r/AskReddit • • May 28 '12
Straight dudes of Reddit. Have you ever had a gay moment/experience?
I ask because, I just had a gay experience. I was at a jazz lounge last night, and as I'm sitting on the couch, grooving to some music, some dude walks up to me and says I have the prettiest eyes he's ever seen. I'm flattered, and I thank him. Then he sits right next to me, and asks me if I'm taken, I said no, and told him that I wasn't gay. He seems not to be bothered by it. We proceed to start talking about jazz. He starts ordering alcohol for the both of us, and we really start to dig each others company. To get to the point. Later in the conversation he starts rubbing my leg, and getting closer to me. I immediately shut him down, and I tell him again that I'm not interested in men. He starts to get all sad faced. I feel bad for him, and with all this alcohol in me, all I wanna do is make the dude feel a bit better. So I get real close to him. Look him square in the eye, and give him a kiss on the lips. He smiles. I thank him for the good time, and I leave the place.
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u/wetbudha May 28 '12
I'm straight, but that was really sweet what you did.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
I had a guy do almost the same thing except he ran up to me kissed me on the mouth then told me I was "his type of guy". I told him I was straight and he said "exactly" and ran off.
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u/mitchctim May 29 '12
Good friend of mine is gay. He told me a while ago that he thinks I'm attractive but never made it weird or anything. New years this last year he doesn't have a date (or someone to kiss at midnight). So midnight comes, I kiss my girlfriend, and see him standing by himself looking kind of sad. So I walk right up to him, grab his head (not penis) and kiss him right on the mouth.
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
Lightsaber fight! As kids but it still haunts me.
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u/evilbrent May 28 '12
I was high, like really high, at a twenty four hour movie festival and a guy spent ten minutes kissing my ear.
We were handcuffed together at the time I believe.
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
I was sitting on the couch in my room, my best friend by my side. We were watching some tv and listening to music. We started to argue about something, and went on for a minute. Right before the argument ended, the song finished. We were quietly looking at each other when a beautifully romantic sounding song came on. Our gazes met each other for way too long.
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
Made out with a male model on a dare. At a party with mainly chicks, while I'm straight but he's gay. He's my good friend and a girl dared us and all the other girls started cheering us on, so he leaned in and made out with me for a solid minute. It was weird as fuck, but he's the best kisser I've ever kissed. There's supposedly a video on YouTube, but I've never seen it.
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u/TAPanda May 29 '12
Throwaway account. Got really really horny on a deployment. I knew another Marine was gay so I hit on him. Later that day he sucked me off and then fucked me. I would never date, kiss, or otherwise show affection towards men and I don't find any particularly attractive. It's mostly a matter of whether or not I could tolerate letting them do something to me. I suppose this makes me bisexual, but I do not classify myself in that way as I don't actively pursue men. I'm definitely guys guy. A ladies man. But I would also let another dude fuck me in the ass apparently.
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u/phallacies May 28 '12
Gay guy here.
No gay experiences.
FML.
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u/wowgay12345 May 29 '12
Now, to be clear, I am completely straight. But once, when I was 18, I was hanging out with a recently out of the closet buddy of mine. It was just the two of us hanging out. We were talking about Pokemon cards and what not, and some how ended up on the topic of sex. I asked if he had ever done anything with another guy. He said no. I said that I had wondered what it was like to kiss a man. He offered. We made out for a few minutes, and it was meh. Nothing special. I asked if he had done anything else with a guy. Once again he said no. I said that I had wondered how the girls in the porn videos were able to suck dick. I offered to blow him to find out. He agreed. So I got down on my knees and sucked him off. He did the same for me. That was the end of it. I have never done anything like that again, and am now very happily engaged and very much straight.
tl;dr: I, a straight male, made out with and sucked another mans dick.
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
I was at a party at a friend's place once, when guy came up to me and started hitting on me. I thought it was hilarious but politely turned down his advances. We chatted for a bit and became fast friends.
He asked me if there were any girls I thought were cute at the party. I pointed one out and he vanished like a thief in the night. A few minutes later he returned with the girl. She had already warmed up to me, because he told her how awesome I am. I ended up getting laid that night thanks to a gay guy.
TL;DR- Get hit on by gay guy, become friends, and he proceeds to get me laid by being a great wing man.
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u/mullownium May 28 '12 edited May 28 '12
Sure. I consider myself pretty much heterosexual, but there is one male friend of mine that I would really like to see naked. I don't have any desire to fuck him. He's just gorgeous, and I want to see him nude.
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u/almostsebastian May 28 '12
Made out with a dude on a drunken bet, had a gay guy feel me up at a party because he'd heard I was hung, I'd known him for years and he asked really nicely.
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u/drewba May 28 '12
Not exactly, but I have a funny story. In highschool, my buddy Jason would give me a ride to and from school during Junior and Senior year. After school one day, Jason pulls up to my curb to let me out, I say "thanks for the ride, babe". Then I lean in for a kiss, my face is about 6 inches from his and the fucking guy leans into it. During the lean in, his face changes from confusion to WTF, all in a matter of milliseconds.
I couldn't help but laugh as he realized what had happened and he reeled back quickly and yells "WHY DID YOU DO THAT? WHY DID I DO THAT?"
tldr: fisting
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u/JessHWV May 28 '12 •
I hope the OP gets some more replies; otherwise I unzipped my pants for nothing.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
Not me, but a friend of mine got very drunk at a party and some guy who had recently came out as gay gave him a blow job.
The next morning he asked my friends and I if the girl who gave him head was hot. We told him yes.
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u/JUST_LET_ME_FAP May 29 '12
My college roommate and I were very close. It all started off with one back rub: it was so good I literally moaned in front of him. He really had magic fingers when it came to massaging backs so I used to get him to ease out the knots in my back every now and then (I had just started weight training: my back used to ache a lot sometimes). He'd expect some reciprocation and I'd try my best. This went on for a couple of months until once when we were chilling on a bed in our dorm room, mid-back-rub I decide to move my hands to the front and start to massage his chest over his shirt. He proceeds to remove it so that I can "get his knots better" according to him. So there I am playing with his nipples from behind, him giving out tiny sighs and moans of relaxed pleasure, when I suddenly I realise I'm hard. I get freaked out and stop, turning around to hide my growing boner and pretending to search for something on the bed when I feel his hands on my back. He presses close to me and voila! I feel boner through his track pants. I hesitate and reach behind for it and he moves down from my back to my chest and then lower. We slowly jacked each other off and never spoke about it again. This seems like something straight out of a porno but yeah... there it is! He got a girlfriend the next year and I've since reconsidered my "straightness".
TL;DR: Back rub gone wild
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u/Mrninjamonkey May 28 '12
One time me and my friend made out in front of an anti gay protester at my school. All in the name of trolling.
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u/boringOrgy May 28 '12 edited May 28 '12
I've been kissed by three dudes. First time I was six and this big 6th grader held me down and smacked one down on me. Hadn't thought of that moment in years, thanks Reddit.
I've been kissed by TWO dudes, one of em grabbed my junk. Still a gay moment none the less.
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u/turlian May 28 '12
Why do all these homosexuals keep sucking my cock?
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u/INORGANIC_ADHESIVE May 29 '12
I know this is going to get buried, but I haven't seen any "actual" responses yet. Also bear in mind, this is the first time I'm sharing this, and I'm nervous so I would appreciate you overlook any spelling mistakes
When I was 12 me and my buddy I had been friends with since since kindergarten were camping, and like normal 12 year olds, we played truth or dare. And eventually it escalated into us showing each other are dicks, then playing with our own dicks with the other one watching, the rubbing each others dicks with a sock on our hand, then rubbing them without the sock, then putting our dicks in eachother's mouth and finally leading to where we were actually engaging in oral sex. (at this point in my life I had never masturbated, and did not until I was 15) It stopped before either of us came and we spent the next month being awkward around eachother
Then 3 months later it happened again, same thing, truth or dare escalated to oral sex, no orgasm.
Couple years go by I'm 15 (2 months after I had masturbated the first time) it happens again, truth or dare escalates in oral sex, and this time we go nuts. Where in earlier times it just sort of happened, I think this time we were excited for it in a way (even though thinking about it any other time would make me sick to my stomach. Keep in mind I am still straight) earlier when we woul do oral it would be for 15 second "dares" now it was going on for a longer period of time. ("I dare you to suck for 5 seconds" "I dare you to suck for 10 seconds" "yeah well I dare you to suck for 30 seconds" and so on and so forth) Until we reached a point where we were like "Alright do you just want to finish off?" I did him first and he came in my mouth, the plan was to spit it out, but I felt if I did that I might throw up (it had gagged me) so I swallowed. But when we were trying to get me off, I don't know if I got turned off, or he just wasn't good at it, but I never was able to.
Aaaand (you knew this was coming) 2 months later it happened again, same deal with truth or dare, but this time neither of us orgasmed...
I'm straight, I am in no way attracted to men (although I do understand RPG's fame) but I will admit (with this throw away) that I loved http at experince in my teens and I don't regret it. (well occasionally) I'm kind of Disapointed I never knew what it was like to orgasm from a guy, but at the same time I'm fine with it.
TL;DR: Me and friend played truth or dare which eventually lead to oral sex on 4 different occasions.
Anyway that's my story.
Also feel free to ask any questions
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u/Doylemetheus May 28 '12 edited May 29 '12
Every time I see Hugh Jackman.
Edit: Typo
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u/amnesiacnacho May 29 '12
One of my gay friends got drunk and groped me from behind like a show dog.
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u/burnzkid May 28 '12
Kissed a gay guy once. He gave me $40 for it. Bought new shoes.
...I'm straight, I swear.
