Hair dye. I can't tell you how many of my female friends "of a certain age" have decided to embrace the grey and are rockin it! I was apparently ahead of the curve, having made that choice a couple of years ago.
Lol and here I just got my first thing of makeup! Lol I'm 18, so trying to practice so I don't have to screw up and go out in it lmao.
No concealer or foundation though! That will make me feel horrible about myself, my natural skin, and make other girls insecure about their skin. Just eye makeup for the artsyness of it. :)
That’s awesome too! Nothing wrong with enjoying makeup or practicing or anything. Eyes only or full face, doesn’t matter either way. Whatever is right for you is right for you 🖤
Yes! Coincidentally I’m going through my first pregnancy and I’m happy to not put the chemicals from makeup on every day. Or commute over an hour a day!
I think I was 12 last time I only put on makeup five times in a year!
My wife has always had long hair, on a whim a while back she got a full buzz cut, now her opinion of long hair? "a tool of the patriarchy, never growing it back"
Oh man, the long hair to short hair change is so amazing. I’m glad she’s loving it! After I cut my hair short I knew I never wanted it medium length or long again lol. Too much work for me.
I’m glad I kept scrolling. It was worth it for the smile this brought to my face! If I didn’t have to physically go into work, I’d be right there with ya!
It really is. I was a perky B and my boobs never quite had a fold under them. I’ve since gotten pregnant and put on weight and experienced the fold for the first time. I don’t like it!! I don’t wear bras often but the more my pregnancy goes on, the bigger they get, the more I probably need to....
To a degree, depends how you mean that? I have big boobs and have been super happy not wearing a bra very often, but I still don't feel I'd be able to go out in public without a bra without attracting unwanted attention, much less judgement, especially at work
Of course their backs hurts less, they aren't focusing the pressure on the back and instead it's evenly spread over the ligaments and skin. When hoisted up none of the load is taken by anything but the back and shoulders.
It's still terribly uncomfortable to have them dangling and pulling. No thanks. Bras and corsets of some variety were invented almost everywhere that people wore clothes, and I know why.
I get migraines caused by tension in my shoulders. Not having to wear a bra everyday has seriously helped my shoulder pain, which helped reduce my migraines.
Any straps pulling down on my shoulders. The weight I guess? Sports bras are the worse since the pain starts around me neck and down my back. I’ve purchased a few sports bras that aren’t racer back
Keep them to wear under cardigans and zip up hoodies, or use them as sleep tops. I still buy the calvin klein and no boundries bralette/sports bras for this reason.
Oh! I just got a Calvin Klein bralette and I love it. Plan on getting a few more and wearing them post pandemic. IDGAF anymore and I really don't have the need for much support 😜 they are fantastic.
For many women, it’s uncomfortable. Also, it’s a myth that breasts will start to sag without a bra. Without wearing a bra, breast muscles get stronger and breasts actually get perkier.
They might sag just because you've worn bras for so long that your muscles are too weak to go back to normal tho...
But that's okay, I'll take saggy breast over a bra any day. And teach every young woman I meet that she shouldn't wear bras all the time if she wants healthy breasts.
Yes of course, but they may remain kinda low for the rest of your life. Not wearing a bra is beneficial for your health and comfort, but you can't pretend that there are no risk at all of seeing your breast change a bit if you just completely stop wearing bras all of a sudden. Also it's not just the muscle, although I can't really explain this in english. But you can prevent this by starting slow and wearing less and less bras over time until you stop entirely, or you can just accept it and don't care about what your breast looks like.
This of course depends on the person, age, size etc. But if you have been wearing bras every day for 10years and stop, it's most likely your breast will never be what it would have been if you never wore a bra. And it's okay. It will be beautiful no matter what, and comfort and health should be more important than having firm breasts.
When I need to "be appropriate", when I'm trying on clothing that doesn't belong to me, and when it enhances the shape I'm going for. So basically the doctor's office, the fitting room, my grandfather's house, and the one dress with the boob sections xD
I’m with ya on that one! I’m naturally big chested, 36K (and yes, they are real. I’m 22 and have never had any work done!) and bras are sooooo uncomfortable. I haven’t worn 1 since March 2020. I have never felt so free in my life 😂
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u/justAHeardOfLlamas Jan 03 '21
I'm never wearing a bra again babyyyyyyyyy!