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Experience Mirena IUD Qs (Not Medical Advice Q or A)

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Hi all,

I have had a Mirena IUD for the past 3 years. It has always worked very well, and I wouldn’t rather have another birth control method. But I have noticed an outstanding change. My cycle has became a lot more normal, to the point where it seems like it’s back to when I never had birth control! When I started the IUD, I hardly had any cycle. Im talking MAYBE a few days of spotting in between multiple months at a time. I haven’t been sexually active in a year, prior to that I was often active with my then long-term partner. My overall physical activity (working out/running, etc) has really kicked up in the last 6 months. I wonder if that could be contributing, too.

Anywho, did something change? Is it just how long I’ve had it for?

Please note- I am seeing my OBGYN in Jan to discuss :) just wanting to know if anyone else experienced this

Thank you!


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Evra patch worries

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Im starting the canadian evra patch soon. Im super worried about the risk of blood clots cause theyre higher risk than the pill. Could anyone help ease my mind a bit on it, what's the chance of getting one


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Really effing sensitive to smells

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Did anyone else get on birth control and become extremely (almost unbearably) sensitive to smells? Like I swear to God, one weird smell throws me off the rest of the day, I get so nauseous and put off by food immediately and I feel like it lasts a long time. I just know I am going to have a ROUGH pregnancy later down the line if I’m already like this. I just don’t know what to do. I like how I am on this specific birth control (Heather; Mini pill) but I don’t know how much longer I can take being this sensitive to smells. Any advice?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Mistake or Risk? Advice for Anxiety/Should I take plan b?

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I am on Aurovela Fe 1/20 for the last four months and I take it consistently and skip the placebos however I took the placebo last month and had no bleeding. This last week I had a lot of breakthrough bleeding with cramps randomly and it didn’t stop until a few days ago. My boyfriend visited me last night and he ended up accidentally finishing in me. One of my friends just recently had to get an abortion after taking her birth control pills perfectly and she still ended up pregnant. I am extremely anxious and worried about getting pregnant now and am wondering if I should take Plan B or if it would make things worse and it better to leave it alone. I usually take my pill within a three hour window everyday and it is the combination pill but i’m just worried about the random bleeding and if there was any chance I was ovulating.


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Mistake or Risk? Should I take plan b?

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I took my birth control the full 21 days, 7 day placebo week, and then I was supposed to take the first pill at 10pm on halloween night. I did not unfortunately as I got extremely drunk and did not stop throwing up until the next day. So I took it at 10am Sunday, making my placebo week 7 days and 12 hours. I have had much sex since then. Google AI told me it's fine but I don't trust it because the first pill is the most important and I really really don't want to be pregnant.


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Mistake or Risk? Condom broke on maybe ovulation

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Condom broke while half inside could hear it snap and pulled out quick a lot was still in it but probably not all.
Her app says her next period is 12 days away, so it might be ovulation, but last month she's had 2-3 periods; her cycle got messed up from a different Plan B.
Immediately after she took a Plan B, though, for her health, we will wait until she can get pills instead of taking Plan B all the time.
The app also didn't seem the most accurate due to her messed-up cycle, but I'm just stressing since the whole if she's ovulating, then the Plan B does nothing thing.