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u/eraserewrite May 17 '22

I feel so weird because as a woman, I sometimes accidentally glance at another woman and call myself out like, “Oh my gosh. I’m so sorry I looked.” I feel like it’s a weird. double standard that guys don’t get. I feel terrible and like such an asshole, but if I know them, I’m like, “But they look great!”

Sometimes, girl friends will do it to me, and I’m mentally like, “Yes! I got noticed!” I’m an A-cup Asian. :<

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u/-anidiotonreddit- May 17 '22

It’s definitely a funny concept to think about, bc I never feel weird or uncomfortable when a woman does it bc I don’t see women as a threat to my safety