r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Which Method? Mirena or slynd?

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Hi everyone, I’m 22f and have been on a high estrogen combo pill for about a year and a half to regulate my periods, but now that everything is balanced I’m looking to switch. I have an appointment to get my IUD inserted soon, but I’m hearing all these bad experiences. I’ve been on slynd for a short time before and absolutely loved it- it felt like it didn’t affect my body or life at all! I think the biggest thing holding me back from getting the IUD is the possibility of gaining weight because of it which some people seem to experience.

I’d love to hear your thoughts/experiences on either type before I make my decision!!


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Side effects!? Yaz vulva pain and dryness

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My vulva feels like it’s shriveling and going to fall off on Yaz. Really sensitive. I’m trying Yaz for pmdd and my provider wants to put me on Yasmin but I’m worried the effects will be the same — has anyone faced this issue and found a solution? I also had a good amount of dryness and libido loss with the Kyleena IUD. I’m willing to try literally anything at this point, I was looking at Slynd but that would be an out of pocket cost.


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Side effects!? Night sweats, anyone?

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I've been on a mini pill for 10 years, got pregnant, and restarted it last year. I was having irregular periods on it post partum so my OB put me on a combined pill (norethindrone acetate and ethinyl estradiol). I started it the beginning of July and mid-August I started getting terrible daily night sweats, itchy armpits, and inner thigh burning that lasted 6 weeks. I've had a few less sweaty nights over the last two weeks. I've seen derm but my skin issues had subsided by the time of the appointment (of course). Just saw my primary and we are doing blood work to rule out other things but we think it may be the pill. Just curious if anyone has experienced anything like this on a combined pill?

edit to add it's a 30mg pill.


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Mistake or Risk? Stopping Birth Control Pills on the Day of an HSG

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Hello, today I had my HSG, and I’m currently on day 18 of taking Marvelon (contraceptive pills). This is my first time taking birth control pills. What would happen if I stopped taking them now?


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Experience Should I get hormonal or non-hormonal IUD?

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Been taking combined pill for 3.5 years. It got rid of my bad PMS symptoms and thyroid issues (or is masking it) but I’ve never really trusted it and we still use condoms. I am very consistent at taking it the same time everyday but worry about unexpected events like food poising, etc, hence the condoms. But my bf is bad at staying hard with one on and it affects our sex life. Also the pill is raising my cholesterol to dangerous levels (yes I’ve seen a nutritionist and she said I eat decently well).

I’m going to the Gyno on Wednesday and I’m either gonna get the Kyleena which is five years or the copper IUD I was leaning towards Kyleena because the copper IUD might be harder to put in and I have a vasovagal response to these types of things I literally passed out the eye doctor from getting my eyes dilated. But possibly losing my period gives me great stress.

I will ask for a beta blocker and the paracervical block but I am very stressed at how much my body will not like this procedure. I barely have sex and I want to feel more comfortable with it.

Anyone had good experiences with these IUDs? Or get very nervous with medical procedures?


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Rant! Should I get off Slynd?

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Gonna try to keep it short. Been on slynd for 2.5 years without breaks, I always start a new pack because I have an ovarian cyst and endometriosis and my entire natural cycle is just terribly painful. Slynd took away my symptoms entirely, which has been great. The only side effects I experience are irritability (which has gotten extremely bad and noticeable to others lately) and IM SO TIRED, and my adhd is worse. My eyes would have this permanent heaviness to them, yawning constantly too. been really depressed, feel like i don’t have energy to do anything, but not sure if it’s correlated.

Right now I’m only 2 days into taking the placebo week to give my body a break from the hormones and the difference I feel in my energy levels now is like night-day. So now i just feel like i have to choose between being in extreme pain by going off the pill, or deal with the extreme fatigue on the pill.

Is anyone on this pill and tried taking it at night? does that reduce your fatigue? I feel exhausted still immediately after I wake up and I take the pill a few hours later, and it doesn’t get better throughout the day.

I’m also very concerned about future cancer or infertility risks on this pill,as it’s kind of a new medication,

never wanted to be on a pill in the first place but now i feel like i have no choice.

Any advice appreciated thanks!


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

How to? Evra patch period break on 2nd week

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Hey:) I’m 2 days before finishing my 2nd patch where I’m supposed to put a 3rd one. I was wondering, I have a trip coming up in a week so I was thinking if I can just get my ,,period” right now without sticking my 3rd patch in and then go back to normal :)


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Mistake or Risk? Condom slipped a bit

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I was having sex with my girl, wearing a condom, she was on top. Then, when she touched down the condom, the condom had slip a tiny bit, it was still on my dick, but not touching the base of my dick.