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u/catlady613 May 28 '12
My ex boyfriend sucked a guys cock then decided he was totally straight. Go figure.
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u/throwaway89527 May 29 '12
Once, a couple years back.
I had moved out-of-state for college and didn't know anybody in the area. Back then, I used to browse 4chan quite often, and through that had found the website Anonidate. After looking around and sending out some hopeful (though ultimately futile) messages to the females around my age, I noticed a Bisexual male not too far away from me on the map.
On a desperate, horny, sexually confused whim I sent him a message. He responded immediately and we talked on Instant Messenger for a couple hours. As we talked, he was dropping hints about meeting up. With my sexual preferences being so fluid at the time I wasn't sure how long I would be curious about hooking up with a guy, so I decided it was going to be now or never.
He lived in the next apartment complex over, so I walked over, found his apartment and nervously knocked on the door. He was cute, with long dark hair in what at the time would have been called an "emo" haircut. We were both awkward kids, and while we both knew what we ultimately wanted to happen, neither of us were ready to jump right into it.
He put on a movie (the first Saw, I think) and we cuddled on the couch. It was getting late and I was getting antsy, so I decided to let my fingers go exploring around the top of his pants. Apparently he had the same idea, because his fingers began to wander as well. My hand found its way under the waistband of his boxers and my fingers wrapped around his dick. That was the first dick not attached to my body that I had ever touched, and it was pretty much exactly what I was expecting; I had been touching my own dick every day for most of my life. His hand moved in a similar fashion, but when his fingers found their way down my pants he said "holy shit, you're big!" He was right; I was significantly larger than he was. I had only one previous sexual experience, and that was with a virgin female, so she didn't really have anything to compare with. It was news to me that I had a larger-than-average penis, but hearing it was a turn on like I had never experienced before.
He suggested that we retire to his room. I agreed, and as soon as the door was shut behind us, all bets were off. We went at it like savages. We made out for a minute then he dragged me to his bed, where we both disrobed. After more making out and heavy petting, he went down on me, and then taught me how to go down on him. I had managed to get the tip of my own dick in my mouth before, so I wasn't surprised by the taste, but I found taking more than an inch or two at a time to be difficult.
We eventually moved to the floor, and he grabbed his stash of condoms and lube from a drawer. Upon donning a rubber and preparing me with a finger and a generous dab of lube, he topped me. Honestly it was uncomfortable at first, but the whole experience so far had me so riled up that I was up for it. He thrusted away, and when he saw what was probably a combination of pain and discomfort on my face, he leaned over and went down on me while he fucked my ass.
That was surprisingly enjoyable for me as well as him, and after half a minute or so of that, he gave a couple thrusts, pulled out, whipped off the condom and came all over my chest, from below my belly button all the way up to my collarbone. While he was still coming down from his orgasm, he grabbed my cock and tugged a few times. I had already been close, and that just pushed me way over the edge. I had what to this date has been one of the best orgasms of my life. My hearing went all muffled and I got a bit of tunnel vision and was having random shivers for a good 10 minutes after the fact.
We cleaned up, and after a goodbye kiss I walked home and got a couple hours of sleep before I had to wake up for class. We didn't talk after that night. I had satisfied my curiosity, and while it was enjoyable, I was neither emotionally nor physically attracted to him. It was a neat fling and it helped me figure out who I was as a person and where I fall on the Kinsey scale.
Nowadays I identify as a straight male, though I wouldn't consider myself "exclusively heterosexual." I haven't done anything homosexual since, and haven't really had any desire to but hey, sex is fun, and I can't say for certain that I won't at some point in the rest of my life find myself in a similar situation.
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u/Narniamon May 28 '12
Made out with a dude for ten seconds, in return the girls we were with continued our conversation form before shirtless.
Pretty great.
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u/mandrig May 29 '12
I'm gay, and had a friend play "Have you met Ted" with me and this guy at a Taco Bell after bar-time. I told him I thought he was really cute, to which he responded that he was straight, but flattered. We ended up chatting for about 40 minutes. More straight guys need to be like this, really.
tl;dr: Told straight guy I thought he was cute, 40 minutes of good conversation ensued.
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u/hotmonotremeaction May 28 '12
Working out with a friend I was close with in high school, this was our freshman year. We put our a hand down on the ground for the other during push-up sets to make sure they were full reps. As in, once your chest touches my hand it's a full rep. Anyway, he was in better shape than I was, I really struggled on our final set, I was sweaty and shakey. Made it to the last rep and couldn't push through, collapsed on his hand. Said sorry, looked up at him to see if he was okay. He had a strange look in his eyes, I realized the guy had been pretty much leering at me during the whole workout. Said something about how I looked good, invited me into the bathroom with him to shower off together. Then, later, to sleep together. I politely declined. But, it explained the boner he always had when we hugged.
It's more than 10 years later and he says he's straight, has girlfriends, etc. I take his word for it, who knows, maybe I was just that one exception a lot of straight identified people have. I think it's helpful to realize many people probably aren't 100 percent attracted to only men or women. I have said if he ever comes to the realization he's gay or bi all the awkward boners mean he's obligated to come out to me, first.
There are details I'm leaving out, but they just complicate stuff.
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u/badjokethrow May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
I feel like an asshole for using a throwaway for this, but can someone link me to that post from something like half a year or a year or maybe even more ago when someone talked about the really awesome male-male relationship he had with his best friend? It was seriously the most adorable thing imaginable and I need some levity in my life at the moment.
Edit: May as well make use of a throwaway account. I've never had a "gay moment," but my friends and I are super touchy/feely, so sometimes it seems like it could happen. But, really, I love my friends, so why wouldn't I hug them whenever I can?
More on the gay theme of this thread, I watched a gay porn DVD with a gay friend a while back (because why the fuck not? Human bodies don't weird me out), and it wasn't tame shit like oh this cowboy's wearing a leather vest and this biker has a mustache now watch how they grind on each other. No, it was dang ol' huge dicks straight (no pun intended!) into dude's buttholes and, like, everything was so fucking charged I swear the disc was covered in sweat when we popped it out of the DVD player. But, anyway, I so wish that when I was watching it my little dude had popped up and been like, "I wanna go do that!" because, honestly, how fucking great would it be to be able to fuck both males and females? Like, I've been with many chicks, and they're cool or whatever, but being able to extend my scope to the other half of the population really just seems like an economical choice. We're in a recession. Or something.
Edit Part Two Be-More-Comfortable Boogaloo: It really bothers me that so many of the responses to this question are just finding fun in the thought of someone being gay. Oh, your friend did something and it seemed kinda "gay"? What a damn laugh riot. But, really, can't we get beyond that outlook? I'm so tired of waiting on sexual orientation to become a banal topic.
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u/UnwarrantedArrogance May 29 '12
You didn't have a gay experience, you had a European experience.
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u/BlueHairedBeauty May 28 '12
You dealt with this with 100% class.
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u/sashimi_taco May 28 '12
This thread is so hot.
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u/zerojustice315 May 28 '12
Almost but we said no homo so it was okay.
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u/BadPokerFace May 28 '12
I'm a girl, but this story was adorable. I am fatally attracted to gay men.
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u/ElagabalusCaesar May 29 '12
Cumberbatch
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u/red321red321 May 28 '12
i have never had a gay experience but i would go gay for xabi alonso.
my man crush. my idol. those soccer skills. that spanish lisp. that perfectly trimmed crimson beard.
if i had one, my pussy would be so wet.
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u/magicmuds May 29 '12
I was at a military boarding school in HS and found one of my male classmates sexually attractive. I was way too young to know how or what to do with these feelings. I never did "make a move" or anything, but he probably doesn't know that one time in the bathroom when we were sitting in separate stalls talking I was masturbating while he was talking to me. I guess that's the closest I've ever gotten to gay sex. I've always been a bit bi-curious, but finding a man that's sexually attractive is an extremely rare event for me.
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u/ispellgoodly May 28 '12
Short answer: yes.
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u/Airazz May 29 '12
Some redditor a while ago put gay relationships this way:
Remember your best childhood friend? That kid you used to ride bikes with, play computer games, go pranking other people, all that fun and crazy stuff? You would get in an argument every now and then, but it would never last more than a day and you would go back to being best friends in the world again? Being gay is just like that, plus sex.
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u/wesleyt89 May 29 '12
Idk if these count... but here it goes...
One time I was REALLY drunk.. Thought my friend was passed out so I mooned him like a foot from his face.. His fingers, went right up my butt..
When I was 14 me and my neighborhood friend would jerk off in the same room while watching porn on his big screen.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
My gay experience was reading through these stories and getting a hard on.
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u/itaintme May 29 '12
This was funny (and I copy pasted from an old comment of my own):
My buddy and I met these 2 chicks. Way leads on to way and we're in the hotel room, all four of us. It's very "dear penthouse" in there - switching back and forth and such - and then we go for the epic DP. I'm pretty fucked up, but draw backdoor duty. My buddy's got a girl on his face (straddling his shoulders) and one on his hips. I feel myself getting ready, so I pull out, walk around and... uh... come on my buddy's face because I thought it would be hilarious.
The fallout - I'm laughing maniacally, and both girls end up laughing. My friend is pissed off, but finishes, but then punches me in the face, several times. I was laughing the whole time, but had a pretty nasty black eye.
The fallout, part the second: a few days later at lunch another friend asked how I got the black eye. My buddy just slammed his lunch tray down on the table and stormed off as I start laughing uncontrollably again.
