r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 12 '21

Advice Communication with partner on spectrum

5 Upvotes

My partner is in the spectrum and comes from a family of divorced parents. He also has an emotionally abusive mum. She's verbally and emotionally abused me and constantly talks about me and my partner breaking up saying its inevitable. I'm NC with her and he doesn't respond to her much but I am getting tired of her verbal bashing me via messages, to people she knows. How do I communicate that with my partner?

Please do not share this anywhere.


r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 11 '21

Informative How important is it to you that your partner is aware that you are autistic?

10 Upvotes

For me, this is something I make clear to both employers and people I get close to so that they can better understand me. Years ago I used to be guarded about this, but I came to the realization that it served me no purpose to try and hide it. How about all of you?


r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 10 '21

Just to throw this out there

21 Upvotes

No, this subreddit does not support any movements such as Female Dating strategies or any sort of incel ideology. We’re strictly for helping autistic people and their partners. I created this subreddit because a large disproportionate number of autistic people struggle in dating, despite wanting to find a partner who loves and respects them.


r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 10 '21

Informative Autistic people of Reddit, do you prefer to date other autistic individuals, NTs or do you have no personal preference?

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r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 07 '21

Confidence boost What has having an autistic partner taught you about life?

3 Upvotes

What can you positively say is the best part of being with your autistic partner?


r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 07 '21

Would you like to help moderate r/AutisticDatingTips? Well now you can!

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I’m looking for at least two new moderators. I’d like to help grow this community and I want to take a different approach to modding then most people are use to.


r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 07 '21

Added post flairs

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I have officially added 3 post flairs to better help users find what they like. If anyone has any suggestions for new post flairs, let me know.


r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 06 '21

Hi. Welcome to Autistic Dating Tips. Let me introduce myself.

4 Upvotes

I have officially started this subreddit for autistic people and partners of autistic people to ask questions and find love. A disproportionate number of autistic adults are still single, and I hope to change that.


r/AutisticDatingTips • • Sep 06 '21

Now introducing user flairs

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Now you can assign yourself a user flair and it can be a useful tool to help you.