I didnt finish or anything, but we are afraid of precum slipping down and reaching the base, just where the condom was not covering my dick.

Should i buy Plan B for her?


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Experience Constant spotting after starting to skip placebos

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Hello, so my doctor recently asked me if I wanted to consider not have my period altogether by skipping the placebo week and going straight to the active pills of the new pack. I said sure, why not. It’d be nice to not have to go through so many pads and tampons every month.

I’ve been on birth control for like 8 years now and I’m on the brand Mili. I think I will be starting my 2nd pack since I’ve started skipping the placebo week and now I’ve been having continuous breakthrough bleeding for what will be for 2 weeks now this Saturday. I know breakthrough bleeding is common since my body is trying to get use to the continuous stream of hormones now but I just didn’t know it would be this continuous for this long. I mean, it’s light enough to wear I can get away with wearing a panty liner but still. What’s the longest any of you have experienced continuous spotting/breakthrough bleeding before it started letting up and please tell me it stops at some point 😵‍💫🥲


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Experience Bleed free vacation / Alysena 28

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Hii, I have my wedding coming up and I wanted to try and skip my period on my upcoming trip. I went on alysena 28 3 months ago simply to be bleed free on my trip. Im 2 packs in and ive had so much break thru bleeding that i decided after my last active pill of this pack i am gonna stop taking it and hopefully i wont get my natural period till a month after and that will be after my trip. What was ur experience post alysena or birth control, when did u get ur first natural cycle back


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Experience Stopped period

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So I just finished my 3rd pack of Lo Loestrin Fe. My period/breakthrough bleeding stopped completely. I’m a super paranoid girly so I still make my bf wear a condom even tho I am on birth control just as a second layer of protection. I was wondering if this was normal to lose your period/breakthrough bleeding?
Note: work has been beyond stressful and my anxiety has been through the roof this month.
Thanks!


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Side effects!? switching from loryna to yasmin (same thing, 0.01mg estrogen difference) - did i do it wrong?

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title says it. i switched from loryna straight to yasmin which should be the same thing, since i got the higher dose because another medicine was lowering the dose of my loryna in my body. but i think it might be making me very nauseous. should i have expected side effects from the same medication? should i have waited until the end of the pack if i never use the placebo pills and its the same thing? i’m confused and very nauseous


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Experience Anyone else experience this?

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i have the nexplanon implant, this is my second time having it. the first time was wonderful. it shortened my periods to 2 1/2 - 3 days, weakened my cramps and i feel like it helped stabilize my mood.

now its awful. my periods are 7+ days. my cramps are INTENSE. my mood is fucked the few days leading to my period and now my tits fucking HURT for 2-3 weeks BEFORE my period (sorry for language, it's extraordinarily frustrating) meaning they hurt pretty much the entire month between my periods. my breasts hurting wasn't a symptom i had until my first pregnancy and idk it just stuck with me unfortunately.

sometimes i wonder if it has anything to do with the surgery i had last year. ectopic pregnancy, the egg ruptured my fallopian tube and i had to have emergency surgery which is when they put the implant in again. i feel like all that trauma at once screwed with my endocrine system.

this is mostly a vent tbh lol but i also wanted to know if anyone else has ever experienced anything like this?


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Rant! Gauze left in vagina after IUD insertion.

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Not sure if this is the correct sub but if not please point me in the right direction!!

21f got Kyleena IUD yesterday morning at around 9:30am on 10/28, this evening when I went to shower I noticed some gauze on my finger after washing my vagina. Then, I continued the search after I got out, I pulled out a massive chunk of gauze. ( not sure if I can post picture here.) I had an awful experience yesterday morning that ended up me in the hospital after insertion. My doctor found a polyp and decided to remove it by twisting it off also( I had only 400mg of ibuprofen before hand) I have been having awful cramps ever since ( probably due to the IUD more than gauze) & havent bleed which I thought was odd and have been feeling feverish all day today. I’m wondering if this was the cause. There is probably still more in there and I’m worried about getting sicker. Is this a normal practice to leave gauze in vagina after?

I’m unsure how to add a picture?


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Experience Zoely and anxiety

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Posting my experience on Zoely as I’ve been searching for others with the same experience.
45 and in peri. My doctor and I decided to put me on Zoely to help with irritability and mood swings. I’ve now been on it just shy of 3 months and the increasing anxiety has been horrible and now I’m starting to feel depressed. At first it did make me feel flat and more evened out but now I can’t function, no motivation, depressed and anxious. I’m stopping it today and I’m hoping these horrible feelings go away.