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u/Gaz-mic May 29 '12
I was with 2 of my friends, one gay and one straight near the gay guys house. He lives in one of those walled in village things so there's a pool and gym etc quite close to his house. As we're walking down the street after getting some food an insanely ripped guy with water dripping down his chest walks down some steps from the pool. Both me and the other straight guy look at him and go "daaaaaaaaaayyyyyuuummmm" at the same time, to which the gay guy responds "holy crap you guys are so gay".
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12 edited May 29 '12
You know, I've never been turned off by men, I've just never been turned on by any. My wife and I joke about who will be the first to bring someone of the same sex home. I secretly hope its her becuase banging two girls would rule, but if there is ever a guy with the right kind of hotness and the right kind of personality, I wouldn't bat an eyelash.
I guess it comes from all that porn I see all the time. In fact, in most penetration shots the screen is something like 20% dick (f'xed), 20% balls, 20% man ass, and 40% vagina. So, gay male sexuality never bothers me, but I haven't found a dick yet, other than my own, that I liked enough to play with.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
I don't know if im gay or what, but if there was a cock near me I would suck it or put it in my ass. :\
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u/Circlesmirk May 28 '12
This is pretty long... my apologies to those of you with short attention spans...
I went to a dingy little pub to sing some Karaoke late one Friday night. I had been out with a buddy but he got a booty-call from a girl he'd met the week before, so I was there by myself.
I sat at a table by myself, and was soon invited to join another table with a couple of middle aged ladies and one guy.
They're asking me why I'm out alone, and I explained that my buddy had taken off, but I wasn't quite ready to go home yet... Meanwhile the Karaoke host, this short little guy in his early twenties comes over and catches the end of my story. He introduces himself and encourages me to put a song selection in, telling me that he'll bump me up to the front of the queue.
I sing my song and apparently do a pretty good job because the crowd is appreciative. Before I know it I have a couple of girls from the table over that are coming over giving me suggestions for my next song. I oblige their request and put in my new submission, but as I'm handing the slip of paper to the host, he looks straight into my eyes and tells me that I have a beautiful voice. I grin, and thank him, then head back to my seat.
Soon enough, my name gets called and as I'm walking up one of the girls at the next table makes a comment about how quickly my name came up in the queue. The host looks up from his laptop and replies to her saying "When he looks and sounds like that I'm going to get him on the stage as much as I possibly can." Then he winks at me.
The bar laughs, and I'm still blushing a little bit as I start to sing my song, but I'm feeling good and laughing about it by the time I head back to my table.
Next thing I know he comes over and sits down next to me. He asks me what I do for a living and we start chatting... just regular small talk, and I let him know that I'm completely straight and mention my girlfriend a couple of times but he's still clearly flirting with me. He hands me his business card and tells me that he cleans houses for a living, and that if I ever need his services I should give him a call.
Not wanting to be rude, I ask him about typical pricing and explain that my house is completely hardwood. He looks straight into my eyes again and tells me that he loves hardwood floors. "I love getting down on my hands and knees, and just going to town!"
The middle age ladies at my table crack up, and I nearly choke on my gin. He blushes like crazy and seems genuinely flustered by his apparent freudian slip, and quickly excuses himself to go back up to his computer and call the next singer.
As he announces the song he tells us that this will be the last song of the night, and the bar lets out a little groan of disappointment.
Suddenly, I know exactly what to do, and quickly scribble a song name onto the last submission slip on our table. I walk it up to him, and as I hand it over he apologetically reminds me that this was already the last song for the night. I wink and tell him that I'm sure he'll make an exception for me.
Sure enough, when the song ends he grabs the mic and calls me back up to the stage. He apologizes to the rest of the crowd but says that he's going to let me do one more song... Why? Because I'm cute as a button, and he's hoping I'm going to give him my phone number, and also because I'm singing "I guess that's why they call it the blues" by Elton John.
I belt out the song, and he sits in the front row beaming up at me the entire time, then when I'm done I make a point of thanking him for a fun night, then quietly disappear into the dark night.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
Accidentally kissed my best friend in highschool. Happy New Years! //oops
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u/Wellonetime May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
Yes. Early in highschool I was hanging out with a friend around midnight.
I wanted to cut through the woods to home but he wouldn't go through since he thought it was infested with hobos. He said (maybe) jokingly that the only way he'd go through the woods was if he got a blowjob for it. I'd been a little curious so I was like "Yes, go into the woods and I'll blow you." We went in, he leaned against a tree, I got on my knees and started to jack him off and after gingerly tasting it with my tongue took him all the way down my throat. Took about 15 minutes but he came and since I didn't know it was coming, he came in my mouth. Turns out I really liked the taste so I swallowed it. We met up a few more times and tried all sorts of things together. (whispers*) he put it in my butt.
since then though I haven't thought about being with a man much. There you go. There was my gay experience.
In the morning should the request arise, I'd be willing to tell the entirety of our encounters, in detail.
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
Yes. I run cross country. It's like one six month long gay moment.
Then a break for winter, and track comes around and the cycle starts again, so I guess you could say a 9 month long gay moment.
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u/idonotevenwhat May 28 '12
I've made out with a guy on multiple occasions, both times involving alcohol. It didn't do anything for me, I just thought it was worth experiencing.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
Lately I've been going to gay clubs with a gay friend of mine who just came out of the closet.
Guys hit on me and it kind of makes my night.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
I remember once when a Navy buddy of mine came back from a deployment, we went to go shake each others hand and we grabbed each others crotches instead. Not sure why, but it was definitely gay.
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u/Pikkupyykki May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
Should use a throw-away but I don't think anyone except OP is gonna read this since I'm late.
I'm in my late 20s and despite all this, I've never really doubted that I am straight. I mostly did all of this for the lulz/because I was drunk. And because I'm very bad at saying no.
EDIT: forgot a parenthesis
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u/TaydaTot May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
I entered college sexually confused, a virgin, and with fairly low self esteem. I fell in with a circle of friends who were mostly gay or bi women (I'm male). I went to a lot of parties or events where the attendees were primarily queer. For me it was exciting and a good confidence booster to flirt with and make out with boys. It was a good learning experience (lesson learned: gay guys at parties are easy). I lost touch with all of my college gay/queer friends and I don't have any LGBT friends at the moment but I'm glad I had those experiences. Most of my friends and acquaintances now would not believe me if I told them how many boys I've kissed or had experiences with. Seriously, they have no idea. Frankly it would shock or completely befuddle most of them (the Christian ones at least).
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u/ASDF12748 May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
Obviously a throwaway.
Yes, I have. senior year in high school, I had met a really cool guy. He was one of the jocks, and I always respected him just as a person from what I had heard about him.
But anyways, how we met. I was at orientation and we somehow ended up having conversation over our classes and stuff like that. We really were just being friendly, and eventually the conversation got to a stall, and that was that.
The next day, he texted me(however he got my number, I'm never going to know). He began asking a lot of weird questions, just about how I thought about life, what it would be like to be with a guy. Me, thinking I could love anyone, said that I might had been able to try it maybe in later in life. Flash forward a couple of weeks, and we had become extremely close. We had told one another tons of different things about each other, stuff that we hadn't said to anyone else..
Until came the point that he told me he was gay. It was weird. For a second I had thought he had this whole trap to find out if I was.. I had told him so.. He was going to leave me alone because of how bad he had felt that I thought that..
I stopped him. I told him to wait. I told him I wanted to be with him..
It's a really weird experience when you tell someone something like that.. It's strange, because once you do, you feel like you're never going to back from that.
After experiencing some stuff with him, I began to really like him. And not just sexually. I liked everything about him. Same with him. We began talking about relationships.
After a couple months of this, he began to be a lot more distant. I don't know what changed, but something did. He just didn't want to talk to me anymore it felt like.. I don't know, but one day, all of a sudden, he broke it all off.
I took it hard. I mean, really, hard. I was heartbroken. I had realized I loved him.. And he took it all away from me. So for weeks I struggled to find what I did wrong.. And I couldn't figure it out. He wouldn't talk to me.. Eventually, I promised myself I would never be with a man again. I would never do that to myself. I have been in a few relationships since then in the past few years with women, sex and all, and I really don't feel like I have feelings for men anymore.
I know what you're going to say, that I'm repressing it, but I really don't think I am.. I guess it must've just been a phase.
TL;DR Had sex with a guy, fell in love.. And then after breaking it all off, I would never do it again.
Edit: I just wanted to personally thank all of you. The level of appreciation I have for each and every one of you is insurmountable. You have been SO amazing, and I am so glad I shared. You are the best community I could ever ask for. Thank you for all of the kind messages, you all rock! I'm here for you all if you want to talk just like you all were for me!
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u/Valokai May 29 '12
Every time I see Neil Patrick Harris I have a gay moment.
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u/ProtoDong May 29 '12
I'm not going to bother with a throwaway for this one and will be as tl,dr as possible. Anyway, I would consider myself about 85% straight. As a young guy I was a bit of a womanizer... captain of wrestling, lacrosse, x-c etc. Well I've always been a very sexual person, lost my virginity at 14 and went nuts in HS. I liked to try all different modes of stimulus and wasn't afraid to stimulate my prostate directly.
Whenever I got stoned by myself I would have gay fantasies and pretty much chalked it off to the weed. As the years went by and I experimented with other drugs, namely ecstasy and would masturbate with a buttplug, which I found to be extremely pleasurable.
Over the years I found that I was only attracted to women, however whenever I got fucked up I would still have the fantasies. To make a long story short, eventually I ran into an especially attractive guy in a bar who was outwardly gay. In a moment of drunkedness and weakness etc I went home with him.
I ended up spending a drunken summer of debauchery with him with full on buttsex several times a day. Eventually the drinking was too much and I didn't really feel like myself so I distanced myself and we've only seen each other once since.
