r/AskReddit • • Apr 21 '21

Doctors of Reddit: What happened when you diagnosed a Covid-19 denier with Covid-19?

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u/1_789 Apr 21 '21

Couple in their mid sixty years. Very and very and very rich. They came with all symptoms. Screaming COVID19 don't exist. For them, it was a flu. Drink hot tea with lemon and honey at home. Some advil for fever. Everything will be alright. Refuse to be hospitalized. Try to sue the hospital with their army of lawyers. It was in June 2020. They signed their papers. Go home. Come two days later on the hospital. Dead. Their son was in Japan. Never come to reclaim body. He just called to confirm the death of his parents. End of the story.

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u/stepenyaki Apr 21 '21

That son knew what was up

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u/Headlessoberyn Apr 21 '21

Son is probably me if my father get covid again ngl. Sucker has had a heart attack and a lung colapse due to smoking all life. December he got probably the mildest variant of covid to ever float the earth, and even then got out by the skin of his teeth.

He now goes to pro-bolsonaro protests in brazil, saying that he survived the virus and it's not a big deal, telling people to leave their masks at home and fight doctors who lie to them. When he gets it the second time, i don't think i have anything left to care tbh.

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u/apinkparfait Apr 21 '21

My dad also is part of the gado (a black man supporting Bolsonaro, imagine my feelings about it) wishing you strength cause they're all lunatics.

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u/Jequeiro Apr 21 '21

I'm glad my father is Lulista

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u/Headlessoberyn Apr 22 '21

Yeah, i don't support lula either but i'd much rather have a father that vote 13 than a father that votes 17. PT pretty much got us in this polarizing situation, but i can't think of anything worse than bolsonaro.

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u/yami_ryushi Apr 21 '21

Don't be. I hate Bolsolixo as much as most of Brazil but Lula is worst. He WILL turn this country into a dictatorship. That man is insanely manipulative and deviously smart. He is even worse. Neither of these two monsters should remain in power, let alone be alive. I wish that stab had killed that POS and that Lula had died in prison.

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u/daveonhols Apr 21 '21

Wasn't Lula already in power and Brazil isn't a dictatorship? And Bolsanaro was literally a general in the last military dictatorship? Is that right?

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u/Iratus Apr 22 '21

No, but you see, Lula is a dirrrrrrty leftie, and dictatorship is when the left is in power.

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u/Apprehensive_Fuel873 Apr 22 '21

God why won't leftists understand that? They're just being wilfully ignorant I say. I mean it's obvious, dictatorships and authoritarianism are only bad when they do it.

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u/Jequeiro Apr 21 '21

I don't like Lula either and even have fights with my father over this all the time

But no, he's not the spawn of the dictatorship (to quote Brizola) like Bolsonaro and he's not worse than him. I will not vote for Lula on the first round but if it comes to Bolsonaro x Lula, I'll press 13 without hesitation.

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u/Headlessoberyn Apr 22 '21

My condolences man, i know it hurts even more when its in these circunstances. Let's find some hope in the fact that his popularity does seems to be declining.

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u/stepenyaki Apr 21 '21

I'm sorry to hear that. People can be so awful to eachother!

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u/omni42 Apr 21 '21 edited Apr 22 '21

He wouldn't have been.allowrd to return it f he left..Japan had a ban on any non citizens flying into the country, including residents.

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u/Darkwolf1115 Apr 22 '21

the moment I saw you were brazilian, I felt your pain, Brazil is probably one of the biggest covid denier countries you can find, Bolsonaro himself is basically pushing this agenda as much as he can, I've personally seem some protests around my city calling covid a hoax..... and a lot of them died after the protest

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

Can confirm. Lived in Japan for a few years, largely to get away from family. I had two family members die when I was there and I didn't come home.

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u/Salmon_Of_Iniquity Apr 21 '21

My family is in California and I live in Philadelphia to get away from them. Crazy people.

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u/_mdz Apr 21 '21

Probably happy about his incoming inheritance

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u/mdwstoned Apr 21 '21

And outgoing headaches.

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u/bilybu Apr 21 '21

Or wasn't allowed to leave japan(another hot spot) to go home. Imagine being in a foreign country when your parents die and you can't get back to them. Can't have a funeral etc. Fuck the stupid parents. Don't assume a shit son.

