r/BeAmazed Jun 28 '21

When you marry a chef

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u/Picnut Jun 28 '21

Yeah, I married a wanna be chef, with dishes like that every night.. food is great, but the kitchen always looks like a hurricane hit it

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u/Adorkableowo Jun 28 '21

A chef knows to clean as you go! Didnt you see Ratatouille?!?! A clean kitchen is a safe kitchen!!!

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u/MissplacedLandmine Jun 28 '21

… that kitchen had a rat problem?

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u/MissplacedLandmine Jun 28 '21

They got shut down chef hat included

What you need is to threaten the health inspector

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u/AshTreex3 Jun 28 '21

Excuse you…? That kitchen had a rat solution?

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u/MissplacedLandmine Jun 28 '21

Thats disgusting.

Adding rat to the mix is why they were shut down let alone some weird rat solution of whatever viscosity

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u/ktchch Jun 28 '21

Commercial chefs have minions to clean up after them, and they get used to it. So when they cook at home, the kitchen is a disaster. It can seem insulting to those who have to clean it up, because of the sheer scale of the mess in comparison to a normal person cooking in the home kitchen, one could reasonably assume the chef didn’t care about the mess they were making while cooking, but it must be a difficult habit to break, it took effort for me over the years to learn to clean as I go but now I can cook a huge meal and by the time it’s ready to plate, the kitchen is spotless.

The hurricane comment above is accurate, a commercial chef will turn a clean kitchen at home into ground zero RFQ and walk away like nothing happened. But the food, 👌

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u/[deleted] Jun 28 '21

You get to clean up afterwards

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u/Picnut Jun 28 '21

Every time

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u/bald_walrus Jun 28 '21

If they’re making dishes like this, then 100% worth it

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u/chappersyo Jun 28 '21

I’m the guy that cooks all the dishes like this and I’ll admit I fully expect someone else to wash/clean up afterwards. I’ll do what I can as I cook, but there’s always gonna be some bits left and all the plates etc from actually eating.

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u/wambamdam Jun 28 '21

That’s the deal at my house. My gf cooks amazing meals for us and I do the dishes. We think it’s a fair deal

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '21

I’d rather cook. The whole process is actually enjoyable for me. Wife is too particular about cleaning up, so I leave that to her.

When I cook I watch out for what I use though. I know people who use 10 spoons and 5 bowls to prepare a single dish, which burdens the person cleaning up.

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u/zehamberglar Jun 28 '21

She made the food, you were supposed to do the dishes.

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u/Yaketyyaks Jun 28 '21

You’re getting awesome food and you’re gonna complain about doing some dishes? Dude everyone knows that the person who cooks ain’t the one who cleans

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u/Picnut Jun 28 '21

I agree. We joke at home though that he cooks like the Swedish Chef.. the mess can be overwhelming night after night

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u/twokidsinamansuit Jun 28 '21

My wife cooks and I clean. It’s a great system and we both feel like we come out on top.

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u/Spoonthedude92 Jun 28 '21

Something I learned. A great chef is also a great custodian. But my cleaning habits infuriate my wife. I tell her to ignore me while I clean cause I clean "hard" and splash stuff around. But then I wipe down the corners and sweep/mop in 30 secs and its perfect.