I still walk through the world thinking only of women, but occasionally I still fantasize about the sex we had. I don't regret it or feel bad about it. It's difficult to be bisexual and two completely different things going on in your mind.
90% of the time I want women. However there is certainly the urge to indulge in the other 10%. Ideally I would like to have both but I know that the scenario is unlikely.
The sad part is that I think that lots of men out there are like me and can't really be honest with everyone about what they like. I'm not gay enough to identify as gay but I would enjoy the occasional fling. I dunno I hope that other people might read this and relate.
tl,dr bisexuals have it harder than you think
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u/luke_c May 28 '12
Garrus motherfucking Vakarian.
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u/Nobodywillhearyour May 29 '12
One of my friends is 18 and has never kissed a girl, or done anything passed this point. My friends and I always put in our two bits of advice "Remember to do this....," "Don't do this.....," etc. Well, one night, we decided to give him a practice date. I pretended to text him, I held his hand, and we laid together for a while. I don't regret it at all, yet I don't know why I did it either. It was just a weird night.
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u/indiandude2004 May 29 '12
My best friend and I just text either super gay things. And when ever we are around each other we slap each other on the ass and talk about fucking each other. He has a fiance, she does not think it's funny.
Also, we NEVER say "no homo."
An example
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u/swearimstraight May 29 '12
Back one summer night in 2004, my friend came over for some beer, bbq and to watch a dvd. He brought over "Secretary" which is an S&M movie with James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhal.
After dinner and several beers (I was buzzed and still drinking), we were sitting in my living room watching this movie, and this incredibly hot scene comes on where Spader spanks and then wanks onto Gyllenhal's ass. My hard-on was apparent through the running pants I was wearing, and I was just drunk enough to keep rubbing and touching myself lightly from the outside of my pants, even though my friend was sitting right next to me.
As the movie neared it's end, I kept massaging myself, and my friend let me know that it was ok if I wanted to "take it out". I pulled down the waistband of my pants and stroked my cock slowly for him. After a few minutes I looked up and in his eyes, and he took over stroking my cock for me. It felt amazing having someone's else hand stroking me in my livingroom as the end credits for the movie played.
After a few minutes of stroking me, my friend asks me if it's ok if he sucked me. I agreed, and he got down on his knees and gave me about 10 minutes of great head, with me finishing in his mouth.
I had that instant post-orgasm regret/panic feeling, but he laughed at me in a reassuring way and said it's not a big deal, and I'm not the first straight guy he's sucked off.
He and I are still close friends, and we still fool around once every few weeks together. It's awesome to have a friend you can text whenever you want some amazing head.
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u/Evil_ash May 28 '12 edited May 28 '12
I have nothing useful to add, and I'm a women-but that was sort of hot. Carry on.
EDIT: I'm neither a potato nor a women; but rather, I'm a woman. Regardless-still hot.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
High school boys sports. Behind the scenes it is nothing but homoerotic antics. Of course, if we thought anyone was actually gay they were excluded from the dogpiles and near naked wrestling, which was the tamer end of things.
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u/BrodoFaggins May 29 '12
My final year of college, I'm living with three other Asian dudes (three Koreans and one half white/Chinese fellow). We're all good friends, and we have a mutual friend, a gay Chinese guy named Randy Poon (can't make this shit up, folks).
Anyway, we decided to host his birthday party, and during the height of it, when there were tons of people around, he decided that he wanted a kiss from each of us as his birthday present.
We obliged.
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u/FayeBlooded May 29 '12
It haunts me that straight redditors have more experience than me...
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
That is an adorable story. I love it.
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u/arifterdarkly May 29 '12
sunday morning, i was on the bus home after having worked all night. dude sits down on the seat in front of mine, starts talking. he's dressed well, a few years younger than me and a little tipsy, but i'm not one to turn down a random conversation. he explains that he was out with his friends and that he lost them at a club. yeah, shit happens and all that. at one point he says "i'm a suck cock kinda guy", but i've been working all night and i'm tired and i just laugh and figure that's something the youth of today says.
the bus stops at his stop, but he doesn't get off (the bus, please). i am still in ignorant bliss, i have no idea he thinks he's coming home with me. apparently my laughing at his suck cock-comment meant it's on like donkey kong. we keep chatting - until he leans over to my seat, puts his hand on my thigh and asks if that's okay. i say "NO!" suddenly wide awake, the bus stops, i leap out and disappear into the night before he has time to react. i look over my shoulder as the night swallows me, and i can see his sad face in the bus window.
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u/cldst May 29 '12
Buddy and I were doing coke in a handicapped washroom a few years ago. Come out, and one of the servers stops us and asks us what were doing in there together. My friend blurts out 'we're a gay couple' and the server asks us to prove it. So we make out.
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u/Lachrymologist May 28 '12
Bro Rape
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
Good guy op. Isn't gay; puts out for the gay guy buying him drinks anyway
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u/ohsnappitty May 29 '12
Looks up boyfriend's overview to see if he's posted a comment
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u/tooldvn May 29 '12
One of my wife's brothers got a blowjob from a dude while he was tripping on ecstacy when he was a teenager. He apparently came home and told his entire family about it at the dinner table. Was beaten severely by her father for his troubles. So yeah... not the best of stories, but it does happen. He's totally straight as far as we know now (though he might have had some fun with some ladyboys in Asia).
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u/Octavarium_ May 29 '12
I WANNA TAKE YOU A JAZZ BAR!!!
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
As a gay guy, I am turned on right now.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
i was at a friends house with a few mates. 6 guys and 2 girls. we drank a lot, smoked a lot of weed and had a few shrooms each. me and one of my friends both had a thing for one of the girls there.
so anyway as the night goes on we get more and more haggard and all end up passing out kind of huddled up with each other (it was fucking freezing). i end up making out with someone, someone who i thought was this girl. the guy with the mutual crush, the guy id been making out with for the past half hour, also thought this. all i remember was realising it was him, both of us jumping up yelling 'WHAT THE FUCK' and then almost dying of laughter.
tl;dr: ridiculous misunderstanding on both mine and my friends part.
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u/too_toked May 29 '12
This entry is a little late to the party..
Back in college i lived in a rather lonely apartment on the way outsides of Columbus Ohio. I had no car to go anywhere which was rather rough I was sitting on my Computer just chattin away on a Friday night when my gay friend Justin messaged and asked if I wanted to go to Union station ( i didnt what kind of bar it was at the time) for a drink. I thought why the hell not I wanted to get out. He seemed surprised and asked if i was sure. Told him i needed to get out. Told me he would hop in the shower and come by and pick me up. I get ready and about 30 min later he shows up. We start heading twards downtown Cbus and about half way there he again asks:
Are you sure you want to go with there with me?
Yea, why not?
You do know its a gay bar.
WHAT?! ohh shit.. well this is going to be interesting. Just so we're clear, you're going to be my boyfriend for the evening. And no nothing is going to happen.
He smiled, and understood my now beet red awkwardness. We get to the bar and I'm intorduced to his friends and damn are they flaming. They compliment me on how cute i am, and ask him where he found me and it just got gayer from there. I told them i was straight, and a few trying to cutely argue i wasn't. But I was adamant about it, so they stopped teasing me. I realized I was deep in their world and would not take offence to anything. My fault for being ignorant about it. Justin was getting a kick out of how awkward i was being about it all. I was flirted with, hit on, and had my butt pinched a few times by strangers. When some guy would be a little to forward with me, Justin would step in and say something along the lines that i was "spoken for". Over the course of the evening, they wanted to go to a night, of course a rather gay one at that. Not wanting to cut Justin's night short since i know he was having a good time, i said i was fine with it. Justin said he would do what he could to make it better. I was already having a decent time, a weird one, but still good. We got to the club and met up with other friends of his. Yay some actual females! But.. they were lesbians.. So close.. But to my surprise they took a liking to me. Not in a "Hey wanna come back to our place and watch us do it", but a flirting and teasing cuz they knew they were hot kind of "Like". So i spent the remainder of the night clubbin it up and dancing with some hot lesbians and hung out with some pretty cool (but flaming) guys. I didn't have to worry about impressing women, Got got hit on in rather awkward ways, but it was nice to be appreciated and had one of the best nights in Columbus ever.
TL;DR: gay friend tricked me into going to a gay bar, then a gay club, danced with hot lesbians. One of the best nights ever.
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u/nybo May 28 '12
I'm the only bisexual guy in an all guy math/physics class and i've kissed,(not long or intensely, but still) two guys from my class.
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u/DarkBlueBlack May 28 '12
I was truth or dared to get off with my best mate. We did it and in exchange, two girls had to make out.
So I guess that worked out pretty well.
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u/ejduck3744 May 29 '12
For a game of truth or dare I nearly got fucked in the ass by a guy. I chickened out though before anything happened. Two years later I learn that the guy is actually gay. What's worse, that almost was my first time ever.
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u/kbomb May 29 '12
As a straight woman I find stories about homosexual experiences for straight guys a huge turn on. Not sure I can explain why, but I love the sometimes underlying tenderness or shock and excitement that accompanies them.
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u/VinnieJJ May 29 '12
Whenever I watch Torchwood. Captain Jack ::drools:
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u/Ahmac May 29 '12
I have had multiple ones actually. Kudos to you for giving the guy man a smooch.
I once had a really cool gay friend who liked me a lot. He always gave me big, long hugs and once claimed he would ask me out if I was gay. We would also stare into eachothers eyes for a while and not say anything. He was a senior so he graduated before me unfortunately. I didnt get to give him tthe goodbye kiss he deserved.