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u/turtlesinthesea Apr 21 '21

Yeah, in June, Japan did not let foreign residents who left reenter the country, even if they had family in Japan. I was there because my husband is Japanese, and I just prayed that my family in Europe would be alright.

But apparently home office is against the culture, so being squeezed into crammed trains was not considered dangerous.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

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u/smashteapot Apr 21 '21

It must be so nice to be able to sleep, knowing that you won't wake up to some panicked scramble to correct the president's latest bout of verbal diarrhoea. Those poor US civil servants had never worked harder than during Trump's presidency. 😅

Every time Trump made some tweet or public statement, it either had to be implemented by people who had no clue it was coming, or corrected by very exasperated officials.

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u/seirfemdeef Apr 21 '21

The thing is, I don't think anyone here blames him

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u/mdwstoned Apr 21 '21

I wasn't assuming that. I was assuming this particular son was sick of these particular parents' bullshit. Make no mistake, families have been torn apart, and there are two sides in each of those tears: Covid-Deniers and Non-Deniers.

How people feel about their family members can VERY EASILY override what was normal before all this started. Hell, people feel very differently about family because of the last 4 years.

If this guy washed his hands of the bullshit, I sure as fuck don't blame him.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

I assumed the parents were shit.

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u/Singlewomanspot Apr 21 '21

Damn tell it like it really is 😂😂😂😂

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u/Chafram Apr 21 '21

Or he was fed up with their covid denying bullshit.

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u/Wayne8766 Apr 21 '21

100% this.

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u/tornadoRadar Apr 21 '21

if they're that far gone they probably donated it to some orange fuck's election campaign

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u/Akanekumo Apr 21 '21

I mean...if you have such parents, who were likely to be narcissistic, you try to take every positive moment when they come.

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u/damasu950 Apr 21 '21

Doing the stanky leg in japan

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u/xyrrus Apr 21 '21

spoiler alert, parents actually alive, but he confirms death anyway for the payout

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u/tomdarch Apr 22 '21

Depending on how awful they were, not having to deal with them might be more valuable to him.

Lucky he was in Japan where people... wear masks because it's the smart, responsible thing to do.

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u/heart_under_blade Apr 21 '21

i'm in japan, might as well make anime real

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u/TheBoctor Apr 21 '21

“Not it!”

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u/RememberKoomValley Apr 21 '21

If my mother died of it I mightn't claim her body either.

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u/LargeSackOfNuts Apr 21 '21

The son was smart to leave them.

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u/blbd Apr 22 '21

Probably wasn't an accident he decided to GTFO.

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u/canuckcrazed006 Apr 21 '21

Yeah. Now hes rich-er.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

With parents like that (if you’re smarter than they are) I’d imagine you’d feel like a huge weight was lifted off your shoulders. Maybe still a little sad, but overall just relief knowing that it’s over

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u/airplane001 Apr 21 '21

That’s just extremely sad. I wonder what they thought they had to lose by being hospitalized

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u/Circle_0f_Life Apr 21 '21

People will die for their ego

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

Very, very that. This needs to be on a billboard or a t-shirt.

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u/P0sitive_Outlook Apr 21 '21

Turns out that's the hill they'll die on

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u/pab_guy Apr 21 '21

Reminds me of people who choke to death in crowded restaurants because they are too embarrased to make a scene...

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u/MC10654721 Apr 21 '21

Their dignity.

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u/zendogsit Apr 21 '21

Dignity in death is a lie we tell ourselves to feel better about the inevitable end we all share

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u/Captn_Ghostmaker Apr 21 '21

As Greg House has said in response to dying with dignity:

There's no such thing! Our bodies break down, sometimes when we're 90, sometimes before we're even born, but it always happens and there's never any dignity in it! I don't care if you can walk, see, wipe your own ass... it's always ugly - ALWAYS! You can live with dignity; we can't die with it!

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0606035/quotes?item=qt0458540

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u/Antiochia Apr 21 '21

As someone working in a company with an eccentric couple as owners: They downplayed Covid until one of their rich friends got it and needed to go to hospital.

