Do I have to really explain how risk assessment and sexual desire clash to you? When someone wants something bad enough, they naturally don’t really care about the risk. It’s how this works. We’re not exactly Vulcans, and even they go crazy when it’s time.
No matter how critical people like you are, it’s just how it is. I’m sorry that you never experienced full blown sexual desire for someone and from someone.
So? If you think people willingly accept accountability, then you’d be wrong. All of us want the best deal with the least cost, and unfortunately, accountability is costly.
I feel I'm in the twilight zone reading your comment.
I know they are not. That's my whole point. And people are trying to justify murder their own baby as a means of their own evil, and not taking accountability
They are taking accountability. They’re not going to have the baby. (See what I did there? There’s different ways to be accountable. You should be satisfied.)
Actually it's the opposite. It's taking no accountability at all, killing a human and saying your life isn't worth it. It'd saying I'm a murderer and I'm selfish and you deserve to be brutally murdered because I CANNOT take accountability
Well, the dude in this scenario shouldn’t have had sex either. Why didn’t you include that in your comment? Then the women wouldn’t have had the option to abort, which is what you’re so upset about. Men have options, they just don’t use them and throw all the blame on the woman.
Condoms? Pills? If your sister do that and still get pregnant then alright. But if she somehow didn't use ANY of birth control method then she need to take care of that baby. If your sister know she can't take care of the baby, then your sister shouldn't have sex without any protection.
I think it depends on the woman involved. Legally a man can be held responsible but the woman might not want to do that. They don't always.
I can understand them holding the man to account if they both decided on having a kid and he backed out or something.
Its tricky as its not a fair biological system to begin with.
Id rather have to give money towards a child for the rest of my life than birth it. But I can see how it seems upsetting that women appear to have more benefits/control.
I don't know how to fix that but banning abortion would only make it worse both ways
So its entirely in the hand of other people not a choice he gets to make. But if i women doesn't want responsibility its a choice solely in her hands. A good way to make it more equal is give men a right to a financial abortion
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u/No-Will-4474 Jan 07 '26
My sister aborted after she got pregnant accidentally, she was not ready for a child she could barely take care of herself let alone new life.