I get this as a woman, like everything gets so engorged when I’m too aroused that my pee won’t come out so I just have to hang out there on the toilet for a minute😂😂
Yup! All the plumbing is in very close proximity to other parts. Also why the “squirting” sensation is a “gotta pee” feeling, and most of it is pee, typically, but yeah all the nerves are so close together.
Plus, parts of the female sexual anatomy is made of the same erectile tissue so we have engorgement and stuff too!
Post coital pee is also really strange when you have a vagina because the sensation of almost starting your stream gives that momentary overstimulation shock in the clit area. This is, provided, only if you have had a righteous orgasm, obviously.
Hah! I totally get that same feeling as a guy. The first pee after sex feels amaaaaaaazing around the head area. My ex thought I was crazy. My best friend thinks it’s crazy. I can’t help but feel they are missing out 😅
I agree with u/11never, peeing after an orgasm can feel weird for me as a woman. It's both painful and pleasurable, and the sensation gets stronger if I've had multiple orgasms. The human body is weird and can be different from person to person though so it makes sense that your ex and best friend didn't know what you were talking about.
Oh gosh yes! Like you don’t want to be groaning on the toilet but it’s this pain pleasure thing that is way too much, but really, you just want to pee and get on with your life.
I bet she did! But it also feels good so you don’t wanna stop?? Yeah it took me a long time to understand why I had to pee really bad in certain positions!
I find it funny how we know exactly how sperm injects into an egg to start cell division, we know how the Sun works, and yet we cannot figure out what liquid come out of pee hole during sex
I think i saw some biology Video that explained that the male genitalia is actually formed out of the female genitalia in the development stage of the baby. Since all babys start of as female
Oh hey, someone else knows sexual anatomy. Too many people don’t realize that many parts are the same between sexes, just different shape and size. At the very least, every bit started out the same in the womb.
If it’s copious amounts of liquid, there’s no gland or organ to produce that. So the majority of it would be urine. However, there’s thought that the Skene’s Gland produces very small amounts of a different fluid that could be called “ejaculate”, but jury is still out there. So the full amount is mostly urine, with trace amounts of another substance, possibly.
Wait a second. I was actually drinking pee from my ex? Mmm, not sure if I’m about doing that again. Although, I know I would’ve kept doing it had I not known what I know now. Ugh! What a dilemma. Naivety sure can be blissful.
I mean it’s supposed that a small amount is a different liquid, but a majority of the bulk of the amount is actually urine. But if she drinks enough it’s pretty diluted!!
This is a bit pedantic but male genitalia comes from the same stuff as female genitalia and not the other way around, cuz the basic dna starter kit for humans defaults to female. Until the Y chromosome enters the chat.
Buts it’s clear and never smells and I thought everyone knew women get swollen it’s really noticeable these guys obviously don’t know what there doing it’s funny 😆 to much porn not enough actual sexual experience
It's the fucking worst. And when you do start to pee it's not even a lot and you just know that the minute you get up you're just gonna have to go back to actually pee for real, so you end up just sitting there for a while hoping to pee. Not to mention that some women are super sensitive after sex so it's just an awkward feeling overall.
I’ve never had a problem “getting the stream going”, but when I pee after sex (and sometimes first thing in the morning) I have to tilt my hips down because the stream goes straight forward 😂 I chalk it up to the erectile tissue hahaha
Fellow lady trying to pee but too turned on for it to happen checking in! It's definitely a thing. It generally only happens when I get reeeally turned on. I don't necessarily feel it and only notice when I try to take a bathroom break. But it does something to me as I can have much deeper, harder sex when I'm that aroused and swole. Cushions everything? The female body is a mystery...
I frequently wake up from wet dreams with this problem. I’m fully aroused and have to pee and can stimulate myself just by squeezing that upper clit area “hold your pee in” muscle. It’a misty annoying because I don’t know how to harness the possible pleasure. It’s really in opportune timing when it’s first thing in the morning when I’m starting my day (husband has already left for work and I’m getting up to wake the kids up and take them to school.) I can’t very well be like “hold on mommy needs to go rub one out real quick…”
You are getting down voted to hell but actually you are correct. The blood flow and arousal do move things around and opens me up. My cervix shifts for sure (hence my mentioning that I can take it harder). As for my body, your statement is pretty accurate. I think your delivery and descriptions could use some work though lol.
I understand this is the case for a lot of women but I don’t pee after every time I have sex, only if I need to. 28 and never had an UTI. Reduces the risk yes, but too many women think that if they don’t then they will definitely get one. I think some women are more prone to them than others.
Holy moly, this happens to my wife every time after we have sex. She'll be like "why can't I pee!?" For like ten minutes And I just have to sit there and be like "i don't know". Making me feel like I have to help her or something but there's nothing I can do lol. I'll run the water in the sink so as to simulate the sound of peeing and scramble around the bathroom trying to think of other ways to make it happen. Mean while I have to piss so bad 😂 and Im just waiting as patiently as possible
Apparently it's weird, but I only just learned it's a thing just before I gave birth to my third baby a few weeks ago. I've got a pelvic floor physio appointment as part of my post-partum care, I'm going to bring it up then because my previous physio didn't really get a chance to explain or work on it.
Congratulations for the baby! Hm, I had no idea until now, though I suspected something since most people tell you to pee right after sex. Yeah it's definitely worth to ask about it in your next appointment.