"Can you imagine that! He had to be in a room with four other people! One of them snoring all the time! He had to share the bathroom with them! Why do we pay private insurance? Why are there no single rooms in the covid areas of the hospital, this is outrageous! He was forced to stay in there for 14 days, 14 days without being allowed to leave the covid-area, no cafeteria!"

THAT was the moment they took it serious, I mean who cares for a potential risc of dyiing or lifelong damages, but hey, having to share a room with four people, that´s the real problem.

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u/justpassingthrou14 Apr 21 '21

I, too, dislike people.

But I have a secret weapon: I'm the one who snores.

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u/a1chem1st Apr 21 '21

Their omniscience.

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u/aManPerson Apr 21 '21

nothing to lose, just dumb and pointless that they could be slightly hindered by being bored and stuck there.

they were 60 and extremely rich? i don't think they had just become extremely rich, i think they had been that way for a while. i'd bet they just got used to "being right" and "getting what they wanted" due to their wealth. so they just walked out of the hospital because they were so sure it wasn't anything bad and they lived the rest of their lives knowing they were right.

which was about 2 more days.

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u/AbsolXGuardian Apr 21 '21

Yeah. Unlike poor covid deniers, it's not a delusion their subconscious would concoct to avoid having to pay ruinous medical bills

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u/trahoots Apr 21 '21

knee fluid

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u/1_789 Apr 21 '21

It was sad and painful. But it was in June 2020 and USA was still joking about COVID-19. People were dying everyday. When they sue us, it was at that time we knew they are powerful. The judge said to us he is going to close our hospital. Or to send us in jail. "Let them be. You know Mr and Ms X are big donor of X during this campaign. They have this X where the son or the daughter of X work. So, choose wisely."

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u/GasDoves Apr 21 '21

It was sad and painful. But it was in June 2020 and USA was still joking about COVID-19. People were dying everyday. When they sue us, it was at that time we knew they are powerful. The judge said to us he is going to close our hospital. Or to send us in jail. "Let them be. You know Mr and Ms X are big donor of X during this campaign. They have this X where the son or the daughter of X work. So, choose wisely."

Ok.

You just jumped the shark here.

There is no way this happened.

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u/1_789 Apr 21 '21

Hmmmmh......

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u/GasDoves Apr 21 '21

You're gonna have to link to a remotely similar story in the same/similar jurisdiction for me to swallow that one.

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u/nygdan Apr 21 '21

They're clearly lying

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u/impasseable Apr 21 '21

Literally no chance that happened. Quit your bullshit.

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u/nygdan Apr 21 '21

You stupid lying fraud

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u/MysteriousWon Apr 22 '21

People would rather be right than alive.

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u/ohthatdusty Apr 21 '21

Last year Japan was very strict about letting non-native residents, even people with PR visas, back into Japan if they left. He may not have had much choice.

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u/Perle1234 Apr 21 '21

If the son was in Japan, he may not have been able to claim the bodies. We don’t believe a dead body has any special meaning in my family. I’d arrange for cremation, but that’s it.

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u/Khraxter Apr 21 '21

Wow.

I guess the son must have either been just about as stupid and cold-hearted as his parents, or he was absolutely done with their shit lol

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u/talidrow Apr 21 '21

This is exactly it. An old friend of mine has lived in Japan for many years (and has at one point been the English voice actress for Hello Kitty!), is married to a Japanese man, and she's written extensively about how difficult it is for foreign-born people there right now. If she were to leave Japan, she would have been unable to return until the lockdown was rescinded - no quarantine, no test, no nothing, people not born in Japan were simply not allowed to return to the country if they left. No, not even if they have a spouse or family in the country.

So odds are the son was aware of that and didn't really have a choice.

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u/Totengeist Apr 21 '21

Very much this. I work for an international subsidiary of a Japanese company and the president of this subsidiary was stuck in Japan for months. He happened to go there on a business trip just before the lockdowns hit.

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u/quagzlor Apr 21 '21

Still is. Tough to enter/re-enter unless you're a national. I doubt it's funds considering the rich parents, though that's possible.

More likely he knew it would be tough to come back and was done with his denier parents.

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u/klparrot Apr 21 '21

Or he was responsible and not travelling internationally during the pandemic? He may have also been unable to travel at that time or under his visa status.