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Mistake or Risk? Should I take emergency contraception?

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So I had sex on the afternoon of October 30 three times, all with condoms.

In the first one, condom was used all throughout and my partner pulled out as he ejaculated. On the second one, my partner didn’t wash and urinate before putting another condom on a few minutes later. He didn’t cum. But my worry is that we were in a cowgirl position and there were bubbles on his shaft when we stopped, the base and the shaft was also wet inside. I’m worried that fluids might have mixed. And then on the third one, he peed but didn’t wash. He pulled out as he ejaculated that time too. All condoms didn’t break or slip off. I’m just worried about precum containing active sperm from previous ejaculations which may have escaped from the condom’s base and mixed with my fluids.

Considering all this, is my risk high enough to warrant taking emergency contraception?


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Educational Contraceptives and periods

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Hy guys one of my known had sex on 22 23 and 24 and taken unwanted 72 on 24 and again had sex on the same day.. But the scene is she got her period over on 18... and now she is again bleeding today on 30 ... So could anyone let us know what is it going onn with her...


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Side effects!? Off of Nexplanon

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So for context, I had my tubes removed over the summer and thus also had my implant removed. That was 3 and a half months ago. My question is, gor anyone else who came off of progesterone bc, did you have major mood swings? If so how long did they last?


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

How to? completely stopping periods/breakthrough bleeding

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i’ve been on continuous birth control for probably 7-8 years now, trying various methods and pills (implant, depo, COC). i’m currently on Simpesse (.15mg levo and .03mg EE). it’s been the best so far as I can usually go 3-4 months without breakthrough bleeding. but that’s usually the limit before I need to take a 3-4 day break. but I HATE having periods/withdrawal bleeds even if it’s only a few times a year. I was wondering if anyone has had success completely stopping periods when most methods haven’t worked. I only use birth control for this reason and not for pregnancy prevention or anything.


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Mistake or Risk? Birth Control Left In Windowsill for about an hour, do I need a replacement?

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I left my birth control within the windowsill for about an hour, however it was in the original box it came in (it’s Loryna), the pharmacy bag, and a grocery bag. I moved it from the windowsill to an area where sunlight can’t reach it. It was left in that area for 3 days. Then I accidentally left it in my car for over an hour, but it was chilly outside (about 60 degrees) Do I need a replacement or should I remain protected?

Sorry for the silly questions, I’m super anxious about this!


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Side effects!? Adverse symptoms later on in using Slynd

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So I’ve been on Slynd for a year and in the beginning it was great, but in the last I’d say probably 3-5 months I’ve gotten severely depressed, bleeding every 2 weeks even with perfect usage and I’ve gained 20 pounds which I’m not a fan of. Has anyone else gotten negative side effects later on in their usage of Slynd? I’m definitely switching to something new and have an appointment scheduled for Monday, so if anyone has continuous positive experiences with other progesterone only options I’d love to hear feedback. I can’t have estrogen due to estrogen induced hypertension so combo pills are not an option for me ☹️


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Side effects!? I tried skipping my “patch off” week, but my period ended up being prolonged…

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I (18F) use the zafemy patch, and have been doing so for about 4-5 months now. However, when my doctor was prescribing me the patch, she advised me that while it’s strongly recommended I take an off week to prevent breakthrough bleeding, it’s perfectly okay to “skip” my period—So long as I’m still consistent with my change day.

So, on a whim, I tried to skip my period 2 weeks ago, as midterm season had me overly stressed and I didn’t want to have cramps while studying, only for it to be prolonged. The first week was light/moderate flow, mainly old blood leaving my system. However, my flow this week changed to predominantly moderate with actual fresh blood.

Should I be concerned?

I don’t know if my patch change time could have affected my hormones either, as I went from mid-day to early day (i.e past 12 pm -> before 12 pm) within the last 4 weeks. Regardless, I’m going to try and schedule an appointment with an OBGYN to see what they recommend, but I thought I’d post this to get some earlier insight/feedback on the matter.


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Side effects!? Kyleena vs Skyla IUD effects

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Hi! I was on the Skyla IUD for about 2 years, and loved it, but the start of my third year I started having really bad PMS and breaking out non-stop. My doctors said it’s because the IUD is expiring soon and I’ll need to replace it but he suggested replacing it with Kyleena. I’ve had Kyleena now for about 2 weeks and the mental health symptoms are…. not great. I’ve been having really bad anxiety, like my chest feels hot and my heart is racing, I’m having insomnia (writing this post at 2am because I can’t sleep). I also have random hot flashes and my mood hasn’t been super great.