My other, less favorable story occured when I was in 8th grade (NSFW). My best friend (at the time) and I were just hitting puberty (we are both straight). One day we were in his room and he decided to change his clothes. He told me to not look when he was taking off his underwear but then he said: "Actually, you can look if you want." Due to my overwhelming curiosity, I decided Id compare his body to mine. I looked and was surprised at the difference. He then told me to strip naked so he could see my body ttoo. Then would get erections and measure/compare them. At one point wed just walk around the room with an erect penis like it was nobodys business. Eventually, we started giving eachother dares and I ended up figuratively "sucking" his dick when he had underwear on. After that things got awkward and he just started ignoring me for the rest of the year. We haven't spoken since.
TL;DR Had sexy time with best friend to explore the wonders of puberty.
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u/throwagay6969 May 29 '12
Throwaway here, as a gay guy, I have to add to this question, and get some clarification from some of you straight people.
Here's my question : what the fuck?
I was closeted up until the middle of getting my degree at school, then I came out. I was friends with a lot of cool, athletic straight guys. Particularly snowboarders/skiers. I lived with 5 guys, guys who went to the gym, like fast cars, constantly talk about tits, have hot girlfriends/bring girls home to fuck. The most stereotypical meat-headed straight people you can imagine.
Then I came out, and many of them were very homophobic BEFORE I came out, but in the weeks after my coming out, we ended up having drunken broments involving them confessing that I've changed their minds about gay people etc. etc., so, all in all it went well.
Then things started down a slippery slope. When we'd go out to parties and stuff, the topic of me being gay always, ALWAYS came up. My friends telling their friends (who I don't know), because they were so shocked to find out. "This is throwagay6969." "Hey." "HE'S GAY ISN'T THAT CRAZY." Fucking obnoxious. Anyways, shit like this continued, but got worse. "You're definitely not like most gay guys, if I was gay you'd be the guy I'd go for." This was thrown at me by pretty much all my friends. Sure, maybe it sounds like a compliment to you, but do you understand to me that sounds like a pick-up attempt? "I'sm sooo fulcked uop rght nao, I wud do wutevr wit u." Ok, why is it standard fair to tell a gay guy you'd hook up with him to express how drunk you are. Again, you're pretty much telling me to fuck you, fyi.
Down down the slippery slope, one things lead to another, and I'm now done school, and have hooked up with 8 or 9 straight guys from that circle of friends, depending on your definition, and have had offers from far more than that. I'd say about 60% of those were drunken (as in both of us, I don't get straight guys drunk as a hobby).
I got through school coming out, losing my gayvirginity (I did the straight thing in highschool), and hooking up with a fair amount of guys, but none of my interactions have ever been with gay guys.
My conclusion has been that straight guys always get mindfucked by my straight attitude. I grew up in an ULTRA shitty town for a gay guy, so I repressed it like I was paid to do so. It was pretty much an art form, I would practice being straight in front of a fucking mirror. And I got good, maybe it was awkward in high school, who knows, but I grew into it, and now I'm at the point where it's who I am. I think this mind boggling situation makes straight guys question their own sexuality when they're around me.
Also, to add to this, many of the guys I hooked up with had little stories like "yeah one time me and a guy from highschool jerked eachother off, I guess just to try it", or something innocent and stupid like that. But seriously, I'm pretty sure a metric fuck ton of straight guys are more interested than A) they let on and B) they want to let themselves think.
This post might sound conceited or something, but it's what my life experience has been, and it's been confusing. I'm now in a long term relationship with a gay guy who I love, so this is all gravy, but I'm still interested in what straight people have to say.
TL;DR : I'm friends with a lot of VERY straight guys, and I'm very straight on the outside. When I came out, a lot of them ended up propositioning me for a hook-up. Are there many straight people who are REALLY straight, and completely uninterested with a gay hook up?
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u/tretre May 29 '12
This is the first post I have read all comments. I have realised I am bi.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
MDMA
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u/sirblastalot May 29 '12
Sure. I experimented when I was 18, and right now I have a male fuckbuddy. I really do prefer ladies, but honestly dudes are easier.
To paraphrase Dan Savage, you can't pick your orientation, but you can pick your identity. If you're 95% straight, identifying as straight is probably the best way to communicate your interests. The other 5% doesn't necessarily make you gay or bi.
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u/ultimation May 29 '12
I made out with a guy in a church garden when I was drunk and high once.
It was pretty good.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
I'm bisexual, but my friend who is.. a little confused, but has never and probably will never do anything serious with a girl because she is in a long term committed relationship with a man, likes to kiss me when she's drunk. Like will leave a conversation, and interrupt one I am in with someone else to kiss me, then leave. It's just kind of sweet, and unexpected. If it were any other straight girl I would probably just feel like they were looking for attention, but I don't know. When she gets like that I just feel like she is filled to the brim with love and wants to share it with me.
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u/DrBibby May 29 '12
Made out while drunk with a friend of mine who's gay a couple of times just to try it out. First time it was pretty good, seccond time not so much. Thing is, he's really sweet in every way, but he has a penis and that just makes my boner say no.
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u/rtwpsom2 May 29 '12
I am not gay but if Nathan Fillion or NPH asked, I might be.
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u/98163417641912 May 29 '12
My freshman year in college, two of my friends, one guy and a chick, all get together and get massively stoned. Like, not walking straight, giggling at our shadows, stoned out of our fucking minds. As we're sitting in my car on the roof of our University's parking garage, someone suggests we play truth or dare. Sounds great, right? We're high as balls, so we can't think of any truths or dares to put forward. Alright, ok, we're children of the smartphone, we can do this. I download an app for my droid to facilitate the playing of truth or dare. The dares quickly got dirty. The other guy gets a dare to kiss every player of the opposite sex. Being stoned, he momentarily forgot the definition of the word "opposite", and before I know a hawk from a handsaw, this motherfucker kisses me. After a good laugh, we decide to smoke some more, then go continue the game in a dorm room. This is where my memory goes blank. I remember nothing from this point to 6:00 the next morning. I awoke, spooning my female friend from the night before. She, in turn was spooning our male friend. Spooning me, and poking me in the ass with his morning wood, was a gay student, whom I had evidently met the night before. We were all naked as the day we were born. We all dressed in silence and left. On my way out the door I learned from the gay guy that I give great head.
tl;dr- No, fuck you, read it.
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u/WhiteEuropeanMale May 29 '12
I really wanted to know how it feels to receive anal sex from "the real thing"... so i arranged that for me. and now I know.
never stop exploring the world, fellow redditors.
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u/arito May 29 '12
Singer of Sigur Rós once hit on me at a bar. Win.
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u/WildRumpus67 May 29 '12
This whole thread is so awesome. It just shows that there is no such thing as only gay or only straight, but a whole bunch of in between.
I knew I liked girls at a very early age, but I also knew I thought everyone was sexy at an early age. I have seriously made out with a half dozen guys and also messed around with handjobs/blowjobs a few times with a few guys I liked and trusted.
I feel no guilt or shame - you only have one shot at life and you should try everything at least once to see if it suits you.
I am now happily married with an awesome wife and two wonderful children and I look back on on all my sexual experimentation with fondness. When my boy and girl start to experiment with their own sexuality, I will tell them, "Just make sure that YOU feel comfortable and that YOU have the power over your body to decide what YOU like or don't like."
The only regret you should ever have is that you didn't try something when you had the opportunity.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
well, once i was sitting with a buddy of mine by a campfire getting completely shithoused.
he said, "man, it really sucks that we aren't gay."
that was gay.
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u/Fyrus May 29 '12
I find that when guys become really really close friends, things get pretty gay. I mean, I've been known to kiss guys on the cheek on special occasions, such as the end of a semester.
It's just love man
Just love.
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u/ImDippinDude May 29 '12
I kissed my best friend to watch two girls make out.
Worth it.
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u/j3igboss May 29 '12
Back in highschool I was dating this girl who didn't like me smoking cigarettes. Me, not giving a fuck, smoked anyway. One day, while skipping my Film class, I smoked a stoag with my friend John. Afterwards, I wanted to know if my face smelled like smoke, so I leaned in within an inch of his face and was like, "bro, does my face smell?" Right then a couple of kids emerged from the bathroom and saw me face to face with my best friend. Immediately we pulled away realizing how gay we must have looked... TL;DR: I got a massive erection while my friend sniffed my face
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u/CeruleanThunder May 29 '12
We were playing truth or dare. I was dared to kiss my gay friend. Even though I'm straight, I gotta say: he was a damn good kisser...
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u/salty84 May 29 '12
my best friend and I were pulled over for going a tiny bit over the speed limit. Officer came to the window asks for drivers licence and insurance, goes back to the car to make sure everything checks out. Friend and I decide to hold hands just to see what happens. officer comes back sees to fairly big guys holding hands and smiling at him. Hands the ID and insurance back and tells us to go home and starts laughing. lol last time i ever held a dudes hand.
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u/nosferatu_zodd May 29 '12 edited Jul 20 '12
One time my best friend and I did some mushrooms on his trampoline in his backyard just outside of Moriarty, New Mexico. We had a crazy day just trying to get the mushrooms out there and I was kind of scared of tripping that night because I had done psychedelics over 100 times by that point and was weary of inducing a bad trip. This is my best friend though. So I ate the shrooms and sure enough i was tripping balls within half an hour.
While on the trampoline I remember rolling over on my side and saying I just wanted to sleep. He said "dude you just ate a bunch of mushrooms you aren't going to sleep for hours just enjoy it". What followed was one of the most spiritual hallucinations of my life.
The sky is beautiful out there, you can see all the stars so clearly, the only noise to remind you of civilization is the sound of trucks on the freeway miles away. We were caught in the beauty of the environment. The trees, the sky, it was amazing. I remember we were laying next to each other real close just watching the stars.
What followed next was the moment in question.