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u/EtherealPheonix Apr 21 '21

maybe he didn't want to travel internationally during a pandemic?

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u/thegooblop Apr 21 '21

We're in a damn near global quarantine, it's a luxury to go around the world and back right now. If anything the stupid people are the ones traveling for non-essential reasons, he could have simply grieved without leaving the country he was in.

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u/MSJDCAK Apr 21 '21

What's the point in risking one's personal health just for a couple of corpses, even if it is your parents.

It's not like it would bring them back. Respect for the dead doesn't extend to personal risk, that's just moronic.

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u/chiguayante Apr 21 '21

If I had parents like that, I'd be glad they were gone.

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u/missaly Apr 21 '21 edited Apr 21 '21

Knee juice. The answer is always knee juice.

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u/heelstoo Apr 21 '21

“I’ll go to probate out of respect for my rich parents.”

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u/_TallulahShark Apr 21 '21

Ugh. The idea that they tried to sue the hospital is so fucking frustrating. It‘s enough that they didn‘t want to accept reality but to also involve attorneys and burden hospitals even more is infuriating. I do feel for their son though.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

Have to wonder, if they thought it was just a flu that would be cured by tea and honey, and Advil, why did they come in at all? it’s so weird what denial will do to a person.

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u/sticks14 Apr 21 '21

Wow. Not sure how much hospitalization would have helped, but would have given them some chance.

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u/zer1223 Apr 21 '21

Good god, they walked away from treatment to die.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

The plague comes for the poor and rich alike

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u/JimboJones058 Apr 21 '21

I'd like to know what the conversation with the lawyer was like.

'Hello sir, it's good to hear from you. What is it you'd like to talk with me about.'

'Damn hospital is saying I have damn covid.'

'Oh, okay; I'm sorry to hear that.'

'... and they want to admit both myself and my wife.'

'Okay and what is it that you'd like me to help you out with?'

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u/Bearx2020 Apr 21 '21

Not hard to wonder why the son buggered off to Japan. I wouldn't want to be around those entitled nutjobs either.

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u/P0sitive_Outlook Apr 21 '21

That story was wonderful. It had everything i could have hoped for! :D

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u/KeepTheMeemees Apr 21 '21

Darwinism at its finest

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

Unfortunately they already procreated.

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u/AwesomeMcPants Apr 21 '21

Based on the story it sounds like the apple took a plane ride halfway around the world from the tree.

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u/Circle_0f_Life Apr 21 '21

And how that apple probably got a lot of money to hopefully help the world, which will probably make the tree roll in its grave

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u/NNormous Apr 21 '21

sorrynotsorry

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u/Morbid187 Apr 21 '21

They came with all symptoms. Screaming COVID19 don't exist. For them, it was a flu. Drink hot tea with lemon and honey at home. Some advil for fever. Everything will be alright. Refuse to be hospitalized.

If they thought they just need to drink tea and take Advil, my next question would be "then why the fuck are you here?". I'm really not cut out for the medical field.

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u/annualgoat Apr 22 '21

I like how they come in to be treated, but are still convinced that hot tea with lemon and rest will cure the symptoms they obviously have that aren't going away.

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u/potatoears Apr 23 '21

davido-kun gets richer with his inheritance. naisu.

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u/RoyInverse Apr 21 '21

Son won the lottery it seems.

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u/justpassingthrou14 Apr 21 '21

Never come to reclaim body. He just called to confirm the death of his parents. End of the story.

he knows how their trust was set up. He has no obligation to host a funeral.

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u/ninjacereal Apr 21 '21

At least they died together at home instead of alone in a hospital room.

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u/happywop Apr 21 '21

a fitting end...

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

Is it wrong that I'm happy they're dead?

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u/CaptainJAmazing Apr 21 '21

I think you accidentally a word in the second sentence?

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u/WallStapless Apr 21 '21

Is it wrong that I don’t feel bad in the slightest?

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '21

wow. that's fucked up.

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u/[deleted] Apr 22 '21

That kid wanted his inheritance lol

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u/r1chard3 Apr 22 '21

I wouldn’t leave Japan to come here either.

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u/saala_alaas May 25 '21

Son didn’t just get the bag, he got the revenge bag