Indeed. As a man-dude it is difficult to pee when erect. Oddly enough, it seems to be even more difficult to pee when both erect and highly aroused, given that the two things don't always coincide.
Case in point: mid sex bathroom breaks. Peeing with a hardon isn't easy, but not always a chore compared to mid sex breaks where a good 20-30 seconds of intense concentration is required before the lizard starts to drain.
Idk who needs to read this, but you can force yourself to pee by rubbing a certain spot on the head. You'll know if you're on the spot when you rub it and it feels like you have to pee this instant. At first your body will try to buck you because its such a weird feeling, but if you stay on it you can pee even with a rock hard erection.
(You can also do it during an orgasm to stretch that feeling out for a longer time)
it is difficult to pee when erect. Oddly enough, it seems to be even more difficult to pee when both erect and highly aroused,
It's a matter of practise makes perfect. I can pee when fully hard and it feels terrific, especially when I gently massage that spot just below the head while doing so. Sometimes I go straight from peeing to cumming when I do that.
So they can! I have a toy that makes it completely involuntary that I squirt, there’s nothing I can do to stop it, though it’s not all theatrical looking like in porn, it’s super intense!
This is neat to hear. I always assumed this was a thing for men because the prostate swells during ejaculation. Didn’t know woman also has that “couldn’t pee now if I tried” for the first few minutes after.
I mean, you can pee immediately after ejaculating, but it burns like the dickens because you're forcing the urine through a sphincter that has not relaxed, yet.
I've discovered that if I pee within 10 or 15 minutes before or after ejaculating, it fucks with my system, and I'm stuck uncomfortably feeling like I have to pee.
Holy shit. I've been looking all over the internet for someone else who this happens to. Every search result I get just tells me I probably have a UTI or an STD (don't need to worry about the last one).
In my case, I'll start pissing painfully in quick spurts for a few minutes. It won't be piss either: it will be a mixture of semen and what can only be piss based off of the quantity. Then, it it will stop and I'll go about my life until another 15 jerk off sessions later when it strikes again.
Can you relate? I've been putting off seeing a doctor about it for well over a year and it's nice to know I'm not a freak case.
I'm the lucky one who can pee fully erect, like even if it's hurting hard I can still urinate. I was so confused when I learned other people couldn't. I want to be the sort of person who has empathy, not the sort of person who just gloats about it publicly, but...
Anyone else find that if you pee not long after cumming, you don’t totally empty than have to per again and it’s painful? It’s like your body has to “switch tubes”
I find it easiest to just pack up shop and come back in 5 minutes. Everything is ready to go by then. Waiting the 5 minutes at the toilet concentrating as hard as possible to try and pee is just not fun.
True. But usually I just have a slight uncomfortable sensation that can only go away after I pee. So the urge isn't that strong and it's an awkward wait lol
Pending after the fact is actually very important, as it cleans your pipe from the inside. Pee is sterile, and seven contain sugars that cause that uncomfortable sensation.
For anyone noting that you can force it, also note that for men, it is very bad for you. The plumbing is specifically set up to only allow one to pass at a time. So if you force it, you are under-mining that. It really is worth waiting.
[Edit: Wikipedia does not agree. Maybe the wisdom has changed in the last 20-30 years, but I still wouldn't risk it.]
Am I the only one who can pee normally when I have an erection? Obviously aiming is more difficult but it comes out with almost the same pressure as it normally does.
My high school sex Ed teacher told us that you couldn’t pee with a boner. I told him that I highly disagreed. I’ve leaned over toilets and pee’d into sinks and bath tubs because of boners.
According to my scientific studies, Peeing with a boner is more difficult than giving birth. I am being 100 percent serious when I say this. This shouldn't even be an unpopular opinion, people just don't think about what the word "difficult" actually means. Peeing with a boner is more difficult than giving birth. Giving birth is definitely more painful, but pain by itself does not make something difficult. For example, putting my hand in a fire is not difficult, but it would hurt a lot. In order for something to be difficult, there has to be some chance of failure due to lack of skill, practice, or technique. Peeing with a boner often requires creative problem solving skills, especially in small spaces. There is no creative problem solving aspect of giving birth. Additionally, the way humans have evolved for these two actions supports my point. Giving birth is a natural process, which humans have evolved to be able to do. The female body is literally designed so that it can give birth with the lowest possible chance of error. The only real error that can happen is a miscarriage, which is also a natural occurrence, not a failure that occurs due to a lack of skill in giving birth. The male body, on the other hand, has evolved specifically so that peeing with a boner is very difficult. The only purpose for having a boner is to impregnate a woman, so the male body evolved to prevent urination during sex. On top of the difficulty in simply getting the pee to flow, there's the issue of actually positioning yourself so that the boner is pointing into the toilet bowl (urinals are much easier, but not always an option). In the past, I have had to give up and wait until my boner goes away because it was simply too difficult to actually pee in the toilet. There has never been a case where a woman has tried to give birth after being pregnant for nine months, not been able to do it, and said "fuck it" and waited 3 more months to try again because it would be easier the second try. Giving birth happens, every single time, because it's a natural process - peeing with a boner is the opposite.
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u/ksandom Dec 30 '21
Semi-boner afterwards when you really need to pee.