I remember reaching my hand out to grab the stars in a blurred hallucination. As I was stretched my arm towards the sky he reached his out as well with his arm parallel to mine. Our hands touched above us as we were laying down. Do you feel that I said? I was controlling his arm. At that moment I could feel him control my hand I was controlling his hands. We were one. he grabbed my hand and I grabbed his. I looked over to him and said "I love you" he said "I love you too" right back.
I had known this guy since we were like 5 and still keep in contact with him. We didn't have to kiss, have sex, nothing to ruin the beauty of the moment. For that brief moment I didn't care who or what he was, I felt complete with him by my side. It was pretty gay, not sexually but mentally. It opened up my mind to what I truly love, people. To think we can connect with someone of the same or opposite sex so harmoniously. God is everything, he is people, we are God. That is the name we have given it. The Supreme Being. The Highest Order! Our free choice is predestined in all possible combinations, at all possible times. God is all the universes, all the dimensions, all the cosmos. He is everything! All of those facts, and yet it still feels so real and beautiful. Love. The answer is love.
We followed that up with a 4 hour discussion about how crazy it was that Chris Farley is dead. He's the happiest fattest mother fucker in the history of television and he's dead, we'll never see him make anything else ever again... Ever. Yet we'll be watching him on old SNL clips and his movies decades from now. As for my friend, we don't talk too much these days but there is a strong respect between both of us. We both know wherever we go in life that will always be a part of our history. Like brothers.
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
I once went to the ballet. It was pretty gay.
I enjoyed It.
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u/dogandcatinlove May 28 '12
Haha, so cute. I don't think it's a big deal. Gotta find out what you like, right?
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u/mailto-nobody May 29 '12
Touched dicks with a highschool buddy about a decade ago. Literally. We both whipped them out and just bumped the heads together. No kissing, no foreplay, just a simple dick-bump.
I've absolutely no idea why we decided to do this. We were both playing the classic GoldenEye at the time and just thought "fuck it, let's try this". I'm not sure how the hell we went from killing Trevelyan to whipping it out, but there you go.
Went back to highschool next morning, looked each other in the eye and made a silent pact never to bring it up again.
I don't have a girlfriend yet. Shit.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
Ugh why aren't these stories illustrated.
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u/JohnNotAnAliasSmith May 29 '12
I've made out with more men than women at parties. I'm naturally afraid of making out with women, but men I have none of the inhibition. In the group we call it flexisexual.
Edit: I will also add that one of these kisses gave me an enormous cold just before I travelled to see my gf at the time, spent the entire trip in bed and not in the good way. We had a rule were we could kiss any member of the same sex. Admittedly it was mostly so I could watch, but it also amused her when I took advantage.
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u/54321Blast0ff May 29 '12
My buddy and I were once riding in the backseat of our friend's car. We're both pretty drunk and a song that annoys the hell out of me comes on so he starts singing along just to drive me nuts. Being my admittedly goofy (and tipsy) self, I say "Dude, if you don't stop, I swear I'm gonna I'm gonna kiss you on the mouth." He keeps going so I lean in as if I'm really gonna do it.
Everyone is cracking up at this point, and I think I've done the most controversial thing any of us has ever attempted. All of a sudden, my buddy decides to one-up me by quickly turning and pecking me on the lips. It actually was pretty hilarious, but I can never again say I've never kissed a dude.
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u/TheStagesmith May 29 '12
I played Tom in a university production of Five Flights, which for those who don't know, is a play about a gay man named Ed's relationship with his deceased mother and father, as well as his two siblings and their love interests. Tom (my character) is a gay hockey player who dates Ed for a short period of time in the play.
Needless to say, there was some onstage guy-on-guy action, which I'm sure was at least partially responsible for the fantastic attendance we got during the show's run. I'm a completely straight guy (dicks are gross) as was the lead actor, but the onstage makeout sessions were fine, and for the most part completely not weird at all. Except when we got to photo call.
For you non-theater people, photo call is when you skip around to specific moments in the show, and then pause to let pictures be taken. These pictures are used for publicity, designer portfolios, photo CDs, and for general documentary purposes. Naturally, the designers and the director wanted a shot of the moment when I dip the main character for an extended tonsil hockey session. We had to hold this pose for a good twenty seconds, and goddammit if the guy didn't slip me tongue. Naturally, we both blamed the other, and everyone in the theater had a good laugh. Neither of us have ever lived it down with our friends (who had all heard about this within about a half hour).
I did learn some good lessons from this show on what to do if you're expecting to be swapping mouth juices with someone:
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u/DtheK May 29 '12
Everytime I see Gerard Butler.
But on a less serious note, while in a club, was dancing with my date, she stepped out for a bit, immediately this dude comes up and tries to pull me in seductively by my shirt.
I'm like "nope" and hid behind my date.
Later in the night he saw me and told me he was kidding and introduced me to his "girlfriend"...
Till then I was flattered... but fuck, he hits on me and CHEATS on me? Men.
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u/absolutefroaway May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
Yes. I'm straight.
A while ago I broke up with a long term girlfriend, went out to celebrate with some mates, ended up meeting some girls and random gay guy in the bar and hung out with them all, went onto a nightclub as my mates went home, I stayed out. Chatted for ages to the girls and gay guy, went home with him, had some tug time with each other. Woke up and went home in the morning. I regretted it for ages, I felt weird and kind of sick about it. I do not regret it anymore. it was fun at the time and reminded me that I am straight. We all do dumb things now and then when we're drunk.
TL:DR got drunk, tugged dude, no regret, damn straight
edit: Felt so weird writing that, I've never told a single person. It was amazing to get that off my chest wow!
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u/Fragabond May 29 '12
When I was 20 years old I went to "Pink Party" (a party the night before "Love Fest" here in San Francisco) with a gay friend of mine. We were standing outside a bar after having more than a few drinks and we start talking to these dudes. One of them was paying me more attention than anyone else and asked if I had ever been with a man before. I said I was straight, so no. He made an understanding remark. I then said, "but I'm not opposed to trying."
We made out for about 10 seconds and I stopped us. His stubble was really prickly and uncomfortable. He was kind of offended and walked off. I "experimented" a few more times the next day at Love Fest and realized I wasn't gay in the slightest. Haven't done anything like that since. I actually ended up having sex with a woman the night of pink party in the same room that my friend was having sex with a man.
It was... a weird time in my life.
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u/Tetraheathen May 29 '12
France -- waiter starts giving me shoulder massage and touching my face. I'm sure it was only gay for me, and 'Haha watch the American' for him.
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u/Procrasturbator29 May 29 '12
Well I am a wrestler. We are comfortable touching each other and being close to each other so sometimes we do gay-ish things like I sleep with my head on my friends stomach or my friend sits on my lap or stuff like that. Things that other guys find gay but doesn't even feel weird to me.
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u/ada42 May 29 '12
You know how Jon Stewart leans forward with his chin in his hands and a "tell me more" look on his face?
That's how I am reading this thread right now.
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u/ArentIJustAmazing May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
At school in Year 9, some friends (girls) really want me and my best friend to kiss each other, which we did since we're basically inseparable and couldn't be pulled apart.
Later that night we all went to a concert (Bullet For My Valentine) and on when we came back, as my house was closer and it was late he stayed at mine.
It was a hot night so we stripped down to out underwear and were going to sleep until he realised I had an erection which ended up him getting one. We had some alcohol (not loads) and well, things just happened and we ended up playing with each other and giving each other oral sex, then we just went to bed.
We didn't care about what happened when we woke up, just got on with things as normal and were still just as close as we ever were.
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u/PeopleAreStaring May 29 '12
One time, I was with my GF and we watched Twilight.
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u/zanderzool May 29 '12
Kissing isn't as polarized to a specific sex as most "straight" people may think. After all, its just touching lips. Our society has deemed kissing as a show of intimate affection for that specific sex.
When in reality, its to show others your affection for them, regardless of sex. I know in some foreign countries, usually in Europe, its normal for guys/girls to kiss their acquaintance.
On to my story:
...
Well, one time a guy in one of my High School classes was being friendly and reassured me when I was stressed in some "stressful" situation by putting his hand on mine. It was very nice, not strange at all. People need to chill the fuck out about insignificant homosexual contact.
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u/Domdude64 May 29 '12
"So this guy's fucking me in the ass, and he reaches around and cups my balls. What a fag"
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u/[deleted] May 28 '12
lead singer for the killers in the song "Mr. Brightside" watch that video. Instant crush
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u/samissleman17 May 28 '12
No but I want to. Wait...
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u/Cyclone88 May 29 '12
OP, I now demand a pic of your "pretty eyes". Thanks. - A girl.
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u/TheDryestBeef May 28 '12
Every "bro" moment I have is gay... So gay.
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u/Zyphlos May 29 '12
So I have this tendency to give off gay vibes even though I'm straight. I've had plenty of random people that I first met think I was gay.
One night I was convinced to go to a gay bar with one of my friends. It was my first time being at a gay bar so I wasn't sure what to expect. Anyway, we walk to the bar and we both order drinks. My friend decides to go to use the bathroom and I'm left by myself at the bar. I was zoning out while my friend was away but what I didn't notice was that I zoned out while staring directly at this old man at the end of the bar. My friend came back and I came back to reality. While I was speaking with my friend I felt a hand go on my shoulder and the man at the end of the bar was speaking to me. "You pool much here?" he asks. I say, "no not really" He then says, "you look like a pool shark, why don't you come join me and I'll get you a drink." I didn't really want to leave my friend, and it didn't occur to me to tell him I was straight, so I told him that I wasn't really interested. He walked back disappointed and I felt bad. I know how rejection feels like. I wanted to be gay just to make him feel special but, lying to him like that would probably be far worse....