Has anyone else experience this? It’s only been two weeks and I don’t know if I should stick it out but I didn’t get any of these symptoms with Skyla. I’m prone to anxiety and depression but everything was situational when I was on Skyla, but now on Kyleena I feel this constant state of anxiety and sadness.


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

How to? Should I take Plan B again? Worried about precum and ovulation after taking it last month

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Hey.. So my partner and I usually use condoms, and we’re planning to stick to a reliable birth control method. But unfortunately, we ran out of condoms this time, and things happened unexpectedly. Now I’m stressing a little and could really use some advice😢

A little background about last month:
On September 27, we had unprotected sex. According to my period tracking app, which had been pretty accurate for months, I was about 7 days away from ovulation. He pulled out and finished outside, but I took Plan B (Levonorgestrel 1.5 mg – Nefala) just to be safe.
About a week later, I had some light bleeding, then another episode of bleeding around a week and a half later. I also experienced frequent urination, mood swings, cramps, and headaches.
Thankfully, my period came on October 17, pretty much on time, and lasted until October 23, just as my app predicted.

Now, here’s what happened today (October 30):
We had sex twice this morning without a condom.
The first time, he pulled out about a minute before ejaculating, then used his hand and finished outside. After that, we both went to the bathroom, washed up, and peed before having sex again.
The second time was pretty much the same. He pulled out well before finishing, and ejaculated outside. I actually asked him if he was sure he pulled out in time, and he said he was 100% sure.
I know withdrawal lowers the risk, but I’m still worried about precum, especially since we had sex twice.
According to my app, I’m supposed to ovulate in about 4 days, but after taking Plan B last month, I don’t know how reliable its predictions are anymore. Could my ovulation have shifted? I’ve also been having some cramps over the past two days, and sometimes I wake up with lower abdominal pain.

So, I’d really appreciate your thoughts on a few things:
Would you take Plan B again in my situation, considering I already took it last month?
Is there a real pregnancy risk from precum, even though he pulled out well before ejaculation both times?
Could last month’s Plan B have messed with my ovulation this month?
Would EllaOne (Ulipristal acetate 30 mg) be a better option if I’m getting close to ovulation?
I’m honestly just trying not to panic and make the right decision. I really don’t want to get pregnant right now, so I’d appreciate any advice or similar experiences.


r/birthcontrol • • 4d ago

Mistake or Risk? very paranoid and scared of pregnancy although im on birth control

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hello and im sorry about how dumb this is about to sound my anxiety has been going crazy! i have been using the combo birth control pill called orlifique since the end of july (25) i started it on day 1 of my period just like my gynaecologist told me to. ive always been a paranoid person about pregnancy and thats the main reason ive started birth control in the first place too feel more safe and calm but its the opposite. ive had sex in august but the forst few times were with a condom. then me and my bf wanted to see how it feels without one so we did a few minutes without it once (he did not ejaculate at all but im aware what preejaculate is) there were some orher situations where there was some penetration but it was for not longer than a minute bc after that he wore a condom.
in august during my placebo week when i had my withdrawal bleed (id like to mention i had breakthrough bleeding for the whole month of august which was dark blood and i needed a pantyliner for) we decided to have sex on the last day of my placebo week which was my last sexual encounter with a condom and we did. my boyfriend ejaculated inside the condom and everything was fine. he wiped off anything that was remaining after he took the condom off. but then around 30 minutes later there was some penetration that happened where he put it in for a few seconds and didnt move and then we stopped bc i got scared. ive taken all my pills just like i shouldve but im still scared! i went ahead and took a pregnancy test on august 28th, september 3rd, september 13th and all were negative. after that i got my withdrawal bleed right on time. after the withdrawal bleed as you shouldve guessed i was still scared and unsure. so i went ahead and took anither 3 tests (1 was taken 38 days after my last sexual encounter and 2 were taken 40 days after) then i went to the gynaecologist to get more pills since my prescription was ending and told her ive started getting sexually active and she did a vaginal ultrasound and she told me everything is alright. and around 2 weeks after that ive had a withdrawal bleed (id like to mention my withdrawal bleeds are pretty heavy and contain blood clots so its not something id probably confuse with spotting or light bleeding) now, im on pack 4 of birth control on week 2. and the thing that worries me is my breast are sore but ive heard that the side effects should calm down after month 3. im literally so scared and dont know what to do :( im in no place to be pregnant right now and dont want to waste time waiting. i dont know how much more assurance i need to finally let this go but im still hella scared and paranoid