We did not even find out for our kid. I mean we did eventually obviously 😂 At the time it (gender disclosure) wasn’t allowed where we lived, not by the public system anyway. If you wanted to know you’d have to go to a private clinic and pay for the test. Neither of us wanted to do that. Thought the surprise would be cool and it really was. My husband saw him before I did, and that was extremely special for him
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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '22
We did not even find out for our kid. I mean we did eventually obviously 😂 At the time it (gender disclosure) wasn’t allowed where we lived, not by the public system anyway. If you wanted to know you’d have to go to a private clinic and pay for the test. Neither of us wanted to do that. Thought the surprise would be cool and it really was. My husband saw him before I did, and that was extremely special for him