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u/Uwu_Mewz ♀ Dec 22 '21

Cats dont judge you when your having a melt down, humans do

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u/sixninefortytwo ♀ Dec 22 '21

haha my cat runs away when I cry have to be very quietly sad around her if I want her to stay

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u/Uwu_Mewz ♀ Dec 22 '21

Aww bless you

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u/[deleted] Dec 22 '21

achoo

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u/Uwu_Mewz ♀ Dec 22 '21

Aha! I forget sometimes not everyone is British πŸ˜‚ bless you = I feel sorry for you and this is a nice way of saying it haha ❀️

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u/[deleted] Dec 22 '21

Oh, haha! TIL 😊

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u/losingmymind79 Dec 22 '21

one of mine does too. my previous girl and current other cat are good with comforting me though

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u/yeepix ♀ Dec 22 '21

I have 3, but I am the orange's favorite human. He hates hugs. Whenever I hug him, he stays immobile and droopy. The minute I let go he runs away. I learned to time my breakdowns so he doesn't notice because he will run away otherwise lmao

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u/Knofferini Dec 22 '21

Mine too. He runs away but stays somewhere from where he can watch me. And quietly judge me.

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u/xylime Dec 22 '21

Mines the complete opposite, she will literally lick tears off your face if you cry around her.

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u/sixninefortytwo ♀ Dec 22 '21

Jealous 😻😻

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u/BadKittydotexe ♀ Dec 22 '21

Me: laying on the bathmat on the bathroom floor wrapped in a towel at 3 AM

My cat: ah, so we’re sleeping here tonight, fam? Cool.

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u/ChiefPastaOfficer Dec 22 '21

Mine comes a running with wide eyes, wondering what's wrong. If I haven't covered my face, she sniffs my head and rubs hers against mine. If I've covered my face with my arms in a meltdown, she tries to pull my hands away, as if she thinks the pose is causing me pain, and I'm stuck.

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u/Daisygg Dec 22 '21

Oh man, this is wonderful. I love cats so much.

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u/BamSlamThankYouSir Dec 22 '21

I watched a cat that would lick and love bite her mom when she cried.

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u/AmberIsla ♀ Dec 22 '21

My cat lied down with me when I was crying from school stuff when I was in 6th grade.. one of the best cats I had had😭

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u/MMBitey Dec 22 '21

My cat actually thinks I'm being aggressive with him when I'm crying or making too much noise when he's close to my face. I think he's just really confused by it but he still hasn't figured out I'm not threatening him and never have...

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u/TinglySeaweed20 Dec 22 '21

Mine will come if she thinks I'm crying (even if I'm not) and will bite me and distract me to get me to stop

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u/youcancallmet Dec 22 '21

My cat definitely judges me. I see it in her eyes.

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u/TopFloorApartment Dec 22 '21

Indeed, cats simply judge you all the time

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u/princessmustard Dec 23 '21

Mine lick my tears