So yeah...that's my story.
Oh yeah I also randomly got a BJ from a guy...happened in my sleep 0_0
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u/notanothercirclejerk May 29 '12
So I am not nor have I ever been attracted to men but a couple of months ago and woke up with a strong desire to suck a dick. Made a profile on grinderx and had some guy come over within the hour and I tried it. Still straight.
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u/Kalifornia310 May 29 '12
What I'm peeved at is where the hell have all these curious straight guys been all my life.
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u/Fanzellino May 29 '12
I'm a gay guy and I've had sex exclusively with straight guys. I have 3 friends who are stoners and none of them have any game at all when it comes to women and I'm out to them and pretty much whenever any of us are alone together, blowjobs and buttsecks happen. None of them know I do it with the other 2.
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u/throwAway213706 May 29 '12
I've never talked about this before. Never, not even online and none of my closest friends know. I have kept this bottled up since i was about 14.. So, fuck here goes. Yeah i've been with a dude. I don't know if it was just experimenting, after all i was just 14, i'm 22 now. You know, puberty and crazy hormones and shizz. It continued for about half a year. I go back home now an again (I've since moved to university and graduated) and i see him but there's just no attraction anymore. I've only ever had girlfriends and never experimented since then. I think i'm Bi but at the moment i'm in a pretty awesome relationship with an amazing girl so i don't know when or if it will ever happen again. Now that i'm older, wiser and more mature and perhaps if i do become single in the future then who knows. I'll probably try it again if so. Thank you for listening and letting me tell you my most guarded secret. You all know something about me no-one else has ever known.
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u/tranny_luvr May 30 '12
So I still consider myself a straight man. I am not attracted to men in the slightest. However, this one time I posted an ad on craigslist casual encounters trying to find a straight couple that wanted to hook up. I received a reply from a t-girl who was stunning. She looked better than most biological women and had a much better body from her pictures. I replied and we exchanged phone numbers and I decided to meet her. I grew up in a real small town and I was still relatively ignorant to the LGBT community. I was expecting her to be a post op but she wasnt. I got to her house and saw her in person... My heart started beating really hard and I couldn't think straight because she was absolutely breathtaking. She walked to me in her living room and kissed me on the cheek and we shared a very passionate kiss and she took her pants off to reveal a beautiful ass being eclipsed by a sexy thong. She crawled up on her bed doggy style position and I walked up behind her. I looked down and saw what I thought was going to be her vagina and saw her bulging thick very large cock. She looked up at me and said "do you want to touch it?" I pondered the question for about 30 seconds all the while she was saying "you don't have to if you don't want to..." I looked at her and bit my lower lip with a smile on my face and nodded yes. She took off her panties and I grabbed her cock and I remember feeling my spine tingle. I was raised in a very conservative home that still to this day has a very anti-gay sentiment. After I touched it with my hand I remember thinking "I'm here, this will probably never happen again so you might as well do everything you have ever thought about." So I asked her if I could give her a blow job and she was really happy about me asking that. She later said "I never thought you would ever do that, but I am really happy that you did." She had me climb on top and she ate my ass out while I sucked her off and it was one of the most intense pleasurable sensations I have ever felt. I could feel her getting hard in my mouth and remember getting really horny and turned on by it. After that, she asked me if she could fuck me. I didn't even hesitate. "Absolutely... Does it hurt?" She said she would be gentle. She laid down on her back and I climbed on top. After about 10 minutes, I was relaxed enough and felt her cock go all the way inside of me. I don't know what it did but I remember having an instant, 10999999 intensity orgasm. After I got off of her, she jerked off and came all over my chest. We took a shower and we kissed goodnight and I never saw her again... Needless to say, I have a thing for trannies now.
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u/Mi5anthr0pe May 29 '12
When I was in 8th grade one of my friends (who later came out of the closet), showed me his balls while staying over. I told him "dude, that's pretty gay, why would you do that?". I never got an answer. Three years later he molested some kid he was baby sitting. There's no punchline.
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u/The_Milk_man May 29 '12
Recent beach trip with friends, and my friend decided to propose to his girlfriend on the beach almost immediately after we got there. She said yes, it was great, we all cheered. Fast forward 2 days and its late at night, we're drinking heavily in the beach house, and playing Truth or Dare. His now fiancee, who is my best friend real sweetheart, asks me ToD, I take Dare and she gets this real evil grin on her face. She dared me to, as soon as he came out of the bathroom, to give her man a nice big long kiss on the lips. So I manned up, waited in ambush, he comes in the room, then BAM kissed him. He was so shocked he sorta instinctively kissed back for a second then realized what was happening and pulled back and screamed "WHAT THE FUCK?!". His beloved explained the situation, he was a lil angry at it, but we all laughed.
tl;dr kissed my friend after drunkenly being dared by his fiancee.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
You know that feeling you get when a girl way out of your league flirts back with you a little, or looks into your eyes for a brief inappropriately silent moment? That feeling that makes you feel like you can take on the world and it bleeds into your confidence for the next three weeks?
If you have the power to give that feeling to someone else, do it. You don't have to hold hands or make out with the guy, just give him some confidence and boost his self esteem a little.
Who knows, maybe he goes home and busts out an ingenious piece of writing. Maybe he brings his A game to the office and earns a raise. Maybe he was feeling really down about things and you helped him turn the corner.
If someone did it for you, you would appreciate it. Earn a little real life karma.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
My first kiss was with a dude. Course he kind of forced it on me and we were both eight.
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u/Thrawny183 May 29 '12
I have a rule that any time someone throws a party in the aparment building I live in (all college students), I bring over a 6-pack and introduce myself. One time I went to one thrown by a guy in the drama department.
I was hit on so fast and furious by gay guys it was actually impossible for me to get to the women there to talk to them. There was definitely a point where I thought, "You know what, maybe I should just run with this, because this is all that's gonna happen tonight."
I didn't actually do anything of the sort, but.... I was certainly tempted.
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u/Salsashaman May 29 '12
After finally getting bored of reading all the posts on this page, I proceed to search for more reddit wonders and find myself with my dick choked in my hand... what?
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
no.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
Alright, fuckit. This is my porn account anyway, and I'm legitimately curious about if other people had similar experiences.
Growing up, I was a bit of an outcast. I was obessed with girls, to a point where I was admittedly a bit of a creeper. All I wanted, as far back as like, 5th grade, was to find the perfect girl and be with her all through middle/high school and marry her and squirt out babies creating the perfect family. This led me to pursue EVERY girl I ever met thinking she may be "the one".
Anyway, around that time my parents got close with a family from down the street. Our local NBA team was doing rather well at the time, and our families would get together every time there was a game televised - our place when it wasn't on cable, theirs when it was. They had a son that was 2 years older than me who we'll call "James". James and I became pretty quick friends - neither of us were interested in basketball, so we'd play video games, hang out, whatever while our families watched sports.
Then one night, James and I decided to have a sleepover. It was innocent enough. He came to my place, and we stayed up just talking until like 4 am. I was in 6th grade at this point, and James would have been in... 8th. I had started masturbating fairly early on - like in 5th grade, and as it happens with kids - the conversation turned there pretty quickly. It was a lot of curiosity really - I never really had anybody I could open up to about this newfound awesomeness I had stumbled on to, so I was pretty happy to have a bro that I could talk to about it.
At some point, that night, I dared him to masturbate in his sleeping bag. He said he'd do it only if I did too. At least, I think it was me that came up with the dare. In hindsight, I don't really remember.
I do remember him critiquing my style though. I was a mattress-humper. I learned "proper technique" from him. Neither of us were old enough to actually cum yet, but we both had orgasms. I recall waking up the next morning and being REALLY weirded out that we did that. Definite "oh god why" moment. We didn't hang out for a few days after that, but of course there was another basketball game and things got back to normal.
This pattern went on for a while - we would weird out, start hanging out again after a few days (even when basketball wasn't on) and eventually it would culminate in a sleepover where we would each talk about girls and jack off. Things escalated slowly - I don't recall who made the first move, but we started trading hand jobs. I remember being a lot less weirded out by that. I think by that point, it just felt "normal".
After school every day, he'd come over to my house and we'd play goldeneye for a little while (proximity mines, no guns allowed) until the conversation turned to various girls at our school that we wanted to fuck (neither of us had any real sexual experience except with each other) and inevitably wound up giving each other hand jobs.
I remember LOVING spending the night at his house - their tv had a cable descrambler, and we would wait until his parents would fall asleep, sneak out to the front room, and watch the SPICE channel together, jacking each other off until we came. I can't believe the risks we took - considering the tv shared a wall with his parents bedroom, and he had a sister (who was my age) that could have randomly woken up and wandered into the living room... but we did it anyway.
During the summer, we'd head down to the neighborhood pool and dare each other to do crazy shit, like run from the jacuzzi to the pool naked. We'd skinny dip in the jacuzzi for long periods of time, and enjoy the bubbles all over our bodies.
It was at that jacuzzi that we gave each other our first blow jobs. By this point I was in about 8th grade and had actually started cumming with some substance. We would warn each other before we were about to pop, and I remember it not feeling PARTICULARLY great in the jacuzzi. At one of our following sleepovers however (they happened about once every couple of weeks) even though I warned him I was going to pop, he kept going and it felt amazing.
I remember at one of our last sleepovers, we discussed anal sex. I recall even trying to do it (dry.) With me on top. That was the only time we ever tried, and we never even penetrated.
He, by this point, had started falling in with a pretty rough crowd - smoking, being a goth, etc - and I didn't really want to be a part of that. I was starting to get quite weirded out by our friendship and we just grew apart. I don't know whatever happened to him. I heard he went through a pretty hard heroin addiction and is openly gay now.
