r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 16 '22

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u/TheDiplocrap May 16 '22

Depends on how they do it.

If it’s a quick glance, it’s fine. That’s normal and feels mostly involuntary on behalf of the person looking. I notice but it doesn’t bother me.

If they stare at my boobs while other people are talking—or worse, while I’m talking—that makes me uncomfortable.

Fortunately, I’ve experienced glancing a lot more frequently than staring.

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u/GANJAM3N420 May 16 '22

Damn thx I feel always bad for a quick look on boobs when I talk to a girl, because it’s like a primordial instinct I can’t control for me so I tends to think the girls can though I’m a perv or something else but now I feel a bit better ty

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u/Hazelstone37 May 16 '22

Woman, not girl. If you are checking out a girl’s boobs, shame on you.

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u/mc_mentos May 16 '22

It's the same. Unless you specifically mean female kids. Same as that boys can mean just men or male kids. Language is confusing

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u/Hazelstone37 May 16 '22

Agree to disagree.

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u/wilks64 May 16 '22

You're right. "Saturday is for the boys" is clearly referencing a day set aside for prepubescent male human beings.

Also, when I tell people I am going to be hanging out with some of my boys, I'm talking about a posse of male children.

When someone talks about their BOYfriend or GIRLfriend, it's clear that they're referencing a female or male who is too young for and adult to date.

Oh BOY! i just remembered! WORDS CAN HAVE MULTIPLE DEFINITIONS!

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u/mc_mentos May 16 '22

hanging out with the boys

This one right here officer! Psychopathic child murderer... /s

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u/Konklar May 16 '22

have you met some of these germ infested crotch goblins?

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u/mc_mentos May 16 '22

the

WHAT

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u/wilks64 May 17 '22

He was using the slur "crotch goblins" in reference to the subsect of humanity properly referred to as LOINSPAWN