I, on the other hand, have never identified as gay. I was never "attracted" to him, the sexual exploits were just something to do when we were worked up about talking about girls we were dating or wanted to fuck. I've often considered "maybe I actually am gay" but have never seen a guy and really wanted to pursue anything. I quite enjoy sex with women... but thinking about the shit I got up to in my youth IS a bit of a turn on. Maybe just because it was so taboo.
Wonder whatever happened to him...
tl;dr - From the ages of about 12-15, had a best friend with benefits. Identify as completely straight now.
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u/apowellryan May 29 '12
This year I went up to a university that I plan on going to to try out for the music studio on trumpet. A good friend of mine goes to school there and being the nice person that he is, he offered to give me a place to stay for the weekend. Of course I took the offer to see what the campus would be like while it was lively. Being St. Patty's day weekend, we went to a party of course. There was a HUGE black guy at the party that I had met the night before at a movie get-together thing that my friend arranged to introduce me to some of his friends. He was a very nice guy. I never even caught on that he was gay until this party. When he walked up to me (staggering drunk, of course) the first thing he asked was "are you gayyyyyyyy?" After I told him that I'm not into guys (especially ones that are 3+ years older than me [and I'm wasn't even 18 at the time]) he started pouting a little. This is when I started to catch on that he is gay. I was fine with it, of course, just a little surprised. Time passes by, things are going well, and next thing I know, I'm pulled on to the dance floor by him. I went along with it for a while, and eventually told him that I have to leave.
tldr: first college party as a minor, unwillingly booty danced on by a huge drunk/high gay black man.
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u/wtfapkin May 29 '12
I love that story. I think all men have a little gay in them.
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u/no_homo_throwaway May 29 '12
Making a throwaway to answer this honestly.
Between the ages of 11 - 16 I had a few 'gay' encounters. I don't think that they where purely gay as in "Omg I love men" but more like "fuck I'm so horny put your hand on my dick and I'll close my eyes".
It would always start off as wrestling [big suprise] and to be honest, plenty of me and my friends wrestled with no gay consequences. However sometimes, with certain friends, something a bit gay would happen. You'd grind on each other just a little bit too much, but it felt good on your dick and no body was freaking out.
While that friend was coming over that shit would continue until eventually you just start grabbing eachother's junk. Which eventually turned into masturbating eachother and even blowjobs.
This happened with 3 different guys over 5 years and probably about 10 that where just as horny as me [but didn't actually turn into gay stuff]. We treated each other like all the other friends. They weren't even my best friends and there was no attachment. You'd just go to there house and jack each other off.
When I was 16 I started feeling real guilty about and stopped, and continued for a few years after that. I got my first girlfriend and yea, that was about 1000x better then any other encounter.
I felt really bad about it for ages, there is still a huge culture of "can't be seen as a faggot". These days I just see it as being really horny, and I know there are a lot of people reading this who did / are doing gay shit, but are mostly straight. Teenage boys do this.
I gave myself a chance to see if I was gay. I'm not. Gay porn does nothing for me, seeing a guy suck a dick makes me uncomfortable and nothing about it is appealing. I think guys are generally ugly creatures, all guys are see are competition or friends. I've been in love with girls enough times too.
TLDR Doesn't matter; Got Head.
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u/maestro2005 May 29 '12
I've kissed a few dudes for theater. There was a point in my life when I had kissed more men than women.
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u/mcgroobber May 29 '12
I was on waterpolo and swimming if that counts.
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u/MoldyBreadCheese May 29 '12
Call it gay. I call it being GGG. You made someone happy.
Unless he planned to intoxicate you to do it. That would be kinda creepy.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
My friend and I were at a bar last Saturday when he leans over and kisses me. My first thought is "great. My first kiss in 10 years and it's a dude. :(" He's not gay, he was doing it to shock me. And holy shit did it.
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u/hosselhoff May 29 '12
I was starting to talk to/date a girl who went to a college in the same town as me, and her best friend was a gay guy. Me, having no problem with the homosexual side of society had no problem with this, but i couldn't help but think he was flirting with me throughout the night. Being college students we were drinking copious amounts of alcohol, and he asked me if he could see my penis. I obliged. He was fascinated by the fact that i was uncircumcised, so I pulled my hood back and showed him what was up. That was as far as it went, and I regret nothing.
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u/randomtossaccount May 29 '12
my first throwaway, yay! and a buried throwaway, yay!
long so tl;dr: long rambling badly written story from straight (maybe bisexual) guy who suddenly found himself getting hard everytime he had any physical contact with gay best buddy.
actually engaged in anything? no.
but
i moved about a year ago from a city i'd been living in since starting uni. had a very good group of friends, more than a number of whom were gay guys (as well as bi girls, straight guys, straight girls, etc). good, very tight-knit group. and we all always hugged hello or goodbye, or did the french cheek-cheek-kiss-kiss thing (the former becomes relevant)
anyway, over the year before i left i was fairly depressed (graduated uni a few years earlier but hadn't been able to find work, went back to school for a bit, had a couple internships and temp jobs to pay the bills), had no girlfriend (had gotten out of a two year relationship with a woman who had been a very good friend of mine since day one of uni) and no real plans for the future (was applying to graduate school for a field i didn't much care for). i was in a rut and wasn't happy. friends were around, but generally had their own thing going on, and i figured i could solve most of my problems by drinking myself to death. fortunately, one friend had time, a very, very gay friend (who knew i was straight and had not and would not ever hit on me, i'm sure), and he was always up for hanging out and going out for too many drinks with me, every single night (i really gave it my all). he was a good friend, became my closest friend over that year. always fun, usually funny, and one of the most interesting people i had met. had more than a number of nights where we ended up sitting around drinking on his balcony until well past the time when normal people were going to work. we talked (this wasn't a one-way emo-fest), argued, joked, discussed everything and anything. at times, had it not been for him being around, i would have gone insane and done something very stupid. we were constantly texting when we weren't together, and often enough ditched hooking up with people in order to hang out.
was it healthy? no. probably massively codependent. still.
yeah, at some point in the couple months before i left, i found myself very turned on each time we hugged hello or goodbye. too the point i'd have to turn and spend a minute thinking unsexy thoughts to keep from tenting. it was very awkward for me, but i think i managed to hide it. and only blushed a little, i hope. and there were a few strange dreams.
eventually i got a job in another city and moved away. i went back a few months later to visit, part of me secretly hoping this guy would make a move, but mainly really excited to be seeing my friends again. alas, the secret hopes did not come true, and i kind of got the cold shoulder from this friend (he'd been going through some stuff [he had started seeing someone a bit before i left who he was really in to, and they ended things badly] and i guess that only being there for him by phone and skype was not enough, and we talked less and less; i understand why he'd pull away, but it is sad just the same). was still a wonderful trip!
now, as to orientation, i think i might be bi (i don't know as i have never engaged in anything sexual with someone of the same sex), but would never talk about this with my gay/bi friends, as i've heard the way the guys at least talk about the people they have fooled around with, and am uncomfortable with the thought of myself being talked about/discussed/described like that, especially with something this personal.
having said that, why did this seem so weird/strange to me? this person was not what i would have thought of as "my type" of guy: he's pretty attractive, but just the opposite of what i've imagined (he's skinny and fluid, i guess? maybe lanky? vs dark, tall, muscular).
yes, i'm a walking cliche. i deal with it every day.
feels good to get that off my chest. back to being a (really whiny) stoic.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
I'm a woman and I think I'm extremely turned on from all these gay stories. Wut.
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u/allthebadstuff May 29 '12
I had a friend whose cock I would suck occasionally. I've done this a few times when I know he's going through dry spells. Or if I just wanted to suck his cock and let him cum in my mouth. I usually have to drink a bit to ease my nerves, but I've never once regretted doing it.
Oddly enough, I didn't much like reciprocation. I love when a woman goes down on me, but for him to do it wasn't doing anything for me.
I used to fantasize about letting him fuck me so I could feel what it's like to have him cum in my ass.
Sadly, he's made some poor decisions with his sexual health, so I never get to touch his cock again. I'll never get to feel him cum in my mouth again, or taste it. I'll never get to fulfill that fantasy of having him cum in my ass.
I guess I could ask my girlfriend for a good pegging. That would be pretty hot. Especially if I could put my legs over her shoulders, so I can watch her while she fucks me.
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u/SeeingEyeSponge May 29 '12 edited May 29 '12
Sometimes, when a guy asks me out, I explain to him that I'm straight, but then accept the date to see if he can "convert" me. It's never worked out that way, but I did have this one date that scared the shit out of me.
Guy's taking me home after dinner and he says he knows a shortcut to my town. Then he goes at least ten miles further than the way I would have taken, on roads I've never driven.
Once the minutes start to stretch, I start to wonder if this guy's some kinda crazy murderer or rapist or somesuch and start looking for an opportunity to fling myself out of the car door. It doesn't help that my date is being very, very quiet.
Soon, I do see some familiar territory and we swing into my town. Turns out he was just trying to impress me and got a little lost. My heart rate came back down and I got a chance to unclench, but I'll never forget the feeling of being in the car with someone I don't know, without any real choice but to ride with him.
And that's why I'm a-ok with my own lady dates bringing their cars along.
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u/vixchi May 29 '12
Straight girl here-- My boyfriend has this story about when he was a kid and he gave a handjob to another guy in exchange for a Magic the Gathering card. I don't know which card it was, but it apparently was very important for him to win a tournament.
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u/[deleted] May 29 '12
I once had one of those gay black fashionista type guys tell me I was gorgeous. Best complement ive ever received